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That rugby player…in a scrum with a woman down an alleyway… wtf!

881 replies

GoingOnce · 15/02/2023 19:53

AIBU to be shocked someone would want to do this/have it done to them? I mean, the main offense is that he’s cheated on his poor wife, but also - is this a thing??? 🤢

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OnTheRunWithMannyMontana · 15/02/2023 21:57

Darcy86 · 15/02/2023 20:41

I'm sure I read that the woman in the video is his friend's wife?

Awful situation all round really, can't imagine how mortified they are both feeling, obviously their own fault but do agree it shouldn't have been filmed and shared.

Yep it was his wife's best friend.

DH works with someone who knows his wife.

ReneBumsWombats · 15/02/2023 21:57

Summerfun54321 · 15/02/2023 21:56

It's indicative of an exceptionally low IQ that's all.

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But just try to tell them that when taking your Mensa entry test!

MonkeyPuddle · 15/02/2023 21:57

We’re going to the game this weekend, should be interesting in the crowd.

Cuppasoupmonster · 15/02/2023 21:58

ReneBumsWombats · 15/02/2023 21:56

Well, the directory of recognised disorders is continuously being updated.

Particularly risky or out of character sexual activity can be a sign of mental illness. Doesn't excuse it, doesn't make it OK, but if he were diagnosed with some sort of illness after doing something this stupid and classless, it would go some way to explaining it.

At any rate, I think they're both headed for a mental breakdown now.

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No, he’s just stupid and classless.

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/02/2023 22:00

I don't know why you feel sorry for this generation- it's them who do the continual selfies/posting photos, making sex tapes, totally over-sharing explicit things. They do it to themselves.

What, all of them @LuluBlakey1 ? Mine doesn't. No SM, texts her mates, no porn between them. Selfies yes but prints them out for her wall and they are no make-up, happy, no trout pout, cute kids.

Your view of this generation is warped. And miserable.

HelloBunny · 15/02/2023 22:00

There may not be that much out there about her yet, Bella (well apart from the video of her arse).

But it will be done in a more insidious way, for sure. By the DM, of course. She won’t be allowed hide!

FadoFado · 15/02/2023 22:01

I'm not sure how I'd face the in-laws after my extra-marital public bumlick sesh had become a tabloid sensation.

FadoFado · 15/02/2023 22:03

MonkeyPuddle · 15/02/2023 21:57

We’re going to the game this weekend, should be interesting in the crowd.

is it usually a capacity crowd?

Museya15 · 15/02/2023 22:04

FadoFado · 15/02/2023 22:01

I'm not sure how I'd face the in-laws after my extra-marital public bumlick sesh had become a tabloid sensation.

😄😄😄

MonkeyPuddle · 15/02/2023 22:05

FadoFado · 15/02/2023 22:03

is it usually a capacity crowd?

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Opening game of the season is usually fairly full, Hulls social media said not many tickets left.

gelatogina · 15/02/2023 22:05

HelloBunny · 15/02/2023 22:00

There may not be that much out there about her yet, Bella (well apart from the video of her arse).

But it will be done in a more insidious way, for sure. By the DM, of course. She won’t be allowed hide!

I’m sure they are waiting to do a huge reveal at some point. Probably offering her money for ‘her side’

she has managed to keep her name out of it so far though.

Summerfun54321 · 15/02/2023 22:06

Anyone else wondering what the title of the alley woman's expose newspaper article will be?

MrWhippersnapper · 15/02/2023 22:06

Not difficult to find out her name

ReneBumsWombats · 15/02/2023 22:07

FadoFado · 15/02/2023 22:01

I'm not sure how I'd face the in-laws after my extra-marital public bumlick sesh had become a tabloid sensation.

You just have to style it out.

SpringyChicken · 15/02/2023 22:10

monsteramunch · 15/02/2023 20:45

No one should be able to put porn on the internet of anyone else without everyone's express permission. No one. The cameraman should be prosecuted.

Absolutely this.

Agree wholeheartedly. It should be a criminal offence.

PenelopeTitsDrop3121 · 15/02/2023 22:11

Whywere · 15/02/2023 20:34

Can you imagine all the tongue in cheek jokes in the locker room after this?

Yes about his tongue in her cheeks 🤢🤦‍♀️😄
Who's going to want to kiss him again?? 🤢

Bellalalala · 15/02/2023 22:12

HelloBunny · 15/02/2023 22:00

There may not be that much out there about her yet, Bella (well apart from the video of her arse).

But it will be done in a more insidious way, for sure. By the DM, of course. She won’t be allowed hide!

Who she is, where she works, who her husband, where the kids go school, where she lives etc is has been known since the weekend.

The Story is dying down a bit now. It’s been days. DM might run something. But I think it’s look less likely now. If the DM or others want to do a big reveal, it will happen soon.

But as I said, locally, no one really mentions her when talking about it. Except that she is married to his friend. The focus and comments are definitely aimed at him, not her. Which is what I addressing.

oh and there were some prank phone calls to place of work. That’s about it.

Nedmund · 15/02/2023 22:12

Was it an actual bum lick or was it a snort off of it? (I haven't seen it.)

Honeyroar · 15/02/2023 22:14

GoingOnce · 15/02/2023 20:00

Scrum was being used in a tongue in cheek manner…. literally.

Tongue in cheek!!🤣🤣. Double entendre?

JazzyGeoff · 15/02/2023 22:14

It's just so grubby and desperate

I bet neither of them even enjoyed it that much, to make it even halfway worthwhile.

BakedTattie · 15/02/2023 22:15

Imagine the next day. Hangover from hell, shit breath, media circus. Dear god.

hes really really fucked up.

I’ve not seen the video but saw a still of it. they’re are no other expressions other than, wtf.

VestaTilley · 15/02/2023 22:16

Thank you @VladmirsPoutine for translating for those of us who are far more innocent! 😂

RLScott · 15/02/2023 22:17

ReneBumsWombats · 15/02/2023 21:01

Well, thanks for that.

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😂

Mooshamoo · 15/02/2023 22:18

Did you see the texts he sent his wife. He said he was on a 25 hour drinking binge.

He said to her in the text that he can't remember anything about the night at all, that he looks like a zombie in the video. His words.

gelatogina · 15/02/2023 22:19

Bellalalala · 15/02/2023 22:12

Who she is, where she works, who her husband, where the kids go school, where she lives etc is has been known since the weekend.

The Story is dying down a bit now. It’s been days. DM might run something. But I think it’s look less likely now. If the DM or others want to do a big reveal, it will happen soon.

But as I said, locally, no one really mentions her when talking about it. Except that she is married to his friend. The focus and comments are definitely aimed at him, not her. Which is what I addressing.

oh and there were some prank phone calls to place of work. That’s about it.

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She got away quite lightly, all things considered.