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Why is there so much sneering at Americans with European ancestry?

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BrBa · 14/04/2023 15:47

I don’t understand! I identify with all my ancestors whether they came as religious refugees or early colonisers, were already indigenous to the region or brought in as slaves.

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Swiss, German, Native American North, Central and South, Sephardic, Irish, South East African, Scottish, Acadian/French, and English

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DownNative · 15/04/2023 23:12

IcedPurple · 15/04/2023 22:42

Interesting. So the 'Scots Irish' term was used as a way to distinguish themselves from Catholic Irish immigrants?

In a sense, yes, because they had a different cultural perspective - the proximity of Scotland to Ulster is an important factor in this. And they took this to the New World. The stereotype, and it IS a stereotype, is that Protestants were industrious, practical whilst the Catholics were creative storytellers. That was the mindset for a long time despite the fact those roles could be reversed. Hence, different identity markers such as Scots-Irish and Catholic Irish.

Even so, migration between Ulster and Scotland had clearly been occurring for centuries before any Scots-Irish identity label.

Before the United States, Ulster itself was a melting pot and long before the Plantation too. To modern eyes, the seas are a "natural barrier", but for most of human history they were viewed as connectors between places. We can still see this today in the UK, Portugal & Madiera and even in the United States - the sea connects territories and people.

Identity has never been fixed. Modern identities is not really what our ancestors would have understood themselves through. Identification with tribe was far more the norm.

GarlicGrace · 15/04/2023 23:46

Quality posts, @DownNative. Thank you for making the effort.

Goldenbear · 15/04/2023 23:51

Yes I agree, really informative!

Goldenbear · 15/04/2023 23:56

Evanna13 · 15/04/2023 22:52

This thread is so sad, the lack of tolerance of other cultures is astonishing.
In America, people will often say "I am Irish, I am Italian, I am Polish", whatever, as a way of identifying themselves. They are speaking about how they have been brought up. It means they have been brought up with Irish, Polish, Italian culture. I do not know why people cannot understand this? They know they are American, everybody knows that they are American.

To say that someone should dismiss the culture and identity which they have been brought up with because it confuses some people in England is absoutley ridiculous.
Americans, Irish etc clearly understand what it means. We are not offended by it.

Who are the 'etc'? Who exactly are 'English' people in your mind as you obviously have some very set ideas about who qualifies to be the evil English! I am married to a Jewish Man with an Irish surname and my DC have the very Irish sounding surname, we all make up the intolerant 'English' you speak of!

4plusthehound · 16/04/2023 00:04

DuesExMachina · 14/04/2023 16:01

America is a complex country- built on the slaves of Africans and the genocide of Native Americans.

When you put it like that, it makes sense that many Americans want to align themselves with somewhere else.

That is not really it though.

The British and French did most of the genocide of the Natives.

The land was populated by (mainly) Europeans fleeing unreast, famine, religious intolerence etc in Europe. They were turbulent times.

There was a war of Independance against Britan. but that was inly the 13 colonies. The rest belonged to France, California was Mexican and Texas was ?? I cannot remember.

After the War if Independance there were 13 seperate colonies, with different political and religious beliefs ready and willing to go to war against each other. For example New Jersey and New York had cannons trained on each over the river.

Some wise poeple saw a potiential Europe and decided to try and unify.

It took ages.

But at the tine of the war of Independance there really was not a United States. Not by a long short. Most were still loyal to overseas Kings or religious faiths.

America as it is now took a few hundred years.

I think!

missinglalaland · 16/04/2023 00:10

As a previous poster said, “Scots-Irish” settlers were heavily involved in taming the frontier. Their stereo type in the US is too be a bit rough and tumble. Our gun culture traces back to their macho, never back-down, brass necked self reliance.
Despite three hundred years of separation you can look at the DUP and look at a red-state Republican and see some commonalities, even without squinting too hard.
There is about 200 years separating the waves of Scots-Irish immigration and Irish Catholic immigration to America. Despite being from the same island, they are quite different culturally, at least in America. The Catholic/Protestant line is an easy one to draw, but the differences feel more cultural than religious.

A bit off topic, but you certainly can't lump American Catholics together. Irish vs Italian vs German are all distinct in outlook. I can remember my Irish Catholic Aunt complaining about my Austrian Catholic Grandmother's ways, commenting thay she was typical St Luis Catholic. (St Luis being known for its large German population.)

It's a minefield. In multicultural societies, it only works, when we give everyone the benefit of the doubt and interpret their words and actions in the most generous way possible. It's too easy to be offended, and too tempting to seek to be offended as a means for bolstering one's own identity against the foil of a supposed oppressor.

4plusthehound · 16/04/2023 00:22

Smartiepants79 · 14/04/2023 16:15

It’s this.
My grandparents come from Scotland, I don’t claim to be Scottish.
My DH grandparents came from Poland in the 1930s. Not even his Dad would claim to be anything other than English. Cos that was where he was born and lived his whole life.
Americans do sometimes seem to struggle just being American. Some of them seem to need to have some other kind of ancestry.

Think of in regional terms.

So - Americans will say Irish American, Italian American etc.

In England we would say Northerner, Scouse, etc.

Andf if you are not from there but grandmother was you may have a glow about it.

That would be a better frame for the conversation.

HamBone · 16/04/2023 00:27

Mamaneedsadrink · 15/04/2023 22:06

I think I understood it pretty well ... Imagine Rishi Sunak going on about how 'Indian' or maybe 'Kenyan' he feels.

I'm guessing even though I'm a third generation Kiwi with Indian ethnicity you'd sneer at me for feeling "Indian" too if I went back to India? So yeah that does make me feel quite angry actually. Just like another thread on here saying that someone isn't Pakistani because they werent born there. I can't believe so many of the batshit comments on here, some people should really feel embarrassed for themselves.

@Mamaneedsadrink Slightly off-topic, but I was really surprised to learn from some neighbors that India doesn’t allow dual citizenship so if they want to apply for American citizenship, they would have to surrender their Indian passports! The reverse is true for their American-born children.

So I’m guessing that Rishi Sunak’s parents may no longer have Indian citizenship, which is rather sad if they had to make that hard choice.

Evanna13 · 16/04/2023 00:38

@Goldenbear actually all the English people I know irl are lovely and I have some great friends from England.

My comment says SOME people from England are confused by this. I am hopeful that this is a very small minority of people.

I hope this clears it up for you.

4plusthehound · 16/04/2023 01:12

Qbish · 14/04/2023 16:56

Specifically, Democrat Presidents bang on about being Irish.

The Irish American vote not as significant now in the States.

Hispanic and Asian are where it is at! 😄

DownNative · 16/04/2023 01:37

4plusthehound · 16/04/2023 00:22

Think of in regional terms.

So - Americans will say Irish American, Italian American etc.

In England we would say Northerner, Scouse, etc.

Andf if you are not from there but grandmother was you may have a glow about it.

That would be a better frame for the conversation.

That doesn't work because the Americans are referring to national identifiers of countries outwith the United States.

In the UK, we have regional identifiers as well, but this is not equivalent to the Irish-American example.

This example would be closer - English/Scottish/Welsh/Northern Irish and British.

Even then, we're simply mixing a regional identity (English/Scottish/Welsh/Northern Irish) with a national one (British).

The Americans aren't doing this.

Whenharrymetsmelly · 16/04/2023 01:40

Evanna13 · 15/04/2023 22:52

This thread is so sad, the lack of tolerance of other cultures is astonishing.
In America, people will often say "I am Irish, I am Italian, I am Polish", whatever, as a way of identifying themselves. They are speaking about how they have been brought up. It means they have been brought up with Irish, Polish, Italian culture. I do not know why people cannot understand this? They know they are American, everybody knows that they are American.

To say that someone should dismiss the culture and identity which they have been brought up with because it confuses some people in England is absoutley ridiculous.
Americans, Irish etc clearly understand what it means. We are not offended by it.

I agree. It's certainly bringing out that air of superiority and British doing what they've always done, telling other people how they should think and feel. They've been doing that forever ... going into other countries and imposing their views ... why would they stop now. This thread has been quite disturbing to read, although I suppose it's not really very surprising

DownNative · 16/04/2023 01:52

4plusthehound · 16/04/2023 00:04

That is not really it though.

The British and French did most of the genocide of the Natives.

The land was populated by (mainly) Europeans fleeing unreast, famine, religious intolerence etc in Europe. They were turbulent times.

There was a war of Independance against Britan. but that was inly the 13 colonies. The rest belonged to France, California was Mexican and Texas was ?? I cannot remember.

After the War if Independance there were 13 seperate colonies, with different political and religious beliefs ready and willing to go to war against each other. For example New Jersey and New York had cannons trained on each over the river.

Some wise poeple saw a potiential Europe and decided to try and unify.

It took ages.

But at the tine of the war of Independance there really was not a United States. Not by a long short. Most were still loyal to overseas Kings or religious faiths.

America as it is now took a few hundred years.

I think!

The United States of America is 247 years old this year!

So, it didn't take a few hundred years for the US to become what it is now. The US pretty much took the form we know it today before the 20th Century even dawned!

Why is there so much sneering at Americans with European ancestry?
4plusthehound · 16/04/2023 01:53

DownNative · 16/04/2023 01:37

That doesn't work because the Americans are referring to national identifiers of countries outwith the United States.

In the UK, we have regional identifiers as well, but this is not equivalent to the Irish-American example.

This example would be closer - English/Scottish/Welsh/Northern Irish and British.

Even then, we're simply mixing a regional identity (English/Scottish/Welsh/Northern Irish) with a national one (British).

The Americans aren't doing this.

You are correct of course.

But in the US they are more like our regional markers than a national ident.

Everyone there is "from" somewhere. It is entirely normal to say where.

4plusthehound · 16/04/2023 01:56

I really think the press are playing this like we are the jilted.

Much as we love to be snooty about Americans we purr very loudly when our Special Relationship outs us on the world stage, jump for joy when we win an Oscar, feel chosen when a US president comes to visit or makes a phone call.

We have been jilted - and we DON"T LIKE IT!

DownNative · 16/04/2023 01:57

GarlicGrace · 15/04/2023 23:46

Quality posts, @DownNative. Thank you for making the effort.

@GarlicGrace and @Goldenbear thank you and you're both welcome!

My views and knowledge has been shaped by decades of conflict, debate, argument and reading in Northern Ireland. I always hope people come away understanding that little bit more about Northern Ireland's people.

Goldenbear · 16/04/2023 02:03

Absolutely, I've learnt more from you than I ever did on the topic on Irish History on my 'A' level history course in the mid 90s! You sound very knowledgeable DownNative.

Goldenbear · 16/04/2023 02:04

Obviously not just from the history books but living in that context.

DownNative · 16/04/2023 02:10

4plusthehound · 16/04/2023 01:56

I really think the press are playing this like we are the jilted.

Much as we love to be snooty about Americans we purr very loudly when our Special Relationship outs us on the world stage, jump for joy when we win an Oscar, feel chosen when a US president comes to visit or makes a phone call.

We have been jilted - and we DON"T LIKE IT!

Ah, the US President is making a state visit to the UK in June.

Personally, I think Biden wrongly put pressure on the UK ahead of the Belfast Agreement 25th Anniversary. Biden clearly wanted to be in Belfast to "celebrate" It to some extent which is bizarre. It's not something to celebrate for this reason:

"The greatest injustice in the north of Ireland today is acts committed by paramilitary organisations like the IRA. The taking of human life is the greatest injustice.

Other injustices can be corrected. People can come out of prison, but people cannot come out of their graves."

  • John Hume

Northern Ireland doesn't celebrate that kind of thing. Oh, the politicians like to use it as a backslapping exercise. I find it distasteful because it's the victims of Republican and Loyalist terrorists who've missed out the most. One mention in a small paragraph in the Agreement and vital evidence destroyed which means zero chance of conviction of terrorists. So, justice denied to them which leads to a victim hierarchy.

Biden though shows he doesn't understand Northern Ireland or how delicate our structure is. Nobody really was enthusiastic, waiting for him to make a major gaffe and large crowds didn't turn out. A non-event. Biden is too partisan which isn't good optics for a US President when it comes to Northern Ireland.

But there should have been no hoopla over the 25th anniversary of the Belfast Agreement. Its not an appropriate thing to do for something like that. No-one celebrated in 1998 or the years after in NI. Its weird to do, really.

I don't see it as a jilt for the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland. Its more like a non-event than anything else. Certainly not close to Clinton's visit in 1995.

DownNative · 16/04/2023 02:18

Goldenbear · 16/04/2023 02:03

Absolutely, I've learnt more from you than I ever did on the topic on Irish History on my 'A' level history course in the mid 90s! You sound very knowledgeable DownNative.

I've quite a library of books on Northern Ireland. Most I've read, some I haven't. The quotes I've used from Liam Kennedy is from his book, "Unhappy The Land: The Most Oppressed People Ever, The Irish?".

You might like that - academic, really, but very informative on different aspects. There's a section on Irish-Americans. Deals also with Unionist and Republican ideology - for example, the Ulster Covenant and Irish Proclamation texts are considered as examples of texting terror. Interesting stuff!

I'm always buying* *books, underlining most of them, looking for more information and then writing about them to be passed on to my future descendants so they understand the perspective of my Catholic Unionist family. Now, there's a little understood group!

Oriunda · 16/04/2023 02:22

Curseofthenation · 14/04/2023 17:01

There's nothing wrong with saying that you have Irish ancestors. It doesn't make you Irish.

If you have an Italian grandparent, you aren't 1/4 Italian either. You just have an Italian relative.

No one will judge an American for simply saying 'my ancestors come from Ireland'.

In the case of Italy, though, anyone with an Italian parent is automatically considered to be Italian, under the jus sanguinis rule. My DS, despite having been born in the UK, is Italian in the eyes of the authorities there (I got severely told off at passport control once for not having obtained his Italian ID card; since remedied). Having an Italian grandparent, or even a relative even further back, gives one the right to obtain Italian citizenship easily. Hence why so many Americans of Italian heritage call themselves Italian Americans and actually are, because many of them obtain Italian citizenship.

Busybutbored · 16/04/2023 02:57

If you have an Italian grandparent, you aren't 1/4 Italian either. You just have an Italian relative

Erm @Curseofthenation do you know how genetics and maths work?? I hope this makes it to the Daily Mail and this is quoted so the government starts to take education a little more seriously 🤣

4plusthehound · 16/04/2023 03:12

barmycatmum · 15/04/2023 18:37

I’m an American, and I also lived in Germany for years, and the one thing I can add to this discussion is: we are a very young, naive country. When I moved back from Germany, I had people asking if I was a “communist” since I had lived in Germany. Just incredible ignorance.

many people here have not been out of the country - ever- in their entire lives.

we don’t have the kind of history you all do- we think a building is “old” if it was built in the 1800’s!

So all of our ancestors (except Native Americans) came over from somewhere almost within our memory. Maybe a few generations removed, but it’s still the blink of an eye when compared to the history in the UK and elsewhere.

“No Irish Need Apply” was a sign in many shops- just to bring up the Irish thing, Irish immigrants were treated very badly -
so within the melting pot of the USA, we still have these areas where people were handed down the idea that they are Irish, or they are Polish, or they are Russian, etc. because that’s how they kept safe.

traditions were preserved within those groups, but they also changed over time, so it’s watered down and probably completely bizarre to someone actually from those countries - it’s a tradition from the time immigrants arrived, that has been preserved by word of mouth or communal sharing. It might be so far removed from the actual tradition, that it’s completely different.

People might connect very passionately with their ancestry (like Biden does) because ultimately it’s an Underdog story, and their family had to be scrappy and wily and f*cking survive by any means.

Or there are also those who are snobby as hell about their lineage, because we had “old families” especially in Boston and New York, families with old money forming our version of aristocracy.

I can see how ridiculous it is to other countries - but when you’re a mixed mutt in a country with no roots here, one has to try to form an identity, and learning about our ancestors is the way many of us do that.

however. I really wish more Americans would travel and would learn other languages. It is so embarrassing .. the ignorance.

but at the same time, that I say that is a bit classist - many cannot afford to travel, and can’t afford education. So they take their learning from their family “roots,” I suppose.

thanks for being patient with us; America is basically the equivalent of a pre-teen child 😂🥳

bloody hell -

"thanks for being patient with us".

Get off your knees...

4plusthehound · 16/04/2023 03:29

DownNative · 16/04/2023 01:52

The United States of America is 247 years old this year!

So, it didn't take a few hundred years for the US to become what it is now. The US pretty much took the form we know it today before the 20th Century even dawned!

Well, the Dutch West India company established the New Netherland Colony in 1624.

It was present day New York , New Jersey, Connecticut and parts of Long Island. The British took it over in 1664.

Listen, I am not trying to shout anything down but I am saying that the America we know today, the United States, with home rule and a federal government took quite a while from the first European arrivals.

Creepyrosemary · 16/04/2023 03:50

It's funny that they're never from Wales.

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