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clairvoyant told me to expect pain

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Lilypad26 · 14/05/2023 02:38

I was attending a private event yesterday - in an upstairs area of a restaurant. As I came out of the loo there was a woman (not part of the party but had come upstairs from the general area of the restaurant to use the loo) stood chatting to my friend. I said hello assuming it was another guest from the party that I hadn’t met.

The new lady was crying, and said she was overcome with emotion because she could see how lovely my friends future was going to be and how someone who she’d lost was by her side. I was really taken aback as it had also let to my friend crying (she lost her husband a few years ago and mention of loss is very hard for her). My friend kept telling me to take down the new ladies number as she was brilliant, but I avoided this request when I realised she wasn’t part of the party.

When I realised it was just a random lady, I was polite but clearly eager to leave the room as it was evident both were pretty drunk. I don’t think I hid it very well that I was sceptical.

My friend then said “oh lily is getting married next week tell her if her life will be ok!” The random woman asked me to look into her eyes and although I did, I struggled to maintain eye contact as I wanted to leave.

The woman then started crying again said she was so overcome with emotion as she could see so much pain in my life. I was stood quite shocked and just said ok (whilst trying to dab my friends tears still as we were supposed to be at a happy event).

Now I’m lay awake unable to sleep as I keep thinking why would someone make this up?

I will be marrying the love of my life in 5 days and this is not what I needed to be thinking about. AIBU to still be thinking about it?

OP posts:
Beeinalily · 15/05/2023 11:31

@sixthvestibule any day now...

sixthvestibule · 15/05/2023 11:38

@Beeinalily stop it 😆

porridgeisbae · 15/05/2023 12:42

This feels like you're trying to predict the future

@DarkForces No, the Bible tells us the facts about the issues that will keep us in or out of Heaven.

Hollowgast · 15/05/2023 17:12

Clairvoyants are all, without exception, bullshit merchants.

"Expect pain" Well, obviously. Life can be painful. Don't take any notice of what she's said.

Againstmachine · 15/05/2023 17:59

I wish people would stop saying no decent clairvoyant/physic would do that.

There is no such thing as a decent one of these they are vile predatory scum who prey on the vunerable.

They actually ought to be outlawed.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 15/05/2023 18:04

Lilypad26 · 14/05/2023 02:59

Thank you all for making me think more rationally - I think the thing that keeps going round my head is why on earth would someone say something like that when they have just been told that I’m about to get married. I’d never want someone to worry at a time like this.

When I realised it was just a random lady, I was polite but clearly eager to leave the room as it was evident both were pretty drunk. I don’t think I hid it very well that I was sceptical.

There's one possible reason.⬆

Don't worry about her.

TheBeesUnwashedKnees · 15/05/2023 21:53

Againstmachine · 15/05/2023 17:59

I wish people would stop saying no decent clairvoyant/physic would do that.

There is no such thing as a decent one of these they are vile predatory scum who prey on the vunerable.

They actually ought to be outlawed.

Hear hear. They sicken me.

Kanaloa · 15/05/2023 22:14

I’m a psychic and I have foreseen that you’ll be absolutely fine.

Brush it off. People say all sorts of crazy stuff, just act the exact same as if she’d came up to you insisting you were Nelson Mandela. Likely she was only saying it hoping you’d book a session to hear more about this pain and how you could avoid it.

Hollowgast · 19/05/2023 16:03

YouWonJayne · 14/05/2023 16:00

OMG this has made me so nostalgic to watch TPB

I watched TPB after being reminded of it in this thread. As awesome as ever.

betaglucans · 19/05/2023 16:06

What is TPB??

Againstmachine · 19/05/2023 16:24

betaglucans · 19/05/2023 16:06

What is TPB??

The Princess Bride.

Lilypad26 · 25/05/2023 08:18

So a quick update. Thank you to everyone that made me realise the silliness of the woman!

I decided to take @betaglucans advice a day after posting of writing the incident down on paper and setting it on fire to eliminate her from my subconscious… as I was doing it, it was pretty windy outside so the flame kept blowing out, so Dh insisted on helping. He poured (too much petrol) on the paper and as he set it alight it burst into flames burning all of the hair off one of his arms. He was not hurt at all but had to walk down the aisle with one arm that looked like it had been waxed. 😂😂😂😂 maybe that’s the pain she claimed to see!

So thanks to that crazy lady we couldn’t stop laughing at the whole situation and it already is a funny story to tell.

The wedding was incredible and the best day of my life ❤️❤️❤️

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Anyotherdude · 25/05/2023 09:43

You didn’t approach her, though, OP.
People who actively seek out clairvoyants often end up following the path that has been described to them - I have known at least three people who, despite seemingly having very happy marriages, start to find fault and end up divorcing later, but IMO they must have had doubts to seek out future predictions.
It was really unnecessary for the so-called clairvoyant to tell you this, unprompted as it was by you, and really unprofessional.
Would you believe the word of an unprofessional person who is doing a job that many suspect is a sham, anyway?
I wish you and your new DH all the best - don’t give her another thought💐

betaglucans · 25/05/2023 10:14

@Lilypad26 Aww so glad you had a nice wedding and could turn it into something funny (if a little dangerous!). I always think that humour is a great way to subconsciously overcome any malicious intent! Maybe the fact it burned so strongly was an indicator that she had bad intent towards you! And sorry to hear about your husband's arms - I am glad it wasn't worse!! Wishing you a successful marriage and congratulations!!

BlackeyedSusan · 25/05/2023 10:20

Most people will go through incredible pain at some point as many of us have older relatives who are likely to die before us.

Life is ever changing and things happen out of the blue, both good and bad. Enjoy the good things you have today.

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