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Waters broke 14 weeks is there any hope?

631 replies

user1469032438 · 26/03/2023 19:26

I think my waters broke and I'm only 14 weeks along, i was stood in the kitchen and all of a sudden there was a load of bloody liquid like wee but I wasn't weeing. Maternity unit wouldn't see me because I was less than 18 weeks and EPU is shut so they told me to ring 111 who said go to A&E so now I'm sat in A&E.

There is no hope for the baby though right? :( I have had 3 miscarriages and when this one got to 12 weeks and everything looked OK I stupidly began to relax.

OP posts:
DuckbilledSplatterPuff · 27/03/2023 11:39

Sending you good wishes for your scan Flowers

Hueandcry · 27/03/2023 11:47

Keeping everything crossed for you OP. Although my waters didn't break I had substantial bleeding with dc2, after 4 miscarriages. I convinced myself the news would be bad. He was 21 not long ago. I'm so hoping things will be OK for you. We're here for you either way.

Mangotango39 · 27/03/2023 11:47

wishing you the best 🌸

Sistanotcista · 27/03/2023 11:49

You are in my thoughts and prayers x

Tereseta · 27/03/2023 11:51

Good luck, hope you get seen quickly

RestingMurderousFace · 27/03/2023 11:51

Thinking of you x

FiloPasty · 27/03/2023 11:52

Another one here sending a handhold and good wishes x

MrsRinaDecker · 27/03/2023 11:53

Sending every loving thought OP Flowers

matthancockscareer · 27/03/2023 11:57

Thinking of you OP, sending so much love xx

fghj149 · 27/03/2023 11:57

Thinking of you op ❤️❤️

AWaferThinMint · 27/03/2023 11:58

Sending you love OP xx

Emmamoo89 · 27/03/2023 12:01

Thinking of you ❤❤

LouLouLabby · 27/03/2023 12:01

Thinking of you and hoping for better news xx

DoIWantThis · 27/03/2023 12:01

sending love OP xxx

tixilixi · 27/03/2023 12:02

I really hope you get good news... I lost my waters and bled heavily at 12 weeks with my 2nd daughter. they took me in because I was open to infections told me there was no hope and they expected me to miscarry within a couple of days.. .
but she still had a heartbeat so I couldnt give up hoping they were wrong....
3months of daily Iv's because i couldnt keep food or water down.. all the while bleeding and loosing any fluids that built back up ... and I gave birth to a very tiny baby (was still a long road from here but miracles do happen x)

BreathingDeep · 27/03/2023 12:06

You're in my thoughts and I'm so hoping for a positive outcome for you. Sending love and strength (and chocolate, obviously) x

Medenagan · 27/03/2023 12:07

Wishing you all the very best xx

ArchieStar · 27/03/2023 12:09

Sending you a massive hand hold and very un mumsnetty hug. It’s so hard I know ❤️‍🩹

QuackMooBaaOink · 27/03/2023 12:09

Hoping for the best for you, I have been there and limbo is just awful. I wish there was something we could say to make it better but I am very sorry you are going through this and hope it is positive news.

PartySuziPlease · 27/03/2023 12:12

Thinking of you OP xxx

TheSoapyFrog · 27/03/2023 12:13

Thinking of you OP, and praying for a happy outcome.

PointyMcguire · 27/03/2023 12:15

I have nothing useful to add but sending love and keeping everything crossed for good news for you x

PinkyFlamingo · 27/03/2023 12:21

I don't know why they said about having to send you away and come back for a scan, thats mental torture. Hope everything is OK

Callmemummynotmaaa · 27/03/2023 12:27

OP sending hugs. I’ve had a late miss (my words for what I experienced) and it was an incredibly hard time in my life. There were no words for how devastated I was. I know that you haven’t shared yet, as to how you got on at your scan. So I don’t mean in any way to scare you. But just to say, it’s ok to not be ok. To take time (whatever the outcome) to process the emotional rollercoaster few days you’ve had. And to feel angry (or a very wide range of emotions) that this has been your experience of pregnancy. Massive hugs for now. Hope your as ok as can be and have support around you. Hope you have answers are are not left in limbo too much longer Xx

ComeTheFuckOnBridgett · 27/03/2023 12:29

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