It depends what is perceived as offensive obviously that is subjective to everybody,
It is the era of being offended by anything or anybody .
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I have experienced something Similar that would be classed as offensive,
So I do get your point in certain interactions, it depends,
I did use to not so long wonder what was the point of small talk,
and it used to stress me out, wondering what to say react in situations with men and women of what to reply to inane Some Talk ,
i since realised small talk is way of lubricating social interactions so we as humans are less threatening perseived and also like verbal foreplay prepares us for proper communication appitude, like a taster starters "hors de hor", at a restaurant ect,
Having a chat with someone I vaguely know in a pub setting weatherspoons
He was talking about travelling abroad certain places and he wouldn't mind travelling again somewhere
then he mentions,
He be OK about travelling with him as a friend in a camper van asking as I didn't FART , what the fuck,
Did he randomly 😳 say that,
It's like they lull into thinking they are ok, and randomly bam they come out with Bloky Bantz attemp,
There's nothing funny about it,
I am open minded and Di have a sense of humour,
But don't see this as particularly funny,
So I just don't bother sitting by him anymore or try to ignore him as possible,
I have also something else similar comment with my friends grown up son,
Familiarity breeds Cormfortable Arkward random weirdness moment by certain some men,
I do like socialising but only with some certain people , not everyone though