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Blamed for something at work that's not my fault

295 replies

kangaroopelicanartic · 14/05/2023 15:18

I work in a private house as a housekeeper to an older couple. They have no young children but have grandchildren who visit very often. The oldest is 8, the youngest 18mo. I work Mon-Fri and have worked for the family for nearly four years.

Last Wed when I went in, I noticed a bottle of bleach in the cupboard under the sink in the utility room that didn't have a cap. I put it on the shelf on the wall where the kids can't reach it and told the lady I'd moved it because I didn't think it was safe to have an open bottle of bleach where the children could reach it. I moved it again on Thur and Fri and again said why to both of them.

I've just had an angry phone call because the littlest grand child found the bleach and tipped it all over herself. She's not hurt (thank god!!!) but it has ruined her clothes along with her mum's.

The family want me to pay to replace them. Both of them are denying that I'd warned them about the bottle and moved it out of reach multiple times. They're Boden clothes and there's no way I can afford to replace them. No one is believing me when I said I'd moved the bleach multiple times. The husband actually said "we know it's your fault so just stop lying."

I'm absolutely devastated because it's always been a good place to work and in general I really like the family. Now i feel like I can't stay because the trust is broken. I just don't know what to do!

OP posts:
Shookethtothecore · 15/05/2023 20:31

Blatant place marking

but glad you got your apology!

gogogoji · 15/05/2023 20:32

We are all on tenterhooks

Tiddlypomtiddlypom · 15/05/2023 20:34

Cannot wait to hear. So fucking glad it wasn’t at you and you’ve been vindicated. Still think they’re cunts, though.

WuTangGran · 15/05/2023 20:37

F

RoseReverie · 15/05/2023 20:57

So glad you got an apology and we're proved to be in the right. I'll be interested to hear how the turnaround came about.

fizzandchips · 15/05/2023 21:22

Glad that you received an apology.

gogogoji · 15/05/2023 21:27

Kiddos must be in bed by now 😂

Starhead69 · 15/05/2023 21:29

Oooh excited! Would love to see the video haha!

WestendVBroadway · 15/05/2023 21:36

Oh, it sounds good that you have had an apology. Do they always video what you do?

MILofdoom · 15/05/2023 21:46

Shameless place mark for the update!

RedHelenB · 15/05/2023 21:48

Personally, if I couldn't find the cap I'd have got rid of it anyway, given how easily it could be got at/ knocked over.

RedHelenB · 15/05/2023 21:49

RedHelenB · 15/05/2023 21:48

Personally, if I couldn't find the cap I'd have got rid of it anyway, given how easily it could be got at/ knocked over.

But just to add, they were to blame for loving it repeatedly and not supervising the children better. Thank goodness nothing worse happened thsn ruined clothes.

gogogoji · 15/05/2023 21:50

Do you think the OP is coming back?

Prettydress · 15/05/2023 21:52

Blatantly place marking too. Glad you got the apology you deserved.

Beautyhoard · 15/05/2023 21:53

gogogoji · 15/05/2023 20:32

We are all on tenterhooks

As was the OPs aim

fruitbrewhaha · 15/05/2023 22:04

Well, I’d still be looking to leave. I dont know where in the country you are but here in Surrey I see endless posts from people looking for reliable cleaners or housekeepers.

HowDoIStartAgain · 15/05/2023 22:14

I’m blatantly here for the update. Glad you got your apology though.

Grrrpredictivetex · 15/05/2023 22:21

Glad you've been absolved from it.

Chestnutlover · 15/05/2023 22:40

It’s their responsibility to mind their children and totally unfair and absurd of them to blame you. How horrible

gogogoji · 15/05/2023 22:42

We've been had. OP isn't coming back. It's been hours. They are loving this

Tiddlypomtiddlypom · 15/05/2023 22:43

gogogoji · 15/05/2023 22:42

We've been had. OP isn't coming back. It's been hours. They are loving this

I reckon you might be right 😆

Ladybug14 · 15/05/2023 22:45

gogogoji · 15/05/2023 22:42

We've been had. OP isn't coming back. It's been hours. They are loving this

Good scam though. I fell for it hook line and !!

AnyaMarx · 15/05/2023 22:49

Op
Clearly has kids and more
Pressing priorities than assuaging a bunch of strangers on an internet forum ffs .

Do people think this is simply for their own entertainment?

Bekstar · 15/05/2023 22:49

Honestly I'd tell them tos tick the job but while doing so advise them you will be passing your concerns about them leaving open bleach bottles around young children to social services to look into. They sound like spiteful individuals who have no consideration for the safety of the kids.

EpicChaos · 15/05/2023 22:52

@AnyaMarx " Do people think this is simply for their own entertainment? "

Yes! :-/

* Drums fingers very impatiently

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