I've just got back in contact with my mum after 3 years of no contact. We have been speaking for just over a year. Back story is she tried to make me chose between her and my partner, we have 3 kids together. It all got very messy and a lot of arguments had and she didn't see my children for all that time. Some of the things she's said about me are shocking. Laughing about me having cervical cancer, calling me names, a bad parent, alcoholic (I only drinking on occasions or the odd time I go out) so don't know where that came from, partners a drug dealer (he works in trade). I've seen messages that she's sent saying that she's called social services back in 2019 and even wanted to go for guardianship of my son. Now, 3 days ago I got a call from them about a report that was logged from over 2 years ago but because of covid they're backed up and now want to investigate. I can never trust her again. The relationship is already frayed and this is basically the straw that broke the camels back. I can never trust her around my kids again. She obviously did it out of spite years back but the repercussions are happening now. I've told her about the call and she's pretending she knows nothing about it. If I cut ties this time it will be for good but once I do I will also lose the rest of my family and be made out to be the one in the wrong