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Well fuck me pink and call me Rosie. AIBU?

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TooBigForMyBoots · 15/04/2023 22:44

Do you know that Belfast and NI are in the British Isles? Are you aware that some British people claim they do not know that NI is in the same timezone as the rest of the UK?

YABU = You can't expect British people to know the history and geography of their country.
YANBU = Of course British people know this stuff. Anyone who says otherwise is having you on.

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TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 00:54

JaneJeffer · 16/04/2023 00:50

@TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl Because anyone who is educated in Ireland have had the Provinces and the counties therein drilled into them. Maybe different in NI but anyone who's into GAA will be able to name every county.

Yeah this isn’t really an answer. “cos they learnt it in school” is a bit of a weak argument TBH.

JaneJeffer · 16/04/2023 00:55

BonnieLisbon · 16/04/2023 00:54

In future can you put "English people are all shit and we're brilliant" in the thread title so we don't accidentally open it? 😉

Nobody has mentioned English people.

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 00:55

BaBaBiscuit · 16/04/2023 00:52

Umm...just want to throw in as someone who had to take the life in the UK test to obtain British citizenship, the official view is certainly that if you want to be British you need to know the basics (and more) about this country.

People born here don’t want to be British, they ARE British. There’s a difference

Jourdain11 · 16/04/2023 00:55

BaBaBiscuit · 16/04/2023 00:52

Umm...just want to throw in as someone who had to take the life in the UK test to obtain British citizenship, the official view is certainly that if you want to be British you need to know the basics (and more) about this country.

As I said, I am not British and have therefore never taken the test.

BadLad · 16/04/2023 00:56

gogohmm · 15/04/2023 23:49

It never ceases to amaze me what people don't know. We were watching celebrity mastermind earlier and is was quite astounding what they were clueless about, this regularly happens in real life too.

Check out what someone doesn’t know quite early in this thread.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/2721627-oh-i-never-watch-the-news

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https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/2721627-oh-i-never-watch-the-news

JaneJeffer · 16/04/2023 00:56

Yeah this isn’t really an answer. “cos they learnt it in school” is a bit of a weak argument TBH.
Ok they were born knowing it. Better?

DownNative · 16/04/2023 00:57

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 00:46

There was a referendum that said people from NI had to refer to themselves as ‘Northern Irish’ or ‘British’ rather than ‘Irish’.

Mist have missed that one

You've missed or are ignoring the key point of that member's comment - "....hence they've voted to remain part of British isles rather than a United ireland."

Leaving aside the incorrect name for the UK, you know as well as I do that national identity is a general guide to which way people would vote. Its a rule of thumb that broadly holds, bit cannot be taken as an absolute.

So, they're obviously referring to the 1973 referendum held in March that year, IIRC. The only such vote Northern Ireland has had.

Jourdain11 · 16/04/2023 00:57

PousseyNotMoira · 16/04/2023 00:41

Honestly, yes.

Honestly - why?

Why does never having had reason to look up and check one fact make me thick?

LadyGAgain · 16/04/2023 00:58

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DownNative · 16/04/2023 01:00

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 00:54

Yeah this isn’t really an answer. “cos they learnt it in school” is a bit of a weak argument TBH.

Absolutely - and it's odd some act like the people of the ROI are a monolith who all know the exact same things to the same degree as each other!

It would be very unusual if every single person can name all counties AND point to them on a map as well with 100% accuracy.

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 01:02

DownNative · 16/04/2023 00:57

You've missed or are ignoring the key point of that member's comment - "....hence they've voted to remain part of British isles rather than a United ireland."

Leaving aside the incorrect name for the UK, you know as well as I do that national identity is a general guide to which way people would vote. Its a rule of thumb that broadly holds, bit cannot be taken as an absolute.

So, they're obviously referring to the 1973 referendum held in March that year, IIRC. The only such vote Northern Ireland has had.

What has anyone of that got to do with a PP’s (incorrect) stance that NI people shouldnt be and don’t refer to themselves as Irish?

inyoureyes · 16/04/2023 01:04

It a was a single poster and other other posters comment was misinterpreted.

Well fuck me pink and call me Rosie.  AIBU?
Well fuck me pink and call me Rosie.  AIBU?
Well fuck me pink and call me Rosie.  AIBU?
TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 01:05

Jourdain11 · 16/04/2023 00:57

Honestly - why?

Why does never having had reason to look up and check one fact make me thick?

You aren’t thick.

You don’t know the time zone differences between two countries, neither of which you from - so the same as around 90% of the world’s population. It’s more about people here having a shit Saturday night in their miserable existences whereby sticking the boot in easy targets is the only thing that makes them happy.

Intellectual snobs are the worst and they come off as massive cunts.

PousseyNotMoira · 16/04/2023 01:05

Jourdain11 · 16/04/2023 00:57

Honestly - why?

Why does never having had reason to look up and check one fact make me thick?

It’s been explained to you multiple times already. I’m not doing it again.

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 16/04/2023 01:08

I really do roll my eyes when people claim that 'the British Isles' is 'just a geographical term'.

It's a geo-political term, dummies. There's a difference. And a reason that the Irish government doesn't use the phrase.

CremeEggQueen · 16/04/2023 01:09

JaneJeffer · 16/04/2023 00:54

Thanks, will have a read

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/04/2023 01:09

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 01:05

You aren’t thick.

You don’t know the time zone differences between two countries, neither of which you from - so the same as around 90% of the world’s population. It’s more about people here having a shit Saturday night in their miserable existences whereby sticking the boot in easy targets is the only thing that makes them happy.

Intellectual snobs are the worst and they come off as massive cunts.

Expecting grown adult voters in the UK to know that the UK only has one, ONE, only 1 time zone is not intellectual snobbery.

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Pseudonamed · 16/04/2023 01:09

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 00:45

Indeed.

DH’s family are from NI. They refer to themselves as Irish. Never British.

I have my proud hat on ;)

JaneJeffer · 16/04/2023 01:09

and it's odd some act like the people of the ROI are a monolith who all know the exact same things to the same degree as each other!
They're taught the same things as per the national curriculum.

PousseyNotMoira · 16/04/2023 01:10

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 00:45

Indeed.

DH’s family are from NI. They refer to themselves as Irish. Never British.

My DH is from Coleraine. He considers (and calls himself) himself British and would never call himself Irish, nor would any of his family. I obviously can’t speak for NI Protestants, but that’s how all the ones I’ve met identify.

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 01:10

inyoureyes · 16/04/2023 01:04

It a was a single poster and other other posters comment was misinterpreted.

So I was right - OP just wanted to piss her (badly placed given how off mark she is) snobbery all over MN. When ironically she totally got the wrong end of the stick. That poster didn’t think Belfast was in a different time zone at all, just what the name of the time zone was.

Which is fair given Belfast isn’t in Britain and the summer time zone is British Summer Time.

Puzzled as to why OP PM’d me asking which thread I meant. Maybe she has short term memory loss.

JaneJeffer · 16/04/2023 01:11

The geography curriculum includes the counties of Ireland. It's not optional.

Well fuck me pink and call me Rosie.  AIBU?
TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 01:12

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/04/2023 01:09

Expecting grown adult voters in the UK to know that the UK only has one, ONE, only 1 time zone is not intellectual snobbery.

No one said otherwise though.

You still haven’t said who you mean when you refer to ‘UK citizens’ who don’t know Belfast is in the same tie zone as the rest of the UK. Who do you mean? Why won’t you answer?

DownNative · 16/04/2023 01:12

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 16/04/2023 01:02

What has anyone of that got to do with a PP’s (incorrect) stance that NI people shouldnt be and don’t refer to themselves as Irish?

The member didn't say NI people "shouldn't be" referring to themselves as Irish.

Rather, they stated "The majority of Northern Ireland would refer to themselves as 'northern Irish or British'rather than Irish".

British is still the main identity as per the census. Irish is not a majority identity. Northern Irish isn't the same thing as Irish either, so Irish is clearly the minority as the other two are bigger combined which was that member's point.

They also didn't say people don't refer to themselves as Irish at all. The important phrase in their post is "...rather than Irish". That is an acknowledgement there are people who do - indeed, they will have seen Irish Tricolours in certain areas.

CremeEggQueen · 16/04/2023 01:13

Intellectual snobs are the worst and they come off as massive cunts.
Yesss, can't be doing with it myself - if someone admits to not knowing something, or asks a question, either answer or shut the fuck up lol.
Bet there's gaping holes in their knowledge too, nobody knows everything!