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Is Shamima Begum a victim or a criminal?

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ShamimaBegu · 28/03/2023 10:34

Just listened to the podcasts about Shamima Begum. How can Shamima Begum not be viewed as a victim of grooming and sex trafficking? How on earth would a 15 year old got to Syria without adults making it happen?
She was married off and became pregnant on multiple occasions. She surely is as much a victim as a criminal?

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potniatheron · 28/03/2023 15:04

Rapapampam · 28/03/2023 14:10

Now there’s some vids on YouTube about a Yazidi sex slave who was eyewitness to SB’s true behaviour in Syria.
Anyone who is defending this dumb, violent criminal is blind and equally dumb. Who in their right mind is thinking about joining a terrorist group at 15? At that age your biggest worry is your grades and whether your crush likes you, not an effing terrorist organisation.
You join a terrorist group, then don’t expect to be taken back to the UK. She can live in no-man’s land her whole life for all I care.

Agreed. She (Begum) was a member of the ISIS morality police - women who went about enforcing ISIS' version of 'morality' on other women and girsl, in between torturing Yazidi women and girls.

verdantverdure · 28/03/2023 15:05

Ofcom says GB "News" isn't a news channel so it's not subject to the same rules as actual news channels.

SB was a child victim of grooming and sex trafficking.

That's just a fact.

I think people have their own reasons why they don't see it that way, and I do tend to assume it's racism at worst and ignorance at best.

Brexit's done more harm to this country than SB.

mycoffeecup · 28/03/2023 15:10

potniatheron · 28/03/2023 15:04

Agreed. She (Begum) was a member of the ISIS morality police - women who went about enforcing ISIS' version of 'morality' on other women and girsl, in between torturing Yazidi women and girls.

And your source for that is?
We don't know if she was or wasn't - there's just no evidence either way

Kanaloa · 28/03/2023 15:13

Blossomtoes · 28/03/2023 13:51

The problem is that those two little boys were accepted quite rightly not as monsters or demons or any other silly rhetoric, but as products of OUR society

Really? Clearly you don’t remember the news coverage at the time.

Well they were tried in a court setting. Trying them in a British court accepts them as a product of our society. And for what it’s worth I think most normal people realise that two children who commit a murder makes three tragedies.

Kanaloa · 28/03/2023 15:15

Dotjones · 28/03/2023 14:04

She's a criminal, plain and simple, and deserves to be stripped of her citizenship. A person like her has no place in our society. Is it right to expect another country to give her residence? No, but that doesn't mean she has to be allowed to return here.

To me there's no issue with making someone stateless if their behaviour justifies it. So she has no right to go anywhere, so what, if no country will accept her that just rams home the message that what she did was unacceptable to every country in the world.

Citizenship shouldn't be considered an automatic right - if it were, I could just choose to become a citizen of the US or Australia and someone in Madagascar could just choose to become a citizen here.

It’s to do with responsibility. It’s easy to say ‘if no country will accept her that’s her fault’ but what you’re really saying is ‘our country doesn’t have to deal with things we can’t be bothered with - an impoverished war torn country will be stuck with her.’

Unless of course you’re proposing we pay for a spaceship to launch her off of planet earth, she will have to live in some country or other. That country should be the one who made her.

frazzledasarock · 28/03/2023 15:28

She’d be out of her mind to openly condemn ISIL or say they’re bad or anything negative about them on open media, whilst sittting in a refugee camp in the middle of nowhere with no protection.

roarfeckingroarr · 28/03/2023 16:30

Itsbytheby · 28/03/2023 11:45

Again, listening to the interviews with her, what she seemed attracted to was the community that it was offering. More so than the violence or even the cause. She also barely talks about her religion factoring in. She was groomed/ indoctrinated into thinking of it as some kind of utopia community. From what I can gather she was very quickly brought down to earth when the reality hit, e.g. when she was married off.

Im sorry but there's no way she thought ISIS were a utopian community. Beheadings and rape were well publicised and yet off she went.

Itsbytheby · 28/03/2023 16:38

roarfeckingroarr · 28/03/2023 16:30

Im sorry but there's no way she thought ISIS were a utopian community. Beheadings and rape were well publicised and yet off she went.

I am not saying she wasn't aware. But apparently only 10% of their recruitment marketing is about the voilence. The majority is about community, inclusion, purpose etc. Obviously this is coupled with ideology, and joiners will be aware of the violence, but it's packaged up as being about community and purpose. Since the ISIS Caliphate was disbanded people interested in joining have declined massively. Part of that is of course that ISIS isn't doing so well, but apparently a big part of it is considered by experts to be because they are no longer able to offer this community element.

pavillion1 · 28/03/2023 16:40

i think that she still doesn't come across as overly sorry or accepting of the situation. Ive seen her interviews and her attitude annoys me .
Criminal.

DedicatedFollowerOfFashion84 · 28/03/2023 16:43

Rapapampam · 28/03/2023 14:56

Why don’t you go and give her a hug, then house her in your property?
If she comes back here, will you pay the 24/hour security she will clearly need? No?
Will you keep, clothe and fed her? Because she won’t be able to work or do anything productive while constantly threatened.

What a ridiculous reply 🙄 If your 15 year daughter had been radicalised would you be saying the same thing. My eldest two are 14 and 18, I can see how easily manipulated they’d be and how easy it would be to groom them. Your opinion is nothing short of racism tbh

Markasread · 28/03/2023 16:44

She's both. She's not 15 anymore. There are people who are more vulnerable in the UK and our jail sentences aren't long.

DedicatedFollowerOfFashion84 · 28/03/2023 16:45

@Rapapampam and as it goes, we’re already paying for child rapists to be housed, for murderers to be held in prison etc, why should Shemima be any different?

Livelovebehappy · 28/03/2023 16:45

I do. Why would the fact she was mal nourished and tired make her say something which isn’t true? It’s a crap excuse. I would imagine in that situation you’re more likely to say it how it is, rather than make up bullshit.

RunningFromInsanity · 28/03/2023 16:49

Both. But more importantly she is a British criminal and a British victim.
There are plenty of criminals (rapists, murderers etc) who I would love to be chucked out of the country and become someone else’s problem, but that’s not how it works. Stripping her of her citizenship was a popularity stunt.

Livelovebehappy · 28/03/2023 16:51

verdantverdure · 28/03/2023 15:05

Ofcom says GB "News" isn't a news channel so it's not subject to the same rules as actual news channels.

SB was a child victim of grooming and sex trafficking.

That's just a fact.

I think people have their own reasons why they don't see it that way, and I do tend to assume it's racism at worst and ignorance at best.

Brexit's done more harm to this country than SB.

Here we go 🙄, that same old lazy argument pulling racism out of the bag when people can’t think of any other plausible reason. She’s a terrorist. No-one believes her bullshit, only the gullible amongst us. Stop making excuses for her. There really are no excuses for the disgusting things her ‘people’ have done.

onetimenamec · 28/03/2023 17:01

All our worst criminals were fifteen years old once and the seeds are often sown that early on. Why should we feel more sorry for her than the others. Heck, they were all super cute babes in arms once. Should we let them all go free upon that basis?

Blossomtoes · 28/03/2023 17:02

And living in a camp with violent ISIS sympathisers.

She’s still there. Have they suddenly become more tolerant?

onetimenamec · 28/03/2023 17:14

The majority of criminals in the UK have a less complex psychological profile than her. They are in for drug and alcohol related impulsive and petty crimes. They are capable of being rehabilitated in many cases.

Rapapampam · 28/03/2023 17:24

DedicatedFollowerOfFashion84 · 28/03/2023 16:43

What a ridiculous reply 🙄 If your 15 year daughter had been radicalised would you be saying the same thing. My eldest two are 14 and 18, I can see how easily manipulated they’d be and how easy it would be to groom them. Your opinion is nothing short of racism tbh

Where is the racism in my post? Would you kindly point it out? I would say the very same thing if she was a member of the white race.

Crazycatlady83 · 28/03/2023 17:27

But being a victim doesn't absolve you of criminal responsibility. I think the interviews she gave in the camp after she left ISIS really did transition her from victim to criminal pretty quick in the public's eyes. Yes she was heavily pregnant / had a new born - so can we take her interviews at face value? She was living with some pretty hard liners at that stage so I imagine she was afraid for her safety.

I have listened to the podcast and I'm on the fence. We deport foreign criminals, sometimes ones who has lived here the majority of their life, this isn't something new.

And why is she Bangladesh "problem". I guess our government primary concern is the safety of their own citizens not the citizens of a foreign country

Saying that it is racism driving the decision to strip her of her citizenship means you have to ignore the case of Jack Letts who is of course a white British / Canadian man who was born in Oxford and who was stripped of his citizenship because he had a Canadian father. He had never lived in Canada either.

clarepetal · 28/03/2023 17:30

Oysterbabe · 28/03/2023 11:20

I've always thought of her as a victim and have never understood the pure hostility towards her.

Same. She slipped through the net. Her friend Sharmima was so vulnerable. She turned to ISIS after her mother died. When she went, the school believed Shamima and her friends were then vulnerable, but the police gave letters to Shamima and her friends for their parents. Surprisingly, they hid them..the police should have done more.

A lot of people do not believe that she was so naive to not know what ISIS did. I disagree, I worked with a girl who started her period aged 15, she did not know what her period was. That's a crazy thing to happen in this day and age..she was silly to go, but I feel she was naive.

clarepetal · 28/03/2023 17:31

The podcast was great, by the way.

JamSandle · 28/03/2023 17:32

dancinfeet · 28/03/2023 14:52

she is a victim, if she were white she would be portrayed as such in the media, but it’s too easy to throw blame instead

Nothing to do with race. If anything people are being softer on her because she's female.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 28/03/2023 17:35

frazzledasarock · 28/03/2023 15:28

She’d be out of her mind to openly condemn ISIL or say they’re bad or anything negative about them on open media, whilst sittting in a refugee camp in the middle of nowhere with no protection.

A refugee camp where she feels safe enough to wear European clothes while she gives yet another interview.

onetimenamec · 28/03/2023 17:37

I just think that people who fuck up big time imagine that there is a rewind function when life is constantly moving in the other direction. Sje will never be that fifteen year old schoolkid again. She has ordered murders, birthed and buried three children, lived with some of the consequences in trying circumstances.

She was clearly unhappy with British life and values and questioned them enough to make a change which would count as adventurous and self-liberating from her perspective at age fifteen. Though they do not want her, surely Bangladesh would offer less things to hate and if there were any hope for her, she would fare better there than here?