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How many more of these sick people will use this pretence?

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Logicoutofthewindow · 14/03/2023 08:36

So yet again a man who has attacked girls has used the 'I identify as a woman' as a way of minimising sentence, an excuse, attempting to gain access to women and girls, or whatever reason he (I refuse to call it a woman) and he has to be pandered to because .... well everyone can self identify now and well TWAW.

We never used to have this mess. There have always been a small number of individuals who would feel differently. Now there appears to be a growing number of men who identify as women who are sex offenders.

How many more will use this sick pretence?

Should we accept this man as a woman?

Or am I being unreasonable and say there needs to be more checking before we blithely accept every man that says he feels like a woman now?

What do you think?

OP posts:
viques · 14/03/2023 09:03

lazycats · 14/03/2023 08:41

of course, another trans thread.

Or another thread where a crime committed by a man is attributed to crimes committed by women. Google the YouTube “not our crimes” compilation to see how the justice system is being taken for a ride.

SinnerBoy · 14/03/2023 09:04

Well if they would stop raping and assaulting people there wouldn't be a need for news articles and threads?

Well, quite; it's not as if anyone is making them be rapey twatsticks, is it?

Pumpkin20222 · 14/03/2023 09:05

beastlyslumber · 14/03/2023 08:43

I agree, OP. It's a scary situation when a rapist can say "I'm a woman" and be let off his crimes or be placed in a women's prison.

Agree. How is there a situation where rapists are getting imprisoned alongside vulnerable women. How can this happen when there is a duty of care to people in prison.

Logicoutofthewindow · 14/03/2023 09:05

viques · 14/03/2023 09:03

Or another thread where a crime committed by a man is attributed to crimes committed by women. Google the YouTube “not our crimes” compilation to see how the justice system is being taken for a ride.

Indeed. It's very lazy to dismiss it as just another trans thread rather than actually thinking about the issue that some men are pretending to be women to access women/girls and to run a power trip by having his victims refer to him as she or Miss and to be treated as a woman or other reasons. Many appear accepting of this misuse.

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Phos · 14/03/2023 09:05

I completely agree. I don't have a problem with someone identifying/living/presenting as another gender if that's what makes them comfortable.

But when this starts being used for nefarious purposes such as the criminal cases above, or gaining access to women's sport to gain an advantage, this has the potential to harm everyone, both biological women and those people amongst us who genuinely do no harm other than present as the gender they were not assigned at birth.

maddy68 · 14/03/2023 09:06

The same way as people can claim mental illness to get reduced sentances or preferential treatment.

You are throwing the baby out with the bathwater

Beamur · 14/03/2023 09:07

In answer to your question OP. I think increasingly fewer. The optics are bad. It's not politically a vote winner (see Scotland's speedy u turn) and I think reviews of prison policy will see fewer violent transwomen placed in female jails.

Logicoutofthewindow · 14/03/2023 09:08

@lazycats it's not another 'trans thread' as you say. It's a thread about why are some men allowed to pretend to be trans and use this power control - he has to be called Miss in court or she. What about the victims in this - girls! I mean seriously, it's not all about men and what they demand! Don't be lazy think on it.

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purpledalmation · 14/03/2023 09:09

Logicoutofthewindow · 14/03/2023 08:38

The rape indictment said 'she used HER penis to rape' - I mean enough of this nonsense!

Why allow this rubbish.

🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Logicoutofthewindow · 14/03/2023 09:09

Beamur · 14/03/2023 09:07

In answer to your question OP. I think increasingly fewer. The optics are bad. It's not politically a vote winner (see Scotland's speedy u turn) and I think reviews of prison policy will see fewer violent transwomen placed in female jails.

That's good then.

I also think rapists should not be referred to as Miss or she or her in court. The rapist uses a penis, is a man and should be called out as a man.

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MichelleScarn · 14/03/2023 09:09

@SinnerBoy I wouldn't be surprised if they do scrabble around trying to post the blame elsewhere!

Logicoutofthewindow · 14/03/2023 09:10

purpledalmation · 14/03/2023 09:09

🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

It's true. 'she used her penis to rape' - I'm bloody angry that a man can be referred to as 'Miss' in court when he rapes a girl (after a previous conviction of raping a girl) and everyone including his victim as to call him her/Miss etc.

Rape is about POWER and we are giving him power

OP posts:
SinnerBoy · 14/03/2023 09:11

MichelleScarn · Today 09:09

I wouldn't be surprised if they do scrabble around trying to post the blame elsewhere!

Yes, it's probably all mummy's fault, or something.

Logicoutofthewindow · 14/03/2023 09:12

I'm off to work now. I believe this is a serious enough thing to raise. It needs spotlighting. It needs to stop.

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lemmein · 14/03/2023 09:14

What pisses me off about the whole charade is nobody believes these people are women - nobody; not the liberals, not the handmaidens...every fucker is pretending. Why? Hmm

I truly don't understand the people that go along with this bullshit. Wear what you want, call yourself what you want but fuck off claiming to be an actual woman and insisting people play pretend with you.

A woman, by law, can't rape - just fuck off!!!

Groutyonehereagain · 14/03/2023 09:14

A man can never be a woman. It’s all ridiculous and it’s all got completely out of hand. Equally a woman can never be a man.

This madness is sweeping the world. It’s damaging our families and perverts are using it to hide behind. It has to stop.

Hoppinggreen · 14/03/2023 09:15

lazycats · 14/03/2023 08:41

of course, another trans thread.

Another pervert pretending to be Trans thread actually

Channellingsophistication · 14/03/2023 09:18

It’s awful, it’s like a new way of men oppressing women

Kendodd · 14/03/2023 09:19

Did this man present as trans during the assault or only afterwards?
I heard a programme on radio 4 about trans prisoners, it said 50% of trans women in prison have a history of sex crimes, compared to 18% of male prisoners. One thing that occurred to me was to wonder if trans women are more likely to be a) prosecuted and b) found guilty in jury trials than plain old fashioned male rapists/sex offenders? Given our ridiculously low conviction rates for rape, men know rape is practically legal anyway, maybe, identifying as trans actually backfires?

A second thought was, if a man is arrested for sex offences, gets to the police station, says he's actually a woman, is a woman police officer then forced to search him?

Kendodd · 14/03/2023 09:21

Hoppinggreen · 14/03/2023 09:15

Another pervert pretending to be Trans thread actually

Why pretending?
If a woman is anyone who says they are why isnt a trans woman anyone who says they are?

Beamur · 14/03/2023 09:22

a second thought was, if a man is arrested for sex offences, gets to the police station, says he's actually a woman, is a woman police officer then forced to search him?
Yes, I think this is true. Thus an abusive man gets to make another woman feel uncomfortable.

Daffodilled · 14/03/2023 09:22

It’s clear predatory violent sex offenders are now using this as a ‘get out’ clause. It’s despicable.

Where are all the genuine trans people in all of this? Why aren’t they up in arms about people pretending to be trans to get off serious sex offences and prey on women and girls? It’s almost as of TW don’t care about women Hmm.

I also cannot get my head around the use of ‘her penis’. It’s such a disgusting and dangerous use of language.

As for the ‘not another trans thread’ nonsense… people have always minimised womens issues thus. Including some women. It won’t stop me from standing up for the rights of women and girls. NEVER.

Bunshaped · 14/03/2023 09:24

I totally agree with you, OP. I try to console myself with the fact that at least more sunlight is being shone on this crap now.

There is another thread running elsewhere on mumsnet for those interested:
www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4762861-another-one-for-the-growing-list-rapists-weapon-referred-to-as-her-penis-in-court

To quote poster @MagpiePi from that thread:
I don’t understand how you are supposed to ‘tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth’ in court, but everyone is forced to lie about biological reality.

AlisonDonut · 14/03/2023 09:28

The reason is because the activists were guided by the Denton's Document to infiltrate quietly behind the scenes and get 'inclusivity' changes in policies and processes and when people do call it out they get sacked, harassed, threatened, lose their jobs, lose their livelihoods or they go after their partners and kids.

That's why.

The rapists and perverts who exploit any opportunity will use it and nobody can do a damn thing about it.

frazzledali · 14/03/2023 09:32

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