There is no more important thing, in terms of the UK, than securing Scotlands future away from a failing and suicidal union. You might be happy paying record high energy bills despite Scotland being completely energy self sufficient, but I'm not.
You might be happy knowing no matter how many of your country's population vote one way the result will always be decided by your neighbours to the south, but I'm not.
You might be happy to have tory government after tory government inflict austerity on you and syphon public money into private pockets without recourse, but I'm not.
You might be happy to see your country's population decline and endure all the issues that come with that, but I'm not.
As for trust, can you remind me how many of the vows and pledges did the pro union parties keep once they'd won the referendum? I seem to recall, amongst many other promises, repeatedly being told the only way to guarantee remaining in the EU was to vote "no". That worked out well didn't it?
I think you'd be surprised at what the result would be if there was another referendum. Certainly, if Westminster were convinced it would be a resounding no they'd approve it before you could say "indyref2". A chance to deal a knockout blow to the SNP and distract the country from their awful record/performance and you think the tories would pass that up???
We're not going to agree, so there's not much point in discussing it further (plus I've derailed this thread enough). But I will say this in parting.
The SNP and the desire to be independent are not one and the same. I want my country to be independent from a union that will only ever look to serve Englands interests (which at a population level are not aligned with Scotland and never have been) and given the chance to pursue its own course.
I wouldn't vote for the SNP in an independent Scotland, nor has it ever been said they'd be the de facto rulers. If there was a viable alternative I'd vote for them, but the Tories will never win an election in Scotland (and I'd rather be hanged than vote tory anyway), Labour have wed themselves to the union so are just red Tories in my eyes, and Lib Dems/Greens/Alba are so small it would just be a wasted vote.
So it will be SNP for me again in 2024. If they lose the next general election, or Westminster refuse another referendum again, or they approve it and Scotland votes no again, I'll be offski faster than a tory education secretary.