Life must be miserable with so much bitterness and anger
I haven't noticed much bitterness or anger. Mostly a complete lack of interest.
I usually try to take advantage of what I hope will be less crowded public places (e.g. shops, parks, NT properties) on these occasions. Always disappointed though.
To answer the OP's question, on Saturday I have hired the village hall (several months ago) to celebrate my daughter's 40th birthday. She has learning disabilities and doesn't really know it's her birthday as she has no speech, but there will be all her friends, balloons and best of all - cake, so she will be happy as the day is long. And of course as her family we will be happy that she's happy, but there will be sadness that she doesn't understand what it's all about.
She'll know it's massive fun and that attention will be on her, but she won't know why. Maybe she might wonder why every day isn't like this, and wish it was.
I might also wish her life was always this happy.
The Church/Village hall and grounds is usually used for celebrations such as the coronation, e.g. Will's wedding, Harry's wedding, platinum jubilee, annual summer fete, but on this occasion I got in first. Nobody has approached me to change the date, I like to think it's because she's more important than the king, but more likely nobody wanted to upset us by asking. It would look like pushing her aside, and we've lived her 41 years so everyone knows her, and us.
The plates and napkins are Disney. Her clever aunt has made bunting which does not favour red, white and blue, but Ernie and Cookie Monster, and Big Bird, not forgetting Sooty, whom she loves.
There will be not a single Union Flag or hat.
So yes, we're having a big celebration on Saturday!
But zilch to do with the coronation.
Maybe if you've been semi-forced into some sort of coronation party on Saturday, against your inner beliefs, just to fit in, and you have to make a toast or something, I'd love it if in your head you thought of my lovely daughter on her birthday and all the trials and tribulations she has been through, and us, on her behalf. I know, I know, it's a historical event when charles is crowned.
But. y'know, he's the reigning monarch with all and every support on tap.
And she's a middle aged disabled woman now, also with learning disabilities.
And we don't know how her future will go when we're not here to shout her corner. He'll be looked after at the highest level, until the day he dies.
My daughter will be thrown into the care system that will exist after I'm gone.
How she will cope with that, I have no idea. And that disturbs my sleep every night.
So. What has that to do with the coronation? Only that it co-incides with my daughter's 40th.