No wonder so many men are shit fathers, where everyone thinks it doesn't matter whether a child has a dad and I assume also they won't be as upset if dad dies as they would be if mum died. I hope you are not all bringing up your DC with this mindset.
DS has a great relationship with his dad and I think it is sad that so many women think this is worthless
I think the whole situation is grim. @ffsnotagainandagain do you not think the child will be harmed when their dad dies when they are young