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That having sent photos to potential date ..

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shyjenny · 24/02/2023 09:22

That he would comment on them?
Or at least say something??

I'm new to this dating game and did not post photos on my profile.

I got chatting to a man .. we're both 50... and we arranged a date for this weekend.
We've continued to exchanged messages and getting on as well as one can via WhatsApp since, but he hasn't acknowledged me sending them.

What are your thoughts on this?

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shyjenny · 24/02/2023 19:39

Acknowledgment would be fine @whatausername

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Cheeseandpickleplease · 24/02/2023 19:42

shyjenny · 24/02/2023 14:44

I did feel a little unsettled by it as it had become a kind of a ' thing' yet he didn't bother to even acknowledge them not to mind comment or say thanks.
Anyone else think that he's disrespected me?

Because of this…

shyjenny · 24/02/2023 19:44

It was a question @Cheeseandpickleplease

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BurtonsRevenge · 24/02/2023 19:50

Yeah, he's just not that in to you. Move on immediately and don't waste your time continuing to text. Also, pop a photo of yourself on your dating profile so people attracted to you already will message you.

JudgeRudy · 24/02/2023 20:17

shyjenny · 24/02/2023 14:32

@JudgeRudy not sure whether to feel insulted or complimented after your post🤣

Neither. Unless you're stunning or ugly you're pretty much what he expected. I suspect you're a well groomed 7/10, which is a 6/10 if you factor in all the younger women....so average. Did you comment on his pics? Was he a little bit grey/thinning with a dad bod? No handsome, not ugly. Probably needs glasses to read the menu? So exactly as you expected.
He wants to meet you though, so go. You can bring up the pics on your date if you like

shyjenny · 24/02/2023 20:20

He's been texting this evening confirming the date.

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RachelGreep87 · 24/02/2023 21:53

Online dating may not be the best avenue for you

hot2trotter · 25/02/2023 14:06

RachelGreep87 · 24/02/2023 21:53

Online dating may not be the best avenue for you

I second this. You are coming across naive at best, insecure at worst - or as a PP said a bit nuts.
Online dating is not for you.

Must admit though, the fact he swiped without seeing your photo is strange and suggests he's not very picky.

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