@Qazwsxefv This actually made me feel a bit emotional. Is that true - F1s now have absolutely no choice AT ALL and its all an algorithm?
I experienced something not dissimilar from yourself. Applied to a smallish rural hospital, undersubscribed area and lived with other F1s. The accommodation was a bit crappy and I did feel like I could never get away from work but enjoyed the communal/camaraderie element of living with other F1s. It was an absolute baptism of fire. No friends or family in the area, working 12 hour+ night shifts being the first doctor to arrive at a cardiac arrest etc. It helped being able to talk to other F1s over breakfast, or indeed talk about the patients as often they'd also been involved in their career on the night shifts prior to mine starting.
What this did mean however was that my husband and I were separated by the national application system. He was on the other side of the country working in A&E on a 1 in 2 weekend rota. We went weeks and months without seeing eachother. It was miserable. Work was tough and having your support system removed from you made it so so hard. Many of my colleagues relationships broke down. I'm not surprised. We tried for a transfer on the basis of being married, to no joy. Was even told being pregnant was not enough of a reason for transfer eligibility - you need a live child. Only, I was barely surviving living under these circumstances, I absolutely do not think I would have been able to bring a child into the world and cope with that life.
As it happened, even when our circumstances meant we were "eligible" for a transfer, there was no job available for the other in their speciality. Also, the more senior you level you get to, the harder it is to get a training post. The options seem like: potentially live together or at least closer but possible forever be a "junior doctor" or if you do well enough to secure a training number odds are it is likely to be geographically a nightmare. We chose the latter. It is a nightmare. Who actually wants to live like this? No matter how much you like your job, who actually prefers it to their family life? Nobody.
When kids make the decision to apply for a career in medicine, they often don't think about meeting their spouse/wanting to start a family etc. You can't live like a student in shared accom forever, you cant be thrown around forever, you can't keep moving your children out of schools. The lifestyle element of it alone should surely be reimbursed. Of course being paid better or at the very least restored to 2008 would make life marginally better.
When people compare it to nurses or teachers etc - correct me if I'm wrong but nobody else's life is this chaotic? As patients you might notice, in your local hospital - the nurses are usually local. As are all the other allied healthcare staff. Doctors very rarely are (and if they are, theyre usually permanent consultants or staff grades not drs in training). Imagine the chaos it would cause if nurses, teachers etc were all sent all over the country? ...