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Diane Abbott

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Flowerly · 23/04/2023 12:02

To say that Diane Abbott is doing her best to help the Labour Party to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory?

Hideous antisemitism seemingly not gone away at all and add that to the horrendous misogyny in the Labour Party I wonder at this point why ANYONE would vote for them.

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TeapotElephant · 23/04/2023 17:58

Coffeeandbourbons · 23/04/2023 17:53

@TeapotElephant Boris Johnson isn’t there entire Tory party.

Like it or not they’re the only party to have had a female leader (!!! Not PM, LEADER!), have installed a woman as PM twice, have installed the first non-white PM and have a very diverse cabinet.

Labour haven’t even had a female leader, let alone non-white.

All very well saying how anti racist and sexist you are, but if you can’t trust women or non whites enough to make them leader, what use is it? Labour may say all the right things but it’s clear they only feel safe with a white man in charge.

And Starmer has the most ethnic diverse shadow cabinet ever. So fucking what, he has to show his feelings by clearing out the racist and sexist shit otherwise it means nothing. He has to fire those who are uncovered doing wrong otherwise it’s utter bollocks.

eyesfullofstars · 23/04/2023 18:00

Coffeeandbourbons · 23/04/2023 17:53

@TeapotElephant Boris Johnson isn’t there entire Tory party.

Like it or not they’re the only party to have had a female leader (!!! Not PM, LEADER!), have installed a woman as PM twice, have installed the first non-white PM and have a very diverse cabinet.

Labour haven’t even had a female leader, let alone non-white.

All very well saying how anti racist and sexist you are, but if you can’t trust women or non whites enough to make them leader, what use is it? Labour may say all the right things but it’s clear they only feel safe with a white man in charge.

That’s not true. Labour haven’t had a female leader but the Tories aren’t the only ones that have. The Greens, Lib Dems, SNP, DUP and Plaid Cymru have all had female leaders.

notanotheroneagain · 23/04/2023 18:04

Coffeeandbourbons · 23/04/2023 17:15

Whoops Goldberg is Jewish isn’t she?

Yes, she is.

I forgot that part. Don't know how she is seen as 'anti-semitic' at the same time.

I think the main thing is that 'racist' seems rightly, the worst thing to be. So some may feel prejudices against themselves are not taken as seriously. Hence the defence. I think everyone would agree that racism/homophobia/anti semitism/ colourism (including hair colourism)/misogyny etc. are all bad.

But I think we have to also recognise how some forms of bigotry change and affect someone's life at a deeper level than others.

Will your son just be stopped and searched on the street?
Arrested and tackled by police,(sometimes killed) even when they did nothing wrong?
Police not bother with deep investigation when something happens to you?
Will someone not call you for an interview because of who they think you are based on your name on the CV, or what you look like during the interview or your picture?

Apologises to the posters who took offence about my description of a black person, basically. But I was agreeing with most of what poc are saying on this thread.

Plbrookes · 23/04/2023 18:06

loislovesstewie · 23/04/2023 17:58

On another note, I don't think that any of the female Tory PMs are much to write home about.

How is that relevant to whether the Tory party is sexist or racist?

onirgellep · 23/04/2023 18:08

Margaret Beckett was Leader of the Labour Party in 1994 albeit briefly

And then there's Ed Milland who of course is Jewish - so I'm not sure if he counts as non-white Wink

SpeedSnap · 23/04/2023 18:09

It's a different kettle of fish when it's Russia doing the same to Ukraine, uncomfortable history so the British sweep it under the carpet and pretend it was a bit of name calling. 🙄

I knew family who saw another family member murdered who was a pure innocent. I looked at the army records and note that they lied about the incident.

A Farmer's Revenge on The Black and Tans.

The fascinating and harrowing story of an attack by the Black and Tans on an innocent family in County Cork, during the Irish War of Independence.All the far...

https://youtu.be/nX-S-6YNpiQ

MissHavershamReturns · 23/04/2023 18:10

The bottom line is that what she said is totally unacceptable.

Clymene · 23/04/2023 18:10

Whoopi Goldberg isn't Jewish. Her real name is Caryn Johnson. Her dad was a baptist minister and her mum was a nurse who sent her to catholic school.

loislovesstewie · 23/04/2023 18:13

Because I would prefer a leader who was capable rather than elected just to say 'well we now have a female leader.'
And Whoopi Goldberg is not Jewish. She took the name because she thought she would get on in Hollywood with a Jewish sounding name. She was born Caryn Johnson, her father was a preacher. She claims some Jewish ancestry but has never specified who was Jewish. There is no evidence that any of her ancestors was called Goldberg or were Jewish.

Plbrookes · 23/04/2023 18:14

onirgellep · 23/04/2023 18:08

Margaret Beckett was Leader of the Labour Party in 1994 albeit briefly

And then there's Ed Milland who of course is Jewish - so I'm not sure if he counts as non-white Wink

Yes, she was acting Leader of the Party for 10 weeks, a post she automatically assumed as Deputy Leader on John Smith's passing. She came third and last in the leadership election that resulted in Blair becoming leader.

Flowerly · 23/04/2023 18:16

malapast · 23/04/2023 14:33

Of course the Tory party would never use the most popular woman's site in the country to push anti-Labour narratives or far-right European racist tropes. would they....

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4784644-to-think-its-shocking-how-bad-britain-has-fallen-apart-compared-to-other-european-counties?page=22

Flowerly · 15/04/2023 09:36
Sweden has thrown women and girls under the bus and have been trying to keep the rise in rape/sexual assault quiet. It is the wrong kind of perpetrator you see.

suburbophobe · 14/04/2023 22:13

Sweden has mass killings and rapes.

You really can't throw that out there without giving some evidence i.e. a link or two @TodayInahurry

I read two country's news and have not come across that kind of sensationalist reporting. If true it would be all over the worldwide headlines I reckon.
I also have friends in Sweden.

Eh? I am left leaning feminist FGS. 😂

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Flowerly · 23/04/2023 18:18

Greenfairydust · 23/04/2023 15:27

@Flowerly
''Why do you assume that pointing out the (huge) issues with the LP means that one must automatically vote Tory? It's a very bizarre mindset.''

Because you are being disingenuous.

This is about Abbot, not with the Labour Party itself.

The fact that you are making this about the whole of labour rather than criticising her as an individual smacks of Tory propaganda.

Because the party has a gigantic issue with antisemitism as reported by the EHRC.

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Coffeeandbourbons · 23/04/2023 18:18

eyesfullofstars · 23/04/2023 18:00

That’s not true. Labour haven’t had a female leader but the Tories aren’t the only ones that have. The Greens, Lib Dems, SNP, DUP and Plaid Cymru have all had female leaders.

I meant versus Labour although not phrased well.

rootsandfruits1 · 23/04/2023 18:18

notanotheroneagain · 23/04/2023 18:04

Yes, she is.

I forgot that part. Don't know how she is seen as 'anti-semitic' at the same time.

I think the main thing is that 'racist' seems rightly, the worst thing to be. So some may feel prejudices against themselves are not taken as seriously. Hence the defence. I think everyone would agree that racism/homophobia/anti semitism/ colourism (including hair colourism)/misogyny etc. are all bad.

But I think we have to also recognise how some forms of bigotry change and affect someone's life at a deeper level than others.

Will your son just be stopped and searched on the street?
Arrested and tackled by police,(sometimes killed) even when they did nothing wrong?
Police not bother with deep investigation when something happens to you?
Will someone not call you for an interview because of who they think you are based on your name on the CV, or what you look like during the interview or your picture?

Apologises to the posters who took offence about my description of a black person, basically. But I was agreeing with most of what poc are saying on this thread.

No, she isn't Jewish. And she empathically denied that Jews who perished in the holocaust were victims of racism per se. What other word would you call that if not antisemitic, as you say?

TheHoover · 23/04/2023 18:19

@AdamRyan
what do you think Diane Abbott was actually trying to say and, more importantly, why? Whether or not you believe there is a hierarchy she was basically trying to say that the Jewish should stop their complaining.

How is this ok? Why do you persist in defending her?

Flowerly · 23/04/2023 18:20

ThisIsNotAmerican · 23/04/2023 15:35

What won the general election for Labour in 1997 was a charismatic and believable leader** and a team around him that looked fair and reasonable.

With Diane Abbott and Angela Raynor (who I actually quite like sometimes) Keir Starmer is going to be hampered come the big day in around 18 months time. I think you are right OP.

It will be down to three people whether or not Labour get elected - the editors of The Daily Mail, The Daily Express and The Sun.

** Blair was then before the power went to his head and he got in bed with Bush.

1997 was amazing. Never felt that incredible sense of hope for the future before or since.

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Flowerly · 23/04/2023 18:24

RobinaHood · 23/04/2023 15:57

Letting Labour get away with bullshit because 'they're not the Tories' is how we've ended up with a Labour Party in thrall to queer theory, oblivious to workers' rights, and incapable of applying class analysis to the position of women in society.

Yes this. Sickening on every level. I no longer recognise what used to be my party.

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AdamRyan · 23/04/2023 18:26

TheHoover · 23/04/2023 18:19

@AdamRyan
what do you think Diane Abbott was actually trying to say and, more importantly, why? Whether or not you believe there is a hierarchy she was basically trying to say that the Jewish should stop their complaining.

How is this ok? Why do you persist in defending her?

What did she say that made you think that?
I think she was responding to an article by another author implying "all racism is bad" and white people are more often victims.
The other author said Jewish, Irish and Travellers.

She was explaining why she thought there was a difference between the prejudice those groups face and the racism black people face.

At no point did she make a value judgement about which was "worse".

If I were black, i would also be offended by an article implying white people have it worse.

SnickersWasAHorse · 23/04/2023 18:28

One side of my family is Jewish, but they stopped being practicing and cultural Jews back in the 30s, (my mother’s, mother’s, mother) the other side of my family is Gypsy Roma people who settled and I know nothing of that culture.

I look white British, I consider myself white British. Never in my life have I experienced any racism.

My friend is Indian. Both sides of her family have been in the U.K. since the 30s too. No matter how British she is people will look at her and see a British Asian woman.

MegaManic · 23/04/2023 18:31

phoenixrosehere · 23/04/2023 12:29

I was expecting much worse from the way OP made it out to be. I also don’t think the Sky link using the word “whip” is appropriate either.

WTF does this mean - why is using the word whip inappropriate when they are explaining the whip has been withdrawn - what word would you like them to use?

TheHoover · 23/04/2023 18:32

@AdamRyan no, not what she said but her underlying meaning. which was minimising. What made her put pen to paper in the first place.

AndTheSurveySays · 23/04/2023 18:32

Will your son just be stopped and searched on the street?
Arrested and tackled by police,(sometimes killed) even when they did nothing wrong?
Police not bother with deep investigation when something happens to you?
Will someone not call you for an interview because of who they think you are based on your name on the CV, or what you look like during the interview or your picture?

These are all things that happen regularly Gypsy and Travellers. You can add that G and T have had their entire way of life criminalised and at constant risk of imprisonment, fines and having their homes taken from them.

Thepeopleversuswork · 23/04/2023 18:33

@SpeedSnap

Why are left British people so obsessed with Palistine in particular? Not that there is anything wrong with helping people suffering high inflation abroad

I think some of it is to do with this loathing of the US and other "western imperialists" and the perspective on the left that anyone who is an enemy of America must be a friend (see also Russia). Because of the situation in the occupied territories and because Israel has to a large extent been supported financially and militarily by the US (for understandable reasons), people on the hard left see it as a "puppet state" of the US. I'm far from endorsing this point of view btw but I've heard people make these types of arguments.

But I think there's also a large helping of good old-fashioned anti-Semitism among sections of the left and I don't really know where that comes from, honestly. At the height of the Corbyn ascendancy there was a lot of very unsavoury stuff going on in Labour which was blatantly anti-Semitic and which Corbyn tacitly tolerated.

I was coming around to the idea of voting Labour again before this Abbott thing kicked off but it suggests there still a lot of this around.

malapast · 23/04/2023 18:33

notanotheroneagain · 23/04/2023 18:04

Yes, she is.

I forgot that part. Don't know how she is seen as 'anti-semitic' at the same time.

I think the main thing is that 'racist' seems rightly, the worst thing to be. So some may feel prejudices against themselves are not taken as seriously. Hence the defence. I think everyone would agree that racism/homophobia/anti semitism/ colourism (including hair colourism)/misogyny etc. are all bad.

But I think we have to also recognise how some forms of bigotry change and affect someone's life at a deeper level than others.

Will your son just be stopped and searched on the street?
Arrested and tackled by police,(sometimes killed) even when they did nothing wrong?
Police not bother with deep investigation when something happens to you?
Will someone not call you for an interview because of who they think you are based on your name on the CV, or what you look like during the interview or your picture?

Apologises to the posters who took offence about my description of a black person, basically. But I was agreeing with most of what poc are saying on this thread.

Jews can be anti-Semitic - Norman Finkelstein comes to mind. Though he would deny it of course. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norman_Finkelstein

Norman Finkelstein - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norman_Finkelstein

PipinwasAuntieMabelsdog · 23/04/2023 18:36

@SnickersWasAHorse My DH looks Jewish and has been subjected to multiple racist attacks on the street (he does not wear a yamulke or tzitzit). I don't look Jewish, but have received anti-Semitic abuse when leaving synagogue or the community centre, you can be Jewish and experience both racial and religious prejudice in the UK.