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To wish people would stop saying 'Jesus' all the bloody time

810 replies

Sortyourlifeout · 25/04/2023 20:19

I can't read a thread on here without someone saying "Jesus Christ" or "Jesus wept" or similar.

I'm not a prude AT all and I have no issue with people swearing but as a Christian I find it highly offensive when people throw Jesus' name round in a negative way, without a thought for others' feelings and religions.

Most people wouldn't dream of using words that were offensive to other religions so why is it acceptable when it's 'Jesus?'.

This is a genuine message to ask people to PLEASE think before they post/speak.

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Seas164 · 26/04/2023 13:04

Confusion abounds. Not sure it's my excerpt quoting that's responsible but if that helps, go for it.

Naunet · 26/04/2023 13:09

monsteramunch · 26/04/2023 10:53

@SpeedSnap

You know at the end it tells you not to delete parts

Do you know that? In which case do you adhere to the following?

Leviticus 15:19-33

199* “Whenever a woman has her menstrual period, she will be ceremonially unclean for seven days. Anyone who touches her during that time will be unclean until evening.
200* Anything on which the woman lies or sits during the time of her period will be unclean.
211* If any of you touch her bed, you must wash your clothes and bathe yourself in water, and you will remain unclean until evening.
222* If you touch any object she has sat on, you must wash your clothes and bathe yourself in water, and you will remain unclean until evening.
233* This includes her bed or any other object she has sat on; you will be unclean until evening if you touch it.
[[https://www.biblestudytools.com/nlt/leviticus/15-28.html
28]]8* “When the woman’s bleeding stops, she must count off seven days. Then she will be ceremonially clean.
299* On the eighth day she must bring two turtledoves or two young pigeons and present them to the priest at the entrance of the Tabernacle.
300* The priest will offer one for a sin offering and the other for a burnt offering. Through this process, the priest will purify her before the LORD for the ceremonial impurity caused by her bleeding.

Yep, all pretty offensive to women. Any Christians want to explain why women shouldn’t be offended by this bullshit, or why we should respect a religion that has no respect for us?

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:10

@monsteramunch

What an odd and again hypocritical stance to take in defence of posters who believe that their observance of her own religion should directly control the language of other people who don't share their beliefs.

Fine, let me rephrase that. You can have an opinion (I hear they're like arseholes - everyone has one) - but if atheists persist in abusing figures that Christians revere and calling him Jesus Fucking Christ, Sky fairy, etc, why expect Christians to give the slightest shit about your opinion? Your opinion is irrelevant.

WalkingAwayNow · 26/04/2023 13:12

Are folks upset about blaspheming in Christianity or more upset that they aren’t hearing enough blasphemy involving other religions?

Mycathatesmecuddling · 26/04/2023 13:12

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:02

Thanks, I was referring to @monsteramunch 's post to @SpeedSnap . I think @Seas164 quoting an excerpt caused confusion.

That still doesn't make sense. You asked @monsteramunch why she thought you were responding to her when you were responding to her.

Now its that @monsteramunch responded to another poster and not to you?

I mean it's a forum and everyone can respond to anyone. You appear to be trying to accuse @monsteramunch or @Seas164 of being a sock puppet based on your are all atheists one person comment,

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:12

Seas164 · 26/04/2023 13:04

Confusion abounds. Not sure it's my excerpt quoting that's responsible but if that helps, go for it.

Well, yes, it was. No one can accuse your posts of being helpful 😂

Seas164 · 26/04/2023 13:12

@MinervaSaidThar

why expect Christians to give the slightest shit about your opinion? Your opinion is irrelevant.

This brings us neatly back round, again, to the OP and the very reason we are all here. Why might Christians give the slightest shit about the words from people who's opinion they feel is irrelevant?

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:13

Mycathatesmecuddling · 26/04/2023 13:12

That still doesn't make sense. You asked @monsteramunch why she thought you were responding to her when you were responding to her.

Now its that @monsteramunch responded to another poster and not to you?

I mean it's a forum and everyone can respond to anyone. You appear to be trying to accuse @monsteramunch or @Seas164 of being a sock puppet based on your are all atheists one person comment,

Er, you wot?

Seas164 · 26/04/2023 13:14

I miss @SpeedSnap

Mycathatesmecuddling · 26/04/2023 13:15

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:13

Er, you wot?

Which bit was unclear?

MasterBeth · 26/04/2023 13:16

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:10

@monsteramunch

What an odd and again hypocritical stance to take in defence of posters who believe that their observance of her own religion should directly control the language of other people who don't share their beliefs.

Fine, let me rephrase that. You can have an opinion (I hear they're like arseholes - everyone has one) - but if atheists persist in abusing figures that Christians revere and calling him Jesus Fucking Christ, Sky fairy, etc, why expect Christians to give the slightest shit about your opinion? Your opinion is irrelevant.

Because you're the ones always banging on about how good and kind and thoughtful your religion makes you.

Turn the other cheek.

Mycathatesmecuddling · 26/04/2023 13:16

Seas164 · 26/04/2023 13:04

Confusion abounds. Not sure it's my excerpt quoting that's responsible but if that helps, go for it.

I'm pretty sure it's not you quoting that's causing the confusion

Just one poster who is apparently confused and contradicting themselves

FortheBeautyoftheEarth · 26/04/2023 13:19

Wow, I honestly thought it was only me who felt this way. It makes me wince too. My husband is not a Christian and he does this. And my mum claims to be but she's a bit lukewarm and her language is peppered with OMG, OG etc. It just makes the atmosphere negative and horrible. I'd rather say sht and fuck frankly. (Sorry if that offends anyone!)The trouble is, if people don't believe, they aren't going to get it/understand why you feel offended by it, so I think the best thing to do is just express yourself in a way that you feel is appropriate and leave them to get on with it. I'm not saying don't share your faith with them if it feels right, but honestly, pulling someone up on this...it's not going to change them, they will just get arsey and start mocking you. You might as well be speaking a completely different language (all this is in the bible btw). But thanks for the solidarity of feeling - much appreciated OP. 💐

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:20

Seas164 · 26/04/2023 13:12

@MinervaSaidThar

why expect Christians to give the slightest shit about your opinion? Your opinion is irrelevant.

This brings us neatly back round, again, to the OP and the very reason we are all here. Why might Christians give the slightest shit about the words from people who's opinion they feel is irrelevant?

I can't see where OP has commanded anyone not to say anything.

Naunet · 26/04/2023 13:20

FortheBeautyoftheEarth · 26/04/2023 13:19

Wow, I honestly thought it was only me who felt this way. It makes me wince too. My husband is not a Christian and he does this. And my mum claims to be but she's a bit lukewarm and her language is peppered with OMG, OG etc. It just makes the atmosphere negative and horrible. I'd rather say sht and fuck frankly. (Sorry if that offends anyone!)The trouble is, if people don't believe, they aren't going to get it/understand why you feel offended by it, so I think the best thing to do is just express yourself in a way that you feel is appropriate and leave them to get on with it. I'm not saying don't share your faith with them if it feels right, but honestly, pulling someone up on this...it's not going to change them, they will just get arsey and start mocking you. You might as well be speaking a completely different language (all this is in the bible btw). But thanks for the solidarity of feeling - much appreciated OP. 💐

Christians don’t own the concept of a god. Why take it so personally?

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:20

Mycathatesmecuddling · 26/04/2023 13:15

Which bit was unclear?

A bullet of timelines would be clearer.

monsteramunch · 26/04/2023 13:21

@MinervaSaidThar

Thanks, I was referring to monsteramunch 's post to SpeedSnap . I think Seas164 quoting an excerpt caused confusion.

Eh?

I wrote a post.

You responded directly, quoting me.

I responded directly, quoting you.

Bizarre to not just say 'ah ok you're right, you were the person I was responding to'.

It's in black and white in the thread, it's not confusing at all. You just made a mistake, no biggie 🤷🏻‍♀️

Just very odd to not just admit it!

Mycathatesmecuddling · 26/04/2023 13:23

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:20

A bullet of timelines would be clearer.

You want me to create a bullet of timelines of your own posts?

Would you like me to cut your food up for you too?

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:23

MasterBeth · 26/04/2023 13:16

Because you're the ones always banging on about how good and kind and thoughtful your religion makes you.

Turn the other cheek.

You remind me of that guy in the movie Witness, who hits the Amish guy because his religion doesn't allow him to fight back.

You're basically saying Atheists should be able to bully Christians.

What an abhorrent view.

monsteramunch · 26/04/2023 13:24

@MinervaSaidThar

A bullet of timelines would be clearer.

The thread has time stamps against each post, you can just read them.

I mean you wrote the posts in question so it's odd to not be clear on the timelines but if you want to check them, it's probably easier to just read the thread instead of requesting people spend time bullet pointing for your convenience.

HTH.

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:24

Mycathatesmecuddling · 26/04/2023 13:23

You want me to create a bullet of timelines of your own posts?

Would you like me to cut your food up for you too?

Nope, bullets of @Seas164 's selective excerpting. Report back when you're done. No food required.

Seas164 · 26/04/2023 13:24

@MinervaSaidThar

I can't see where the OP has commanded anyone not to say anything?
(you said this bit)

I find it highly offensive when people throw Jesus' name round in a negative way.....This is a genuine message to ask people to PLEASE think before they post/speak.
(OP said this bit)

I think that's the whole point of this post, or have you drawn another meaning from the plea?

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:24

monsteramunch · 26/04/2023 13:24

@MinervaSaidThar

A bullet of timelines would be clearer.

The thread has time stamps against each post, you can just read them.

I mean you wrote the posts in question so it's odd to not be clear on the timelines but if you want to check them, it's probably easier to just read the thread instead of requesting people spend time bullet pointing for your convenience.

HTH.

Well, she sis ask how she could make it clearer 😂

Mycathatesmecuddling · 26/04/2023 13:25

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:24

Nope, bullets of @Seas164 's selective excerpting. Report back when you're done. No food required.

Why would I do that when I am commenting on your posts to @monsteramunch? I think the only person confused that they are two separate posters is you tbh

Mycathatesmecuddling · 26/04/2023 13:26

MinervaSaidThar · 26/04/2023 13:24

Well, she sis ask how she could make it clearer 😂

No I asked which bit was unclear, not how I could make it clearer

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