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Would you sleep with a male partner in women's underwear

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Saladdressed · 18/04/2023 14:10

Curious because of previous experience! What would you do if your partner said he liked wearing women's underwear (pants/stockings) and wanted to wear during sex? I said no thanks!
IABU - don't care if he wants to wear it/find it sexy

IANBU - keep it for solo wanking/eeeeewwww

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Glow22 · 16/08/2024 22:09

What you said there is extremely close minded!!!

Some people have desires, kinks, fetishes that are not compatible with their partners and turn them off.

If you accept that someone is into X fetish and there's nothing wrong with it then you should also accept that if someone is completely turned off by that fetish and that there's nothing wrong with that either.

To be turned off by something is just as natural and instinctual as it is to be turned on by something so to claim that people are being close-minded is as I said 'close minded'.

Honesty is important because at least then you know if you're compatible or not.

Glow22 · 16/08/2024 22:11

As I said, you're the one being close-minded.

This turns some women off completely. That can't be changed so stop trying to shame women into thinking that there is something wrong for having things that turn them off.

Glow22 · 16/08/2024 22:13

Well it doesn't work like that does it?
Some things turn people on, some things turn people off, so a couple is not always going to enjoy each others fetishes and fantasies because some people with X fetish are going to be with someone who is completely turned off by X fetish. They can't make themselves like it or enjoy it and shouldn't have to tolerate being involved in a fetish that turns them off.

ShandaLear · 16/08/2024 22:58

I couldn’t. I’d be dead from laughing at my big hairy arsed ex rugby player in a pair of silky drawers. No, I’d find that very unattractive.

aurynne · 17/08/2024 06:22

There's nothing close-minded about a woman saying she is turned off by a man wearing women's underwear. Attraction has nothing to do with being open-minded.

You may think you look amazing in women's underwear. others have the right to disagree.

But good go at posting a semi-naked photo of you in a woman's forum. I bet that excites you too.

JMSA · 17/08/2024 06:31

Hell no.

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