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That rugby player…in a scrum with a woman down an alleyway… wtf!

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GoingOnce · 15/02/2023 19:53

AIBU to be shocked someone would want to do this/have it done to them? I mean, the main offense is that he’s cheated on his poor wife, but also - is this a thing??? 🤢

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LadyPenelope68 · 17/02/2023 07:47

Littleloveydovey · 16/02/2023 16:39

I can’t see it. But that’s not good. I can’t imagine the devastation his wife is going through, to see the video evidenc of your husband cheating and to see it is with your friend.

@lovemyflipflops
What on earth has the fact she’s a “pretty blonde” and “has a really good job got to do with it?? You almost sound sorry for her!

Shes as much to blame as he is, they’ve both ruined the lives of two families because they fancied a bit of arse licking.

As for the ideological being in line, good, it means they were caught out and it will haunt them forever. No sympathy for either of them, my sympathy lies with their families.

Littleloveydovey · 17/02/2023 08:35

imtheglue · 17/02/2023 07:41

I managed to find the woman with a few hints on the internet but agree, while he’s having a whale of a time along with a few back slaps no doubt - she’ll be suffering.

Wtf. He’s all over the media being humiliated, his children have seen the video, his marriage has ended, she has been fired. She is not all over the media. To find her, which I can’t, you would need to hunt.

she was a willing participant. Clearly much more sober than he was as he could barely stand and she could hold that position, and she is shagging her mates husband!

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 17/02/2023 08:42

There have been two different women named on Twitter so far.

So I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s very publicly named by someone at some point to protect themselves from getting implicated.

imtheglue · 17/02/2023 08:43

Littleloveydovey · 17/02/2023 08:35

Wtf. He’s all over the media being humiliated, his children have seen the video, his marriage has ended, she has been fired. She is not all over the media. To find her, which I can’t, you would need to hunt.

she was a willing participant. Clearly much more sober than he was as he could barely stand and she could hold that position, and she is shagging her mates husband!

You think she’s not being humiliated- it’s a small town everyone knows and it took me 5 minutes to find her.

TheCatWithGreenEyes · 17/02/2023 08:45

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monsteramunch · 17/02/2023 08:47

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Do you really think it's necessary or appropriate to post something to help people find out her identity? Bloody hell.

TheCatWithGreenEyes · 17/02/2023 08:48

Yes she and he both deserve all they get

monsteramunch · 17/02/2023 08:50

TheCatWithGreenEyes · 17/02/2023 08:48

Yes she and he both deserve all they get

Despite the fact that making her identifiable also makes life more shit for her husband and children?

The more easily people find out who she is, the more her kids will be bullied over this. The more people will contact her husband making mocking remarks.

Whatever you think of her behaviour, you're contributing to her family's pain and humiliation. Punishing them to punish her. Lovely.

TheCatWithGreenEyes · 17/02/2023 08:54

Not my problem they should of thought about it first.
I live in the same area everyone local knows who they are.
They both deserve it and should of thought that first.
It's not the first time either

Littleloveydovey · 17/02/2023 08:56

TheCatWithGreenEyes · 17/02/2023 08:48

Yes she and he both deserve all they get

It’s weird, Normally on here the ow is vilified, now we’ve one publicly shagging her mates husband and some folks are like poor her.

if the kids are getting bullied it’s because of what she did.

and she looks like his wife..

MrWhippersnapper · 17/02/2023 08:57

It’s completely their own fault

TheCatWithGreenEyes · 17/02/2023 08:59

@Littleloveydovey

She looks nothing like his wife maybe the wish version

Dulra · 17/02/2023 08:59

"Not my problem they should of thought about it first.
I live in the same area everyone local knows who they are.
They both deserve it and should of thought that first.
It's not the first time either"
Why do you sound so bitter? you obviously hate these people for whatever reason. No idea why any of this is anyone's business but those immediately impacted, as in their families

TheCatWithGreenEyes · 17/02/2023 09:02

@Dulra

No I don't know them to hate them do no not bitter at all. Just think both parties should be named and shamed.

He is an arrogant prick from what I've seen of him in school playground.

ReneBumsWombats · 17/02/2023 09:03

Littleloveydovey · 17/02/2023 08:56

It’s weird, Normally on here the ow is vilified, now we’ve one publicly shagging her mates husband and some folks are like poor her.

if the kids are getting bullied it’s because of what she did.

and she looks like his wife..

Oh, heaven forfend that we hold an OW responsible for her own family and a MM responsible for his.

Well it's ok, we've got you here blaming her alone for what happened - "if the kids are getting bullied it’s because of what she did", emphasis mine. No mention of the married father having any responsibility regarding his own children.

Not at all surprising to see this alongside the idea, much expressed yesterday, that if you oppose public shaming, you must also think it's fine to rim in public while married to someone else. Good, moral people love public shaming and holding women solely responsible for sexual ethics. That's how you know you're a good person.

monsteramunch · 17/02/2023 09:04

@Littleloveydovey

if the kids are getting bullied it’s because of what she did.

Yes it's because of her actions, nobody has said otherwise.

But people contributing to making her children's lives even harder (by sharing her identity on social media / forums) at a time they're in huge upheaval and likely being bullied for this is still needless and frankly bizarre.

Littleloveydovey · 17/02/2023 09:09

we've got you here blaming her alone for what happened

wtaf you on about lol. If you take two mins out before going offf on a weird rant you’d see I was very clearly saying they are both to blame on all previous posts. Not just him. Both of them. If just so happens that conversation evolved to her

do keep up

MrWhippersnapper · 17/02/2023 09:10

ReneBumsWombats · 17/02/2023 09:03

Oh, heaven forfend that we hold an OW responsible for her own family and a MM responsible for his.

Well it's ok, we've got you here blaming her alone for what happened - "if the kids are getting bullied it’s because of what she did", emphasis mine. No mention of the married father having any responsibility regarding his own children.

Not at all surprising to see this alongside the idea, much expressed yesterday, that if you oppose public shaming, you must also think it's fine to rim in public while married to someone else. Good, moral people love public shaming and holding women solely responsible for sexual ethics. That's how you know you're a good person.

Pretty sure the comment was about the OW’s effect on her own kids, not his

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GetOffMyDoorJack · 17/02/2023 09:26

From their website:
'Castleford is definitely a Rugby Town and the town is orange and black on match days, the whole area gets behind them.’

I mean, she took that a bit too literally didn't she?

TheCatWithGreenEyes · 17/02/2023 09:34

Am I the only one who is more disgusted by the fact she had her hands on the floor? People piss down there urgh and after a night round the town I can't imagine she tasted that fresh either

TicketBoo23 · 17/02/2023 09:39

Tiger Woods had to conduct a press conference after he had had an affair (utterly surreal watching this)).

He didn't "have an affair".

He fucked seemingly hundreds of women Inc sex workers while married.

And the press conference was about trying to redeem himself and look penitent and claim issues .... So he could keep getting million dollar sponsorship and endorsement deals in future.

MeinKraft · 17/02/2023 09:39

'Rimming is not normal at all. If you’re doing this/having any kind of close contact (including kissing) with a partner who is doing this, then you should get a Hepatitis A vaccination.'

The doctors receptionist is disapproving enough when I call up for a routine appointment, no way would I ask them for a vaccination because a partner is into rimming Grin

LynneBenfield · 17/02/2023 09:41

MeinKraft · 17/02/2023 09:39

'Rimming is not normal at all. If you’re doing this/having any kind of close contact (including kissing) with a partner who is doing this, then you should get a Hepatitis A vaccination.'

The doctors receptionist is disapproving enough when I call up for a routine appointment, no way would I ask them for a vaccination because a partner is into rimming Grin

Funny, but in all seriousness you can access these vaccinations from your local sexual health clinic without judgement if you are in an at risk group.

TicketBoo23 · 17/02/2023 09:43

So he could keep getting million dollar sponsorship and endorsement deals in future.

And if the fact that he doesn't seem like a good representative of your company because he's fucked dozens and dozens of women behind his wife's back, while parading his wife and family as a respectable, wholesome front ..... I can't say that's a bad thing. I couldn't say it's puritanical.

In any case it was the first step in a rehabilitation campaign that does seem to have worked.

Which is shit - given the reports by the sex workers he fucked - he sounds like a violent, degrading misogynist.

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