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To think this is a red flag?

83 replies

namechange3388 · 15/03/2023 00:29

New bloke likes to knock stuff over if he gets slightly angry or feels under pressure or put out.

For example, if we're walking along and discussing something and he sees a plant pot on a wall, he'll tip it so it falls. Or push bin bags over so they block a path. Or tip newspapers off stands in a shop.

It's like a pouty petulance. Just arsehole behaviour I think. Never seen anything like ie before.

He's a nutter, isn't he?

Or AIBU

OP posts:
GoodChat · 15/03/2023 17:04

Good work @namechange3388

NaomhPadraigin · 15/03/2023 17:06

namechange3388 · 15/03/2023 17:03

I've called him out on it and he grumpily apologises

Let's face it, he's an arsehole

He's been dumped. By text. He messaged back 'fucking thanks'.

Next!

Proved your point there didn't he?!!

Good riddance!

SignOnTheWindow · 15/03/2023 17:15

namechange3388 · 15/03/2023 03:11

Trying to find someone

Don't let this loser be that someone, OP! You deserve better. X

SignOnTheWindow · 15/03/2023 17:15

namechange3388 · 15/03/2023 17:03

I've called him out on it and he grumpily apologises

Let's face it, he's an arsehole

He's been dumped. By text. He messaged back 'fucking thanks'.

Next!

Onwards and upwards!

whattodo1975 · 15/03/2023 17:16

I find it more worrying that you have to even ask on this one.

Back2front · 15/03/2023 17:18

Run

EggyBreads · 15/03/2023 17:23

This isn't a red flag. As others have said, red flags are behaviours that can be ambiguous. A bit of a grey area as it were. This isn't a grey area, this is full on psycho behaviour. That you can't identify it as such and need to ask other people is concerning.

2bazookas · 15/03/2023 17:32

Run run run, before he gets annoyed with you and knocks you over. It's what he does.

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