I’m an American, and I also lived in Germany for years, and the one thing I can add to this discussion is: we are a very young, naive country. When I moved back from Germany, I had people asking if I was a “communist” since I had lived in Germany. Just incredible ignorance.
many people here have not been out of the country - ever- in their entire lives.
we don’t have the kind of history you all do- we think a building is “old” if it was built in the 1800’s!
So all of our ancestors (except Native Americans) came over from somewhere almost within our memory. Maybe a few generations removed, but it’s still the blink of an eye when compared to the history in the UK and elsewhere.
“No Irish Need Apply” was a sign in many shops- just to bring up the Irish thing, Irish immigrants were treated very badly -
so within the melting pot of the USA, we still have these areas where people were handed down the idea that they are Irish, or they are Polish, or they are Russian, etc. because that’s how they kept safe.
traditions were preserved within those groups, but they also changed over time, so it’s watered down and probably completely bizarre to someone actually from those countries - it’s a tradition from the time immigrants arrived, that has been preserved by word of mouth or communal sharing. It might be so far removed from the actual tradition, that it’s completely different.
People might connect very passionately with their ancestry (like Biden does) because ultimately it’s an Underdog story, and their family had to be scrappy and wily and f*cking survive by any means.
Or there are also those who are snobby as hell about their lineage, because we had “old families” especially in Boston and New York, families with old money forming our version of aristocracy.
I can see how ridiculous it is to other countries - but when you’re a mixed mutt in a country with no roots here, one has to try to form an identity, and learning about our ancestors is the way many of us do that.
however. I really wish more Americans would travel and would learn other languages. It is so embarrassing .. the ignorance.
but at the same time, that I say that is a bit classist - many cannot afford to travel, and can’t afford education. So they take their learning from their family “roots,” I suppose.
thanks for being patient with us; America is basically the equivalent of a pre-teen child 😂🥳