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To think blaming Brexit for all our current issues is outdated

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Bethatlass · 12/04/2023 09:21

When Brexit was being voted on in 2016 Obama was president in the US, George Osborne was chancellor, David Cameron was prime minister, most people had never even heard of Wuhan in China. Since then we’ve had a trump presidency, a way in Ukraine, a global pandemic, massive political change etc. To put it into context my own DD was still in primary school when it happened and is now ready to go off to university in a matter of months. I’m not denying that Brexit has caused and contributed to some of the current issues. However, none of us could have possibly known about Ukraine or the pandemic when we were voting on it and none of us could have possibly known the change in politics we would have of those delivering it. FWIW I didn’t vote leave, although I was torn at the time, while I still think I was right to vote remain I don’t blame those who felt differently almost a decade ago. Therefore, Aibu to think that blaming those who voted for Brexit/Brexit itself for all our current issues is outdated.

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Luckydip1 · 13/04/2023 07:41

What Liz Truss tried to do, but implemented badly, was to make the UK an attractive place for foreign investment in spite of Brexit, by reducing corporation tax. Even that idea failed.

JassyRadlett · 13/04/2023 08:26

KLFisgonnarockyou · 13/04/2023 05:34

Honestly, the way some Brexit supporters talk, it's as if there was a five minute window that we could pin on Brexit.

After the vote, we needed to wait to see the positive impacts. Now, some say, it was too far in the past to have an impact.

Can we be told the date when this positive window was? At least pin it down to a month?

Schrödinger's Brexit. Simultaneously it happened too far in the past to have any impact today, and not enough time has passed to see any positives.

WhiteCatmas · 13/04/2023 08:55

I’m pretty sure we can blame the lack of a functioning government in NI on Brexit, but you go ahead OP.

Kendodd · 13/04/2023 09:01

RedToothBrush · 12/04/2023 22:23

Before 1992 all the other European countries had passports

So we weren't competing against people who all needed passports and visas.

Now we are the only ones who do.

And vice versa.

This is why if you can get an Irish passport you have a massive advantage over a Brit.

Why take a Brit over someone who is an EU citizen?

Honestly, I wouldn't bother trying to explain. This poster has had years to grasp this absolutely basic and easy to understand information. They still haven't got it, I don't think they ever will get it.

An American friend said to me just after brexit that he'd kill for an EU passport, he couldn't believe we had voted to take them off our own children. Not having an EU passport even affects our ability to work in the UK. A friend of mine has a TV set building company, they've always done a lot of work in Europe. He now only hires people with EU passports so they can travel easily.

LegallyFit · 13/04/2023 09:14

@nomoredriving I have my reasons for not wanting to vote which are very personal to me. It doesn't mean I am weak.

Kucinghitam · 13/04/2023 09:16

KLFisgonnarockyou · 13/04/2023 05:34

Honestly, the way some Brexit supporters talk, it's as if there was a five minute window that we could pin on Brexit.

After the vote, we needed to wait to see the positive impacts. Now, some say, it was too far in the past to have an impact.

Can we be told the date when this positive window was? At least pin it down to a month?

A whole month? You're asking for the moon on a stick. It'll not be longer than a femtosecond.

Brefugee · 13/04/2023 09:21

JR-M says it will take 50 years for the full benefits of Brexit to kick in. So, given that it's a done deal and we all have to live with it, i'd be asking for a short- medium- and long-term forecast/roadmap of when and how these benefits are going to start manifesting themselves.

Because it's not going to be BAM! it's 2066 and here we are: Bloody Beneficial Brexitland.

I have been pondering Brexit a lot lately. It affects me in a few small ways that are annoyances but i can live with them (indeed, i must live with them) and i do wonder, in day-to-day life how much Brexit affects the person on the Clapham Omnibus (as it were. Mondeo Man, Stevenage Woman, The Wild Women of Penistone are all available)

Given the pandemic and the resulting recession and current banking/market crash that's going on, it is really difficult to separate out what are the effects of Brexit and what are just a result of the rest of the current shit-show. That benefits, of course, the Brexiters greatly because nobody will ever know.

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/04/2023 09:27

DannyZukosSmile · Yesterday 23:58
100% agree. Blaming Brexit for everything that goes wrong / is going wrong is pathetic. But you'll never get people on here to agree with you. The majority of people here are remainers... I won't get into an argument with anyone about it on here. It's a waste of time”

What would that argument be? Please, what are the positives?

Eleganz · 13/04/2023 09:31

Sadly I'm now stuck on an island with enough people like OP that they can vote for a government. People with no grasp of how what they vote for impacts themselves and others. People incapable of thinking beyond the latest manufactured crisis.

Yolo12345 · 13/04/2023 09:36

LegallyFit · 13/04/2023 05:52

I voted leave.

Now I would change that to neither - as in not voting at all.

Oh come on...men and women literally died for the right to be enfranchised and to access education. Here we are now with unprecedented access to information and allowed to think critically and this is the best you can come up with?

Eleganz · 13/04/2023 09:39

Brefugee · 13/04/2023 09:21

JR-M says it will take 50 years for the full benefits of Brexit to kick in. So, given that it's a done deal and we all have to live with it, i'd be asking for a short- medium- and long-term forecast/roadmap of when and how these benefits are going to start manifesting themselves.

Because it's not going to be BAM! it's 2066 and here we are: Bloody Beneficial Brexitland.

I have been pondering Brexit a lot lately. It affects me in a few small ways that are annoyances but i can live with them (indeed, i must live with them) and i do wonder, in day-to-day life how much Brexit affects the person on the Clapham Omnibus (as it were. Mondeo Man, Stevenage Woman, The Wild Women of Penistone are all available)

Given the pandemic and the resulting recession and current banking/market crash that's going on, it is really difficult to separate out what are the effects of Brexit and what are just a result of the rest of the current shit-show. That benefits, of course, the Brexiters greatly because nobody will ever know.

You do realise that Rees-Mogg is just making his predictions up? He certainly said none of that during the referendum campaign, why on earth should he be believed? You can ask for roadmaps all you like, there isn't one, none of them have any idea how to make it work. The last time one of them tried to do something radical they tanked the economy!

It isn't hard to separate out the impacts of Brexit at all. Many experts are doing that and reporting it all the time. There is no doubt about the impact at major transport hubs like Dover for example and how that is directly adding cost to products we buy and making it more difficult to travel for tourism. The issue is that we have a constant media and political drone casting doubt on whether Brexit can be blamed for certain issues or not to create doubt in voters' minds.

The idea that the best we can hope for is that there are "just a few little annoyances that we can live with" with "I'm alright Jack" attitudes from folk like you is ridiculous compared to what was campaigned about by the likes of Rees-Mogg and Johnson.

LegallyFit · 13/04/2023 09:49

@Yolo12345 Yes, it's a personal choice whether to take part in voting.

nomoredriving · 13/04/2023 09:58

LegallyFit · 13/04/2023 09:49

@Yolo12345 Yes, it's a personal choice whether to take part in voting.

To be honest, the only people worse that Brexit voters are non voters, I mean to not have an opinion is weak. Anyone who doesn't vote I don't even discuss brexit/politics with as I feel they've given up that right.

Thatisme · 13/04/2023 11:11

Crikeyalmighty · 12/04/2023 18:05

@Paulrn with all due respect if you voted in 1975 you are of retirement age- its not your future life chances /choices you have buggered up unless you intended to retire abroad, but it's certainly buggered up my 25 year olds options and definitely caused issues in our business . It is not remainers voting who are ripping apart the country and causing issues , it's Brexit itself, (not totally this but it's a big part of the mix) after all what can we remain voters do apart from lots of keyboard warrior style moaning. We aren't controlling the economy . The fact remains this wasn't a free decision, no costs, no consequences- it has cost £450 billion which is more than the cost of our entire contributions in 40 odd years. That means less money for essential things, not more and for sod all tangible gain - you are as you say entitled to vote as you wish , but don't try and lay it on remainers ripping the country apart - leave voters have done that by voting this way , along with the Tory's - less investment, reduced standards - zero gain , apart from giving a load of flag waving people a feeling of 'we won,you lost' -the country has won nothing !! We have simply handed a lot of our best business over to our EU neighbours on a plate and given international business no real reason to invest here at all. We have enabled very rich people to now hide away all their cash offshore without any scrutiny. My FIL at 83 had the decency to say to us that he was out of touch , hadn't thought it through , it's a total shit show and he utterly regrets voting that way

That's exactly it! The arrogance, ignorance and xenophobia of a certain generation has deeply affected the future of many, for the worse.

Blossomtoes · 13/04/2023 11:26

Thatisme · 13/04/2023 11:11

That's exactly it! The arrogance, ignorance and xenophobia of a certain generation has deeply affected the future of many, for the worse.

Please don’t tar us all with the same brush. There are a lot of us in “that certain generation” who were absolutely gutted when we heard the referendum result and let’s not pretend it was just older voters who thought leaving was a good idea.

https://yougov.co.uk/topics/politics/articles-reports/2016/06/27/how-britain-voted

How Britain voted at the EU referendum | YouGov

Over-65s were more than twice as likely as under-25s to have voted to Leave the European Union

https://yougov.co.uk/topics/politics/articles-reports/2016/06/27/how-britain-voted

LegallyFit · 13/04/2023 11:28

@nomoredriving I don't vote for religious reasons as I am to remain neutral in politics.

I meant to comment on a thread about voting and whether we would change our vote now. I accidentally commented on the wrong thread, my mistake.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 13/04/2023 11:32

Outdated? We've only just left!!!

Is this a joke?

Thatisme · 13/04/2023 11:35

Blossomtoes · 13/04/2023 11:26

Please don’t tar us all with the same brush. There are a lot of us in “that certain generation” who were absolutely gutted when we heard the referendum result and let’s not pretend it was just older voters who thought leaving was a good idea.

https://yougov.co.uk/topics/politics/articles-reports/2016/06/27/how-britain-voted

You're right, this was a generalisation on my part. I apologise.

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 13/04/2023 11:42

outdated? Confused

So many people said Brexit would result in a gradual decline in living standards in the UK. And that's exactly what's happening.

The shitshow that is the UK in 2023 is the reality of Brexit playing out.

Yorkshirelass04 · 13/04/2023 12:03

Let's be clear on one thing.

The Tories are the reason everything is so shit!!!

And they led us out of the EU.

Blame the party responsible and vote another in.

Luckydip1 · 13/04/2023 12:50

Yorkshirelass04 · 13/04/2023 12:03

Let's be clear on one thing.

The Tories are the reason everything is so shit!!!

And they led us out of the EU.

Blame the party responsible and vote another in.

The Labour Party are bizarrely pro Brexit and don't forget the Tory PM was begging people not to vote for Brexit. Don't blame the tories for this mess.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 13/04/2023 12:57

Luckydip1 · 13/04/2023 12:50

The Labour Party are bizarrely pro Brexit and don't forget the Tory PM was begging people not to vote for Brexit. Don't blame the tories for this mess.

The Tory PM that you mention knew that Brexit would be a disaster for our country but he chose to gamble away our future by holding an unnecessary referendum because he was too weak to stand up to critics in his own party.

Subsequent Tory leaders then chose to interpret an incredibly close referendum result as giving them a mandate for a very hard Brexit.

I absolutely blame the fucking Tories for the mess that they have created. And everyone who voted for them!

newnamethanks · 13/04/2023 13:06

Hear, hear, Mrs Bennett.

Brefugee · 13/04/2023 13:08

Eleganz · 13/04/2023 09:39

You do realise that Rees-Mogg is just making his predictions up? He certainly said none of that during the referendum campaign, why on earth should he be believed? You can ask for roadmaps all you like, there isn't one, none of them have any idea how to make it work. The last time one of them tried to do something radical they tanked the economy!

It isn't hard to separate out the impacts of Brexit at all. Many experts are doing that and reporting it all the time. There is no doubt about the impact at major transport hubs like Dover for example and how that is directly adding cost to products we buy and making it more difficult to travel for tourism. The issue is that we have a constant media and political drone casting doubt on whether Brexit can be blamed for certain issues or not to create doubt in voters' minds.

The idea that the best we can hope for is that there are "just a few little annoyances that we can live with" with "I'm alright Jack" attitudes from folk like you is ridiculous compared to what was campaigned about by the likes of Rees-Mogg and Johnson.

I was trying to be charitable. We know the impacts of Brexit on certain sectors, and we can make educated guesses at the rest.

I find it easier to talk to a bunch of people who apparently voted leave, and/or aren't really that well acquainted with what the EU did/does, in softer generalisations to ease into a more detailed discussion. Because otherwise it's "oh you're a remoaner" and ear blocking ensues.

I also think that unless you see the effects via work (maybe your company exports to the EU) or business, it can be hard to really understand (or care) just what the changes are. After all, many people lived their lives without thinking about the EU at all when UK was a member.

The reason i mention what JR-M said is that what i would really like to see in the UK is people asking that question of politicians: where are we on your road map of the next 50 years? because as we can guess, there is no answer as they neither know nor (seem to) care. But those questions deserve to be asked. Alongside: now we're not shovelling so much money to the EU, just where is it going? I know we can look up the answer to that, but i want to see politicians answering that question.

I'm still boilingly angry about the stupid referendum question and the lack of thought that went into it.
I would really love to know how it would have gone if the question(s) had been:
a) stay in the EU as we are
b) withdraw everything except the single market
c) leave completely

I suppose my (possibly vain) hope would be that people might then have researched what the SM is, and possibly voted for that. That's a Brexit I'd have found it easier to live with.

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