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That rugby player…in a scrum with a woman down an alleyway… wtf!

881 replies

GoingOnce · 15/02/2023 19:53

AIBU to be shocked someone would want to do this/have it done to them? I mean, the main offense is that he’s cheated on his poor wife, but also - is this a thing??? 🤢

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CurlyhairedAssassin · 15/02/2023 21:19

Reckon the friend does yoga. No-one can hold that pose for very long unless they have very strong thigh and calf muscles. I'd last 3 seconds then fall over. That's if I hadn't broken wind in his face accidentally first. Some of those positions are just asking for trouble when it comes to uncontrollable wind. Grin

LuluBlakey1 · 15/02/2023 21:19

Floppyelf · 15/02/2023 21:14

Considering the amount of men who won’t even consider going down on their partners, in a weird, surreal, comical way, i find him a little endearing. However, any wag of a professional sportsplayer is in it for more than love.

'endearing'! It's no wonder men get away with this sort of shit.

FawnFrenchieMum · 15/02/2023 21:20

squtable · 15/02/2023 20:55

It’s got to have a been an affair, surely. Most people don’t go from making eyes at one another over dinner to rimming in an alleyway three or four hours later.

I thought this was strange too, like would this really be the first contact?!

I’m guessing he’s bent her over to shag her but was so drunk he couldn’t get it up so moved on to this. I mean, I wasn’t there so just guessing 😂

BudgeUpAnne · 15/02/2023 21:20

There's n

BudgeUpAnne · 15/02/2023 21:22

There's no way he can blame it on the booze, if he was that pissed he wouldn't have been able to function in that position he was found in for very long, he'd have landed on his face!

Mrssophie · 15/02/2023 21:22

Oh god that's grim. Why did I let curiosity get the better of me...put me right off my tea and Jammy dodger.

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 15/02/2023 21:24

Floppyelf · 15/02/2023 21:14

Considering the amount of men who won’t even consider going down on their partners, in a weird, surreal, comical way, i find him a little endearing. However, any wag of a professional sportsplayer is in it for more than love.

Rugby league wives are rarely in it for fame or money in the Uk, because unless your husband humiliates you like this there is no fame and the money isn’t anything like people imagine because of the salary cap.

ballsdeep · 15/02/2023 21:25

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 15/02/2023 20:06

He’s always been a bit of a knob, but he’s outdone himself this time. His poor kids and wife

His team is opening their season against his former team at the weekend - he is in for a tough night as rugby league fans can be very creative with songs and chants

His daughter is 14 I think and she tweeted how disgusted she was! The poor girl going into school with everyone watching a video of her father with his tongue up someone’s arse

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 15/02/2023 21:26

ballsdeep · 15/02/2023 21:25

His daughter is 14 I think and she tweeted how disgusted she was! The poor girl going into school with everyone watching a video of her father with his tongue up someone’s arse

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She didn’t tweet.

if you look at the account supposedly for her its just a spoof account having a pop at him and the woman.

Theres no way his wife would let her teen daughter get publicly involved.

FadoFado · 15/02/2023 21:26

Good grief. How vulgar.

Bum licking should be a post-bath activity. No one's going to be at their freshest after a few sweaty hours out on the town.

The chants from the opposition will be brutal.

HelloBunny · 15/02/2023 21:27

Not gone coy about at all.
Tabloid stories are old as time...

But as LuluB just pointed out...
It’s actually disgusting to watch.

Comeonbarbiebrianharvey · 15/02/2023 21:29

CurlyhairedAssassin · 15/02/2023 21:19

Reckon the friend does yoga. No-one can hold that pose for very long unless they have very strong thigh and calf muscles. I'd last 3 seconds then fall over. That's if I hadn't broken wind in his face accidentally first. Some of those positions are just asking for trouble when it comes to uncontrollable wind. Grin

If you're into rimming does that mean you like the taste of shit maybe. Perhaps farts are a bonus?

ReneBumsWombats · 15/02/2023 21:29

HelloBunny · 15/02/2023 21:27

Not gone coy about at all.
Tabloid stories are old as time...

But as LuluB just pointed out...
It’s actually disgusting to watch.

I'm sure it is, but sometimes - often - that's what people want in a scandal. It provokes a strong reaction and a lot of schadenfreude.

Therellbenobutterinhell123 · 15/02/2023 21:31

I live fairly local and the woman involved has been identified and named as has her profession and place of work. She was also married with 2 children.
The video is absolutely grim but public humiliation is awful for anyone

HelloBunny · 15/02/2023 21:34

True dat, ReneBW!

Terrible for the woman involved.
She will be shamed more than him...

Surplus2requirements · 15/02/2023 21:34

BudgeUpAnne · 15/02/2023 21:22

There's no way he can blame it on the booze, if he was that pissed he wouldn't have been able to function in that position he was found in for very long, he'd have landed on his face!

Maybe he was mid face plant?

Cuppasoupmonster · 15/02/2023 21:34

Okay so the graphic sexual imagery aside, what happens when they realise they’re being filmed? Confused I refuse to watch the video, not for any moral reasons but just because I’m squeamish!

ChristmasCwtch · 15/02/2023 21:35

Bleurgh the video was gross!! Licking a random’s shit hole in a dirty back alley 🤢

His poor wife!!!

HelloBunny · 15/02/2023 21:35

Mid face plant, ha ha...

Winnet · 15/02/2023 21:36

FadoFado · 15/02/2023 21:26

Good grief. How vulgar.

Bum licking should be a post-bath activity. No one's going to be at their freshest after a few sweaty hours out on the town.

The chants from the opposition will be brutal.

Well said.

Tights and knickers should be banned; no panties rule in place and only hold ups/stockings and suspenders if this is the kind of thing women demand.

I agree with your sentiments entirely.

Bellalalala · 15/02/2023 21:37

HelloBunny · 15/02/2023 21:34

True dat, ReneBW!

Terrible for the woman involved.
She will be shamed more than him...

I live in the area. She isn’t really. He is all over news. All the jokes are about him. No one is talking about her locally either.

People locally know who she is. But at the moment, no one is really talking about her. She took her FB down quickly. It had her place of work on it, so that may have some consequences for her.

But the focus is definitely on him.

Cuppasoupmonster · 15/02/2023 21:38

ChristmasCwtch · 15/02/2023 21:35

Bleurgh the video was gross!! Licking a random’s shit hole in a dirty back alley 🤢

His poor wife!!!

I mean you could swap those nouns and the outcome would still be the same…

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 15/02/2023 21:38

god it’s certainly too cold for anything like that.

Bellalalala · 15/02/2023 21:39

The chants will be brutal at games.

Especially since ‘Cas’ Rhymes with ‘Ass’. There will be plenty more this season.

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 15/02/2023 21:39

He’s got a 15 year old daughter. Poor thing