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Al Pacino (83) having child with his 29 year old girlfrienc

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Seagullsbythesea · 31/05/2023 11:25

Aibu to think the media portray it as perfectly ok for an 83 year old man to have a child with a 29 year old woman but when it’s older women having babies, it’s portrayed as selfish etc. Incredible!

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/al-pacino-girlfriend-noor-alfallah-expecting-baby-b2348623.html

Al Pacino, 83, expecting his fourth child with 29-year-old girlfriend Noor Alfallah

Alfallah is reportedly a month away from giving birth

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/al-pacino-girlfriend-noor-alfallah-expecting-baby-b2348623.html

OP posts:
Feefee10 · 31/05/2023 14:48

Eugh he's the same age as my grandfather that's gross. Why would you want old man sperm?

Martha70 · 31/05/2023 14:50

Fififafa · 31/05/2023 12:43

I’m having my lunch. Next time can we have a trigger warning 🤢🤮

This!

Feefee10 · 31/05/2023 14:50

Astrabees · 31/05/2023 13:36

There is a lot of unpleasant ageism on this thread. It is one thing to be critical of them having a child when the age gap is so great but what is it with the “geriatric cock” and similar comments? What age do the posters think that you have become so repulsive you can’t be loved? 60, 70? I ‘m sure they will have thought this through.

It's the age gap would a young man want to sleep with an 80 year old woman. No nothing wrong with two 60 , 70 , 80 year olds sleeping together. She would not shag him and have his baby if he was poor.

Feefee10 · 31/05/2023 14:52

Chowtime · 31/05/2023 13:04

Ah fuck it I'm gonna say it.

Thats quite a shrewd move she's made there. Given half the chance I'd have done the same.

Really you would have sex multiple times with an 83 year old and get pregnant by him have his wrinkled hands all over your body. I couldn't do it. I hope she's got someone else's sperm

SnackQueen · 31/05/2023 14:55

Both parties so gross and selfish.

Chowtime · 31/05/2023 15:12

stayflufft · 31/05/2023 14:46

83 year old sperm 😱

Sperm is never 83 years old - didn't you learn the facts of life? It's 2 to 3 months old.

And as for older fathers and genetic diseases - i'm pretty sure they will have had all the checks and tests that exist.

Artycrafts · 31/05/2023 15:15

Shame the mother put millions in cash, before her child's bonding in future years with the father.

Fairyliz · 31/05/2023 15:20

🤢 Thanks op at least I will stick to my diet today I feel sick after reading that.

JaneJeffer · 31/05/2023 15:32
al pacino film GIF

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Artycrafts · 31/05/2023 15:40

JaneJeffer · 31/05/2023 15:32

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Pallisers · 31/05/2023 15:42

It seems like she has a definite type.

I don't know about the golddigger comments. I get the impression that she comes from a very wealthy background herself and has a pretty good job.

toomuchlaundry · 31/05/2023 15:45

No wonder so many men are shit fathers, where everyone thinks it doesn't matter whether a child has a dad and I assume also they won't be as upset if dad dies as they would be if mum died. I hope you are not all bringing up your DC with this mindset.

DS has a great relationship with his dad and I think it is sad that so many women think this is worthless

I think the whole situation is grim. @ffsnotagainandagain do you not think the child will be harmed when their dad dies when they are young

callmesophia · 31/05/2023 15:50

Tiddlypomtiddlypom · 31/05/2023 12:42

Men are such complete disappointments.

Ha ha this!!

ohdelay · 31/05/2023 15:54

KimberleyClark · 31/05/2023 13:46

MN is ageist as fuck especially about older men. Not that there’s anything ageist about saying it’s selfish for men in their 70s and 80s to have kids, but the “geriatric cock” and “balls hanging down o knees” comments are horrible.

I stand by it. She is 29, unless this is a very specific fetish it is not what 29 year olds tend to fancy or want in them. I can't believe you even mentioned love, this is business. I'm just saying it's a hard job. Her child's dad will be dead before uni, possibly before secondary school, maybe next year. Same with de Niro's latest little miracle. Call a spade a spade.

Summerfun2023 · 31/05/2023 15:55

Astrabees · 31/05/2023 13:36

There is a lot of unpleasant ageism on this thread. It is one thing to be critical of them having a child when the age gap is so great but what is it with the “geriatric cock” and similar comments? What age do the posters think that you have become so repulsive you can’t be loved? 60, 70? I ‘m sure they will have thought this through.

The majority of posters are women funny that isn't it. If my hubby god forbid he passed I will meet someone my own age or younger. I don't mind being a cougar.

KimberleyClark · 31/05/2023 15:56

ohdelay · 31/05/2023 15:54

I stand by it. She is 29, unless this is a very specific fetish it is not what 29 year olds tend to fancy or want in them. I can't believe you even mentioned love, this is business. I'm just saying it's a hard job. Her child's dad will be dead before uni, possibly before secondary school, maybe next year. Same with de Niro's latest little miracle. Call a spade a spade.

Where did I mention love?

Summerfun2023 · 31/05/2023 15:56

ohdelay · 31/05/2023 15:54

I stand by it. She is 29, unless this is a very specific fetish it is not what 29 year olds tend to fancy or want in them. I can't believe you even mentioned love, this is business. I'm just saying it's a hard job. Her child's dad will be dead before uni, possibly before secondary school, maybe next year. Same with de Niro's latest little miracle. Call a spade a spade.

It's Al Pacino are you serious that man even at his age is hot.

JaneJeffer · 31/05/2023 15:57

What age do the posters think that you have become so repulsive you can’t be loved? 60, 70?
By a 29 year old?

ohdelay · 31/05/2023 16:05

Summerfun2023 · 31/05/2023 15:56

It's Al Pacino are you serious that man even at his age is hot.

83 will never be physically attractive to 29. Stop making out that she feels any physical attraction to him at all. I worked in nursing homes with younger residents and have washed them. Just hang your head.

Equalitea · 31/05/2023 16:07

SparklyBlackKitten · 31/05/2023 12:45

This 29 year old is the craziest of the two imo 😳🤮🤮🤮 what the fuck

Or the smartest. She will never have to work again.

CAJIE · 31/05/2023 16:10

Who really cares? And if women 50 plus have the support or money and want to do this let them.It isnt your business.Sometimes really awful parents linger for years and their kids wait for their deaths Its not about how long u live and who cares about seeing your grandkids..if there are any.You are forcing your normative views on others i just get annoyed that women call themselves geriatric mothers at 40 and generally slag other women off for having babies ultra late.there is way too much ageism in fostering and adoption also.Julia Peyton Jones the art director had her child by surrogate with a friends sperm i think.She was 64.Her child will hopefully have her for 30 years as her family is long lived.If not she is surrounded by aunts and cousins.Julia probably wont see grandkids.so what.shes given her daughter amazing advantages.Yes she is rich
But i think people should adopt or foster more but older women are discriminated against.i just want some equalisation here..

StrawberryWater · 31/05/2023 16:14

Grim.

Tell me what first attracted you to the multi millionaire octogenarian Al Pacino?

QueefQueen80s · 31/05/2023 16:16

The ageism is towards men with younger women, not old men in general. They are disgusting.

toomuchlaundry · 31/05/2023 16:24

@CAJIE the child should come first not the mum or dad, it's not about money. Money cannot replace a parent

lljkk · 31/05/2023 16:25

I wish them well. I hope the baby is as healthy as babies get & has a fabulous relationship with both parents.

Expressing other types of thoughts about this particular pregnancy and pairing are nasty pathetic & mean. 🙄 🙄 🙄

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