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Why is there so much sneering at Americans with European ancestry?

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BrBa · 14/04/2023 15:47

I don’t understand! I identify with all my ancestors whether they came as religious refugees or early colonisers, were already indigenous to the region or brought in as slaves.

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Swiss, German, Native American North, Central and South, Sephardic, Irish, South East African, Scottish, Acadian/French, and English

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proppy · 14/04/2023 16:07

@Anonymous48 so what Irish traditions & customs would Irish Americans uphold?

Goldenbear · 14/04/2023 16:08

CliffsofMohair · 14/04/2023 16:01

They might for the passport though

I don't think they can get one.

SunnySaturdayMorning · 14/04/2023 16:08

Because you’re being ridiculous. You’re American. Accept it.

CantAskAnyoneElse · 14/04/2023 16:08

Sorry, don’t know the answer.

Just fascinated by the list of your ancestors!
Is that really how rich your bloodline is? That’s cool!
Do you know much about the traditions / language / food / customs?
If that is okey to ask.

AllIeveknewonlyou · 14/04/2023 16:09

Swiftbushome · 14/04/2023 16:04

It's just claiming to be something you're not though isn't it? Biden is American. He goes to Ireland and says he's "home" except he isn't so it's a lie. I bet a load of Brits could claim to be Vikings for instance if you look back for enough. I think it's one thing to say you have "Viking heritage" for example but to call yourself a Viking is just lying. And that is what a lot of Americans do when they claim to be Irish or Italian or whatever. They're not, they're American. A lot of the time their parents and even grandparents were born in America as well.
And Biden for example only talks up the Irish side of his ancestry - his mother's side. He keeps quiet about his father's heritage which has been shown to have been slave owners! Really annoys me.

Yes this is true - I think I have some russian and italian going back a bit but my friends would think I had gone nuts if I started chest thumping and saying I identified as that. I haven't been to either country 🤣

Anonymous48 · 14/04/2023 16:10

proppy · 14/04/2023 16:07

@Anonymous48 so what Irish traditions & customs would Irish Americans uphold?

You know, I can't think of any specifically Irish traditions right now! I was using Irish as an example. But Italian Americans have their big Christmas meal on Christmas eve for example.

Isanyoneup · 14/04/2023 16:10

DuesExMachina · 14/04/2023 16:07

@Isanyoneup

True, but that was nearly two thousand years ago.

The last band of free Sioux surrendered only about 60 years before the world of Madmen happened.

Totally, totally not comparable. There are people alive today who will remember grandparents telling stories about actually living through those events in the US.

And I'm not excusing the abhorrent treatment of anybody. It's awful when genocide is in living memory - any genocide (and there have sadly been many in the last hundred years). But America is a child in terms of global history and identity. Much of what it is going through and processing the rest of the world did hundreds of years ago and not in a modern world under such scrutiny and self awareness.

I don't even know what I'm trying to say. I agree with you but also see nuance.

TodayInahurry · 14/04/2023 16:10

with Biden it is about the Irish vote in places like Boston, New York etc. electioneering already!

MissConductUS · 14/04/2023 16:11

I'm an American. Most, but not all, of my ancestry is Irish if you go back to the early or mid 20th Century. I certainly don't consider myself Irish. I'm a New Yorker.

Who is doing the sneering? A bit of context is needed.

AllIeveknewonlyou · 14/04/2023 16:14

MissConductUS · 14/04/2023 16:11

I'm an American. Most, but not all, of my ancestry is Irish if you go back to the early or mid 20th Century. I certainly don't consider myself Irish. I'm a New Yorker.

Who is doing the sneering? A bit of context is needed.

I think Biden is putting so much emphasis on his Irish 'roots' that some people roll their eyes a bit because it does sound a bit ludicrous

Smartiepants79 · 14/04/2023 16:15

Isanyoneup · 14/04/2023 15:48

Because Americans never accept they're American despite being several generations into being an American. It's just strange.

It’s this.
My grandparents come from Scotland, I don’t claim to be Scottish.
My DH grandparents came from Poland in the 1930s. Not even his Dad would claim to be anything other than English. Cos that was where he was born and lived his whole life.
Americans do sometimes seem to struggle just being American. Some of them seem to need to have some other kind of ancestry.

ditalini · 14/04/2023 16:15

If this is about Biden, I'm as Irish as Biden, probably more so since the distant connection comes down several "lines", and it would never cross my mind for a second to claim some sort of connection. Just seems really odd to hang your hat on the nationality of some far off dead relly.

Anonymous48 · 14/04/2023 16:16

MissConductUS · 14/04/2023 16:11

I'm an American. Most, but not all, of my ancestry is Irish if you go back to the early or mid 20th Century. I certainly don't consider myself Irish. I'm a New Yorker.

Who is doing the sneering? A bit of context is needed.

My husband's 8 great grandparents all came from Ireland. He definitely considers himself American. If asked he will say he is Irish American. I don't know that he would ever describe himself as "Irish", but in context that wouldn't be wrong, because it's understood to mean of Irish ancestry not literally from Ireland. I think that's what a lot of Brits don't understand.

Biden is not claiming that he literally comes from Ireland. He is saying that some of his ancestors did.

Notegoat · 14/04/2023 16:17

It doesn’t bother me with anyone but Irish Americans.

ChocChipHandbag · 14/04/2023 16:17

I'm confused, are you saying that some people (other Americans? British people? Irish people?) are sneering at Americans with European ancestry, while not sneering at Americans with African or Asian ancestry?

Does this include sneering at Latino/a Americans who, before Latin America, have distant Spanish ancestry? Or is it only sneering at Americans with Northern European ancestry?

Or is this generalised sneering at any American who talks about their ancestry outside the United States?

AllIeveknewonlyou · 14/04/2023 16:18

Actually even Trump proclaims himself to be Scottish.

Perhaps this is similar to self identification. In which case I'm marrying the cat up the road.

TheVeryThing · 14/04/2023 16:20

Biden grew up in a very Irish community, with a strong connection to Irish culture.
I don’t it’s fair to say that it’s just about votes, though, the Irish American vote is much more scattered and later generations are much further removed, people don’t really
live in those type of communities anymore.
it’s easy to sneer at Americans clinging on to a very distant heritage but when people are forced to leave their homes and their country, knowing that they will never see their families again, they tend to place great value on passing on their cultural heritage to future generations.

ditalini · 14/04/2023 16:21

Anonymous48 · 14/04/2023 16:16

My husband's 8 great grandparents all came from Ireland. He definitely considers himself American. If asked he will say he is Irish American. I don't know that he would ever describe himself as "Irish", but in context that wouldn't be wrong, because it's understood to mean of Irish ancestry not literally from Ireland. I think that's what a lot of Brits don't understand.

Biden is not claiming that he literally comes from Ireland. He is saying that some of his ancestors did.

But that's the same as loads of us in the UK. We understand perfectly. People travel, emigrate, often meet people from a similar background in the same country and have families, but basically after the point where none of the relatives you actually met in life had an Irish accent you're just English, Scottish, Welsh, British, Canadian, Australian, American whatever.

MissConductUS · 14/04/2023 16:22

AllIeveknewonlyou · 14/04/2023 16:18

Actually even Trump proclaims himself to be Scottish.

Perhaps this is similar to self identification. In which case I'm marrying the cat up the road.

Cats don't have spouses; they have house servants.

Wishawisha · 14/04/2023 16:22

MasterBeth · 14/04/2023 15:52

I think, if there's any sneering, it's at Americans with Irish / German / Italian heritage who describe themselves purely as Irish, German or Italian.

If you've been born and brought up in Dublin or Limerick, it sounds strange if a fourth-generation Californian Irish-American starts teling you how Irish they are.

Yes this exactly. I am not Irish. I have some Irish ancestors but I can’t claim their history as my own.

I’m not sure I understand the OP saying she “identifies” with all her ancestors and their ethnicities etc. I can’t claim to, personally. I only know the stories of the people within about 3 generations of me. I might have a small mixture of DNA from somewhere far flung but I don’t know who it was who came from there, which side of my family they were on, even how long a go… I don’t know who they were or the context in which they came to have their children with someone from a different country. It would be pretty weird for me to “identify” with that 1% of my DNA when I don’t know anything.

MattDamon · 14/04/2023 16:22

The United States is primarily a country of immigrants. It makes sense for them to talk about where they came from. Something like 10% of Americans are direct descendents of the Pilgrims who came over on the Mayflower.

BirdChirp · 14/04/2023 16:23

I'm half Swedish, half English. I'm on a Swedish ancestry Facebook group, as I like reading posts about history, recipes and traditions.

The amount of posts taken up by Americans declaring nothing else than the fact they are 100% Swedish is irritating though. Plus obligatory photos of grandchildren to show how blonde they are.

SpringBunnies · 14/04/2023 16:23

I find it odd that Biden sees himself as Irish at all. Many British has European ancestry and I have not seen anyone here saying they are Swedish/German/French like Americans do.

It's cultural difference isn't it?

ditalini · 14/04/2023 16:23

AllIeveknewonlyou · 14/04/2023 16:18

Actually even Trump proclaims himself to be Scottish.

Perhaps this is similar to self identification. In which case I'm marrying the cat up the road.

Well to be fair, Trump's mother was Scottish so unfortunately that's pretty legit - he'd probably get a UK passport.

CordyLines · 14/04/2023 16:24

Brits seem to be raging that the POTUS went to Ireland and swerved the UK. That is where the sneering is coming from I think.

Well when you think about it the British colonised the East Coast of America until they were driven out. They were the invaders. The British colonised many other countries also, so have/had no desire to be anything other than the superior population they seem to think they are.

Immigrants and emigrants on the other hand were not colonisers, and in the case of the Irish particularly, went to US on coffin ships because the British sold what food the Irish could produce during the Great Famine back to Britain (Trevalyan's corn), and left the natives to either starve or leave.

There is a different dynamic involved in emigres than there is to those who didn't HAVE to emigrate i.e. were the overlords.

No wonder there is such a longing for ancestry, I think it is great to seek out your roots and have a rant as to why you are where you are. America has opened its arms to many people who needed it badly. Thank you America.

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