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That rugby player…in a scrum with a woman down an alleyway… wtf!

881 replies

GoingOnce · 15/02/2023 19:53

AIBU to be shocked someone would want to do this/have it done to them? I mean, the main offense is that he’s cheated on his poor wife, but also - is this a thing??? 🤢

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StClare101 · 15/02/2023 22:21

I won’t be watching the video. Why are people looking it up?

I feel very sorry for the partners and children of both people involved.

Kiwimommyinlondon · 15/02/2023 22:22

How on earth could anyone get pleasure from licking someone’s bum? I’ve been around the block a few times but I can’t imagine any positives here. Dirty bum smell, farts in face, unwiped bum - what’s the attraction?

redbigbananafeet · 15/02/2023 22:26

gelatogina · 15/02/2023 20:04

And she is on her hands and knees on the cobbles with her dress up round her waist.

imagine your partners and children, all your friends watching that. I really don’t think I could live down the shame.

She wasn't on her knees she was holding her ankles.

lolaflores · 15/02/2023 22:30

I bet, with the 2 of them being really drunk, that their coordination was probably not all it could have been.
He may have been attempting something and she may not have been expecting the "treat" she got. Had she even registered what was going on back there?
Don't reckon either of the set out with that particular combo of parts being exposed but that's where they landed.
Grubby, awful behaviour on the part of everyone involved in this.

tara66 · 15/02/2023 22:33

Just a passing thought - why do people pretend to worry about hygiene - tell children to wash their hands etc? I suppose rugby players are used to a lot of mud etc. anyway.
I understand many rugby players/ex-rugby players suffer from various sorts of ''brain damage'' caused by the sport.

Lizzy1980 · 15/02/2023 22:39

I saw the video earlier and it was grim. The worst part for me was the comment made by whoever was filming it. Don’t know if anyone has already mentioned it as I haven’t read everyone’s comments but as he was approaching them in the act, her with her knickers around her ankles and bum sticking up in the air, him with his bits out and a look of total disbelief on his face the man filming shouts ‘can I have a go?’.
what a charmer eh 😳

GetOffMyDoorJack · 15/02/2023 22:39

Good on his wife for showing him the door. She's a better role model for their kids than that dirty dog of a father that's for sure.

NeverThatSerious · 15/02/2023 22:41

Lizzy1980 · 15/02/2023 22:39

I saw the video earlier and it was grim. The worst part for me was the comment made by whoever was filming it. Don’t know if anyone has already mentioned it as I haven’t read everyone’s comments but as he was approaching them in the act, her with her knickers around her ankles and bum sticking up in the air, him with his bits out and a look of total disbelief on his face the man filming shouts ‘can I have a go?’.
what a charmer eh 😳

Yea I don’t think it should be overlooked that the guy who filmed it and then distributed it is truly repulsive.

gelatogina · 15/02/2023 22:44

redbigbananafeet · 15/02/2023 22:26

She wasn't on her knees she was holding her ankles.

1000 apologies for getting that vital key part of the whole grubby video wrong and thanks for correcting me 😂

Koicrap · 15/02/2023 22:48

I don’t really know who he is, but I got shown it and assumed he was really drunk and trying ti lick her vag for doggy style intercourse. You get a bit of bum, but if you’re that pissed you don’t care, I imagine. Not that it really matters. It’s gross.

They are both scummy. I judge them. And I’ve done some questionable shit.

Isthisabitweird · 15/02/2023 22:52

She has better balance than me, I wouldn’t last two seconds in that position.

Mammyloveswine · 15/02/2023 22:55

It's disgusting!! As is the voyeur filming who says "can I have a go?". Just awful and vulgar.

Hawkins003 · 15/02/2023 22:58

Basically it seems he was rimming her I believe the term is

Devoutspoken · 15/02/2023 23:00

'Tramp stamp'? So what do we call men with tattoos on their back, or is it just women who deserve the pejorative term

ImAvingOops · 15/02/2023 23:03

Re the consent of passers by exposed to this sight, I once complained to the police about being presented in the town centre , with graphic abortion images by pro life nuts. Apparently my right to walk down the street and not be exposed to images I haven't consented to see, does not exist!

SicParvisMagna · 15/02/2023 23:04

BettyB0Op · 15/02/2023 21:52

I’ve seen it, obviously we all know it’s wrong and families would have been deeply hurt on both sides. The worst part is two marriages and families torn apart over what looks to be the worst kind of sex you can have, blind drink, neither look to be enjoying it and he isn’t even hard and quite frankly I wouldn’t get any pleasure out of being bent in half having my bum licked behind a Greggs…

You can forgive a bit of disco minge (fanny at the end of a night out) but disco arse has to be grim!!!

If I ever need a name change, I'm bagsying disco minge 😂

DrManhattan · 15/02/2023 23:12

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DrManhattan · 15/02/2023 23:15

Tramp stamp is just a slang name for a tattoo.

Eeiliethya · 15/02/2023 23:16

Imagine that horror of looking up and seeing a bloke with a camera and knowing life as you know it is about to come crashing down 😬.

Then waking up in the morning and realising all over again. And trying to decide if you should tell your wife before she sees it in the paper.

I've not watched the video. I'm feeling crappy with a bad cold and just don't need that level of secondhand cringe in my life today.

LuluBlakey1 · 15/02/2023 23:20

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/02/2023 22:00

I don't know why you feel sorry for this generation- it's them who do the continual selfies/posting photos, making sex tapes, totally over-sharing explicit things. They do it to themselves.

What, all of them @LuluBlakey1 ? Mine doesn't. No SM, texts her mates, no porn between them. Selfies yes but prints them out for her wall and they are no make-up, happy, no trout pout, cute kids.

Your view of this generation is warped. And miserable.

So if it isn't all of them, why do you feel sorry for 'this generation'? You imply it's all of them you feel sorry for and then say many don't do it- why do you feel sorry for 'this generation'? I say 'this generation' and you pounce on me. You can't have it both ways.
Anyway, those who do it need to accept responsibility.

Mumsnut · 15/02/2023 23:23

Hope he didn’t go home and kiss the wife and kids.

ThoroughlyEnjoyable · 15/02/2023 23:24

So glad my life is boring

OnTheRunWithMannyMontana · 15/02/2023 23:24

Mumsnut · 15/02/2023 23:23

Hope he didn’t go home and kiss the wife and kids.

Apparently his wife has said she's glad she didn't kiss him before she saw the video 🤮

LuluBlakey1 · 15/02/2023 23:25

RudsyFarmer · 15/02/2023 20:07

Ah okay. I suspect it will resurface somewhere at some point. It can’t be any worse than my imagination has concocted.

It is- it's absolutely horrible.

Arrrrrrragghhh · 15/02/2023 23:34

LuluBlakey1 · 15/02/2023 20:56

It was an alley down the side of Greggs. He is bending, with his trousers and pants round his ankles and everything on show, behind a woman who is standing bent over with her pants down and her hands on the ground, her dress up over her back and her bare arse in the air. His face is in her backside licking her and at the same time he's shoving his fingers in and out of her vagina. It is crystal clear.

A bloke walks up the alley with his phone videoing saying Westermann is down there. He lets the camera run on and then says 'Can I have a go?' Westerman looks up and stands up exposing himself and sort of steps back looking drunk and starts to pull his pants up as if he's giving the bloke 'a go'.

I so regret clicking on it on Twitter- I thought it would be something blurry and unclear and not anything like what I saw. It's disgusting- literally an alley, he's like a dog on heat. She is just as disgusting- apparently the wife of one of his best friends. I'm still shocked by it- I think I must live a very sheltered life.

He's only sorry because he got caught. I bet he'd just have gone home and kissed and touched his wife with that mouth and that hand, or his kids. It's totally sickening and utterly humiliating for his wife, children, parents, in-laws. Cheating is bad enough but this is so vulgar and squalid and grubby.

@Nedmund This is a pretty accurate description.

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