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Sam Smith's New Music Video

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Oioicaptain · 30/01/2023 15:03

There's been criticism in the press over the sexualisation/borderline pornography on the video. I've just watched it. It just seems pretty misogynistic to me. He appears to smash a wine glass onto a woman's head and then it looks as though the women are being urinated upon (although it's not clear ...maybe it was meant to be champagne). What are other people's interpretation/views on it. I may well be mistaken.

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CryInToYourCornflakesNicola · 30/01/2023 17:52

An awful lot of you need to go back and read what you put.
So many have misgendered Sam's self, you ought to be ashamed. Sam Smith is they/them.

Do better.

Underanothersky · 30/01/2023 17:52

DesertIslandCondiment · 30/01/2023 17:50

Why does he think we want to see them? 😫

He's not actually forcing you to

AlwaysGinPlease · 30/01/2023 17:53

CryInToYourCornflakesNicola · 30/01/2023 17:52

An awful lot of you need to go back and read what you put.
So many have misgendered Sam's self, you ought to be ashamed. Sam Smith is they/them.

Do better.

😂

feelingcadoubleledlove · 30/01/2023 17:54

CryInToYourCornflakesNicola · 30/01/2023 17:52

An awful lot of you need to go back and read what you put.
So many have misgendered Sam's self, you ought to be ashamed. Sam Smith is they/them.

Do better.

Cringe.

LikeTearsInRain · 30/01/2023 17:54

After all the media hype and threads on here. I watched it. Yes the spraying liquid appears to be insinuating piss/golden showers. The somewhat bare bum cheeks were provocative - but only because they weren’t those of big curvy women as you usually see in music videos. But otherwise the rest was in line with what I’ve seen largely female stars do in the past.

Don’t get the fuss and outrage personally beyond the piss part.

Grow up

DesertIslandCondiment · 30/01/2023 17:55

Underanothersky · 30/01/2023 17:52

He's not actually forcing you to

Once was bad enough.

Bless. You're a fan.

feelingcadoubleledlove · 30/01/2023 17:55

I automatically ignore anyone who says 'do better'. Do you get little woke, social media points each time you type it?

lifeturnsonadime · 30/01/2023 17:56

feelingcadoubleledlove · 30/01/2023 17:55

I automatically ignore anyone who says 'do better'. Do you get little woke, social media points each time you type it?

Look back at the posters user name.

I think it's satire.

Underanothersky · 30/01/2023 17:56

DesertIslandCondiment · 30/01/2023 17:55

Once was bad enough.

Bless. You're a fan.

I'm really not, I think he's mediocre at best.

ghostyslovesheets · 30/01/2023 17:57

he has a penis - he is a man - gender is a social construct - he uses them because he likes things he thinks are traditionally girly - I'm not buying into that shit - sorry

Hedjwitch · 30/01/2023 18:00

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CryInToYourCornflakesNicola · 30/01/2023 18:00

lifeturnsonadime · 30/01/2023 17:56

Look back at the posters user name.

I think it's satire.

Yeah , satire, doesnt come across well when written.

Tanith · 30/01/2023 18:02

AnyFucker · 30/01/2023 17:20

That berk has zero charisma

I think that's the problem, isn't it?

What he's doing isn't new. Anyone who remembers Frankie Goes To Hollywood will have found this video old hat. Frankie knew what they were doing and they were good at it.

It all looks a bit like Laurel Hubbard identifying as a female weight-lifter. Sam Smith is a parody of what he thinks outrageous should look like. People aren't shocked by him; they're laughing at him in contempt.

Olive19741205 · 30/01/2023 18:03

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lifeturnsonadime · 30/01/2023 18:04

CryInToYourCornflakesNicola · 30/01/2023 18:00

Yeah , satire, doesnt come across well when written.

I read your posts in Sturgeon's voice!

But I know what you mean!

justasking111 · 30/01/2023 18:05

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Ryder68 · 30/01/2023 18:11

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Hmmm....... maybe the Tripe Marketing Board over on Twitter could use a poster person.......

NanFlanders · 30/01/2023 18:11

There's a lot wrong with that video. Could we all lay off the fat shaming though?

Quent · 30/01/2023 18:11

I don't care for the song or the video, but I don't find anything to get cross about, except for the bit where he hits someone with a bottle, which is just violent.

It has fetish stuff in it; so what, it's not for children. He is acting sexy and desirable while being a bit chubby and hairy; good for him. Women aren't the only ones wearing corsets, platform heels and stockings; great, I'd be glad if people stopped thinking of them as 'women's' clothes - most women I know don't wear them anyway.

Inyournewdress · 30/01/2023 18:14

Presumably the producers realise the track and the singing performance are both very poor, insipid and beyond boring. Maybe this kind of scandal is all they could think of to lend it some kind of notability. Scandal as a substitute for talent, oldest trick in the book.

Cocobutt · 30/01/2023 18:15

never did I see articles like that before Sam said he was Non Binary. My question is why? Does being NB or being a woman mean that clothes are suddenly important when they weren’t before? Also most of the clothes/ appearances were awful so it also seemed like an article for the sake of it, not even praising a genuinely nice outfit.

Yes I think this is it!

He wears a hideous outfit which any man or women would be slated for - yet because he’s NB or whatever he claims to be then people are sucking up to him because they’re so desperate to be ‘woke’ and down the youngsters.

mum2jakie · 30/01/2023 18:24

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We have been wetting ourselves at the pictures you posted. My OH (admittedly short sighted) said "which one is Sam Smith?" And wasn't joking 😅

catgirl1976 · 30/01/2023 18:30

afinishedkiss · 30/01/2023 17:46

Will ya stop Frankie Goes to Hollywood were jizzing on people in the 80's.

Yeah but they were good. SS isn’t and this has zero credibility. It’s like Stock Aitkin and Waterman got a load of creatives together to mood board edgy. It’s desperate.