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Why is there so much sneering at Americans with European ancestry?

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BrBa · 14/04/2023 15:47

I don’t understand! I identify with all my ancestors whether they came as religious refugees or early colonisers, were already indigenous to the region or brought in as slaves.

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Evanna13 · 16/04/2023 15:55

This thread is getting ridiculous.
Biden came to Ireland, he has Irish heritage which he is proud about, he talked about it.
Most Irish people were delighted to see him and happy he considers himself Irish (we understand what it means when an American says they are Irish, this is a part of American culture which we are very familiar with and understand).
He went home to America.

ilikepinknblue · 16/04/2023 15:55

Anonymous48 · 14/04/2023 16:29

What I'm saying is that they don't understand (or refuse to acknowledge) that saying "I'm Irish" (or whatever) is shorthand for "I'm Irish American" or "I have Irish ancestry". That is not claiming to be "from Ireland".

You are expecting rest of the world to understand American lingo Irish = American Irish. Why not Americans talk to rest of the world in the language they understand, Irish = from Ireland. American with Irish roots = exactly that.

belleager · 16/04/2023 15:58

ilikepinknblue · 16/04/2023 15:55

You are expecting rest of the world to understand American lingo Irish = American Irish. Why not Americans talk to rest of the world in the language they understand, Irish = from Ireland. American with Irish roots = exactly that.

Seems fair for Americans to speak to other Americans in terms they understand, and for Irish Americans to speak to Irish people in terms they understand.

What has this got to do with the rest of the world? I don't switch on French TV and get cross that they're not explaining things to me in English!

postapesto · 16/04/2023 15:59

TizerorFizz · 16/04/2023 15:54

I guess when you are a young country, your original identity means more? Feels a bit clingy though for a country that fought a war of independence to get away from Great Britain which, at the time, included Ireland.

Not sure many of us in the uk truly believe Ireland got much out of Biden.

Great Britain has never at any time included Ireland.

belleager · 16/04/2023 16:03

Evanna13 · 16/04/2023 15:55

This thread is getting ridiculous.
Biden came to Ireland, he has Irish heritage which he is proud about, he talked about it.
Most Irish people were delighted to see him and happy he considers himself Irish (we understand what it means when an American says they are Irish, this is a part of American culture which we are very familiar with and understand).
He went home to America.

(Fortunately, none of the determined literalists on this thread popped up as border guards, demanded to see his ID, and detained him for questioning. How did airport security manage such complex thinking? It's a mystery. Wrapped up in an enigma, no doubt).

belleager · 16/04/2023 16:09

postapesto · 16/04/2023 15:59

Great Britain has never at any time included Ireland.

Quite.

It's also very reasonable to see Irish and American independence movements as intertwined.

I haven't seen any analysis in British media of what Ireland got or expected from Biden's visit, but if you have any facts or thoughts to share, feel free. You'd need to know what Irish participants wanted, to start with.

postapesto · 16/04/2023 16:14

I think the vast majority of us couldn't give a shiny shit and a small minority were merely a bit pissed off about the road closures.
I'm sure some people were delighted/annoyed/homicidal about it all, but I wouldn't know why.

belleager · 16/04/2023 16:27

postapesto · 16/04/2023 16:14

I think the vast majority of us couldn't give a shiny shit and a small minority were merely a bit pissed off about the road closures.
I'm sure some people were delighted/annoyed/homicidal about it all, but I wouldn't know why.

Sorry - the end of my reply was to TizerorFizz, on UK thinking Ireland didn't get much from the visit. I wondered what they had in mind. But agree for most private individuals it wasn't a major event, or meant to be.

I was just agreeing with your response to re Ireland not part of Great Britain, ever. It is funny that a thread with so much discussion of what Irish Americans can call themselves throws up the usual confusion about what Great Britain means anyway.

Chickenkeev · 16/04/2023 16:29

LampLamp · 15/04/2023 17:27

Yes they are racists (and I agree re Facebook - I’m no longer on it), plain and simple.

A long with that example goes the others I’ve mentioned where Irish Americans want to keep what they see as Irish traditions alive in their American communities but begrudge actual Irish people moving forward and modernising.

I was in Cavan last week having a drink with a few friends and family friends came across an “Irish American” group who were astonished that none of us were drinking Guinness or Harp. FFS.

They want to keep us as a quaint wee theme park.

Does anyone drink Harp anymore 🤣

belleager · 16/04/2023 16:42

Chickenkeev · 16/04/2023 16:29

Does anyone drink Harp anymore 🤣

It's still popular in the North I thought?

Not the same for the rest of us without Vicki Michelle, non

Sally O'Brien Harp Lager TV Ad

And Sally O'Brien... and the way she might look at ya..

https://youtu.be/kbzFy8CGqcU

13Bastards · 16/04/2023 17:24

I saw a brilliant Tripadvisor review of an English pub LampLamp where an American tourist had marked it down because it was playing 'modern pop music' as opposed to 'traditional English or Irish folk music'

Firstly, WTF is that and secondly, why would a typical British pub play that kind of music? It's absolutely like they want a theme park, not a country. And that's just the uk I feel for Ireland as I am sure they get it a whole lot worse.

Chickenkeev · 16/04/2023 17:45

13Bastards · 16/04/2023 17:24

I saw a brilliant Tripadvisor review of an English pub LampLamp where an American tourist had marked it down because it was playing 'modern pop music' as opposed to 'traditional English or Irish folk music'

Firstly, WTF is that and secondly, why would a typical British pub play that kind of music? It's absolutely like they want a theme park, not a country. And that's just the uk I feel for Ireland as I am sure they get it a whole lot worse.

Ireland gets it a lot worse but we monetise the f*ck out of it!

StephanieSuperpowers · 16/04/2023 17:51

postapesto · 16/04/2023 15:59

Great Britain has never at any time included Ireland.

Or been especially interested in making sure Ireland benefits in any situation. Although it's gently amusing that the poster imagines there's a nurturing instinct in the UK towards Ireland.

Swiftbushome · 16/04/2023 18:42

Chinese/Vietnamese/Jamaican/Pakistani etc would have the same attitude if a person with a great grandparent came to visit their country, they'd probably be warm and welcoming. That in itself is quite telling.

This is not my experience actually. I am 2nd generation British with heritage from one of these. Lived there (ancestral home country) with family for a while as a youngster and was not accepted at all. 100% treated as an outsider with a lot of racist aggression. Just saying.

Sandinmyknickers · 16/04/2023 18:53

MasterBeth · 14/04/2023 16:29

To the rest of the world, saying "I'm Irish" means "I'm Irish".

It can often feel to the rest of the world that Americans are talking to us as if we are all American.

Yeah and do I find it hard to understand that "I'm irish" is shorthand for Irish American, when they say the full "African American" all the bloody time. So much so in fact that when in the states wih my ex, they kept referring to him as "African american" and he had to keep saying that he was neither, he was British with a Caribbean heritage and family, and they could just call him Black if easier...but they'd still insist on calling him "African american" as if they couldn't contemplate black people living outside of those identities. Facepalm.

Goldenbear · 16/04/2023 19:46

Sandinmyknickers · 16/04/2023 18:53

Yeah and do I find it hard to understand that "I'm irish" is shorthand for Irish American, when they say the full "African American" all the bloody time. So much so in fact that when in the states wih my ex, they kept referring to him as "African american" and he had to keep saying that he was neither, he was British with a Caribbean heritage and family, and they could just call him Black if easier...but they'd still insist on calling him "African american" as if they couldn't contemplate black people living outside of those identities. Facepalm.

Other Posters have mentioned this now so not exactly a one off and yet some of us are being told how intolerant we are of American culture that dictates the, 'I am Irish' being a cultural norm that the British (Aka English, with that being the English persona of 50 years ago, aka the quintessential English man because of course nobody who is English has anything other than an anglo Saxon heritage 🙄) in their imperialist fashion insists doesn't exist and yet Americans are also insist their references are the only ones - funny that!

Goldenbear · 16/04/2023 19:48

Insistent not insist.

FurAndFeathers · 16/04/2023 20:02

SnackSizeRaisin · 16/04/2023 14:20

There's a cultural difference between the UK and US on this, obviously.
In the UK, anyone with citizenship is considered British and it's bad form to ask where someone is from. If you ask a black person in Britain where they are from, they are probably going to say "London" and get annoyed with any further probing, even if their parents were born elsewhere. The idea of a black British person being called African, unless they were actually born there and have current citizenship there, is laughable and has racist undertones. Yet in America, even black people who were imported as slaves 200 years ago and have no link with Africa whatsoever are called African American.
For white British people with a British accent, if someone asks where you're from, they mean what town did you grow up in. They'd be surprised if you came out with any family history.

Thanks, yes I am aware of this. It’s why I raised the point Confused

It still stands though that there are a proportion of Americans whose identity is so enmeshed in their historical heritage that they’re unable to fathom a different perspective e.g that Irish is not equivalent to Irish -American globally, or that African-American isn’t a global term for any black person.

I find it interesting that people from a nation that clings so desperately to its global heritage often have such a parochial perspective

Chickenkeev · 16/04/2023 20:02

I'm Irish. Just plain boring Irish. I wouldn't ever choose to be anything else. Equally i don't diss americans or brits who are 'irish'. Why would I? They love us we welcome them. We can all get along.

Chickenkeev · 16/04/2023 20:04

FurAndFeathers · 16/04/2023 20:02

Thanks, yes I am aware of this. It’s why I raised the point Confused

It still stands though that there are a proportion of Americans whose identity is so enmeshed in their historical heritage that they’re unable to fathom a different perspective e.g that Irish is not equivalent to Irish -American globally, or that African-American isn’t a global term for any black person.

I find it interesting that people from a nation that clings so desperately to its global heritage often have such a parochial perspective

That's really snooty.

IcedPurple · 16/04/2023 20:05

I find it interesting that people from a nation that clings so desperately to its global heritage often have such a parochial perspective

I agree with this.

belleager · 16/04/2023 20:08

IcedPurple · 16/04/2023 20:05

I find it interesting that people from a nation that clings so desperately to its global heritage often have such a parochial perspective

I agree with this.

I can't think of a nation this doesn't apply to - the parochial perspective, that is.

belleager · 16/04/2023 20:14

I haven't seen any Americans on this thread insisting theirs is the only proper perspective. Only anecdotes about particular Americans.

It's not Americans who are posting here to say they can't understand other people having their own descriptors around culture and identity; or that even if they accept these differences, that we should remember that the Irish / Americans are wrong / naive in other ways. It all seems quite intolerant.

belleager · 16/04/2023 20:22

I'm Irish but if I moved to America I'd be delighted to have the social and cultural support of Irish-America. I would enjoy mixing with my new Irish friends there, as well as with other Americans.

FurAndFeathers · 16/04/2023 20:48

Chickenkeev · 16/04/2023 20:04

That's really snooty.

Snooty - synonyms include disapproving.
Am I disapproving of parochial attitudes and an inability to see perspectives other than your own? Yes very likely I am.

I’m also pretty comfortable with that position

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