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To feel sorry for Brooklyn Beckham?

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Ridelikethewindypops · 28/01/2023 09:32

I just do feel a bit sorry for him. He's completely out of touch with the real world obviously, but he's so young and so gormless. But seems so determined to be famous in his own right, despite no specialist skill set. I wonder do famous parents ever encourage their children to go to uni and get a real job? Or is that not an option? There are plenty of fulfilling jobs he could do, teaching, nursing, even volunteering ( as he clearly doesn't need the money)
I feel bad for him as he gets mocked online, but he still seems determined to put himself out there.
Money aside, I do feel sorry for the children of spectacularly talented parents, it must cast a long shadow. ( I repeat, money aside...😅)

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DesertRose64 · 28/01/2023 17:23

FairyLightAddict · 28/01/2023 17:21

I'm dyslexic and not bright. I was merely pointing out he's not the sharpest tool in the box. Dyslexia doesn't define you.

I honk you need to perhaps think before you speak.

Samcro · 28/01/2023 17:25

It must be hard to be an ordinary looking grown man with no great talent.
you then marry a billionaire’s daughter.
so hard.
poor man

FairyLightAddict · 28/01/2023 17:26

@DesertRose64 There's 250 messages slagging off Brooklyn. He's dyslexic but with his advantages in life he could be doing something amazing instead of awful faux cookery tutorials.

aonbharr · 28/01/2023 17:26

Pedallleur · 28/01/2023 14:27

Should also say celebrity children who do have normal jobs e.g. Doctor, soldier etc are uninteresting to the press who love sex, drugs, failure. Stella McCartney is famous in her own right now.

famous for how bad her clobber is and how many luvvies are fooled into wearing it 😂

DesertRose64 · 28/01/2023 17:29

derxa · 28/01/2023 17:22

There is definitely a genetic element to dyslexia.

I like looking at the wider picture. It’s like a giant jigsaw puzzle. We used to think ASD was the root of everything going on across 3 generations of our family and extended family on one side. But in actual fact it’s spreading across 3 generations on both sides of the family and where there isn’t ASD there’s Bipolar Disorder and ScHizophrenia as well as a couple of people with a personality disorder. It’s absolutely fascination. Who knows what we’d find if we could go back 4 generations.

musingsinmidlife · 28/01/2023 17:30

JudgeRudy · 28/01/2023 17:19

I remember reading in Jackie or similar that Paul McCartneys kids got the same pocket money as my sister and me. They weren't really in the public eye either. Stella seems successful. No idea who the others are.

Stella's career is also built on her father's fame and connections. She apprenticed with Christian Lacroix as a teen and had friends Naomi Campbell, Kate Moss, and Yasmine Le Bon model her clothes at her graduation show from a College of Design, walking to a song her father wrote for her called Stella May Day. She was hired as a creative director at a French luxury fashion brand upon graduating, was named Vogue Designer of hte year a couple years later and a couple years after that she opened her own fashion house under her own name in collaboration with Gucci.

She may have worked hard but her career path was paved in gold.

blueshoes · 28/01/2023 17:32

I cannot imagine his parents in law being impressed by his lack of intellectual ability.

His father in law is Nelson Peltz, an American high profile activist investor. He is the equivalent of a hedge fund rock star, currently going after the board at Saleforce. Fiercely intelligent, well read and articulate. Utterly formidable. My guess is he does not suffer fools gladly.

Then comes along his vacuous son-in-law ... Actually I do feel slightly sorry for BB.

Miniestelle · 28/01/2023 17:40

I might be wrong and the source was tabloid but I remember I read that VB and NP fell out and don’t get on very well. Something to do with NB snubbing VB to design her wedding dress.

VladmirsPoutine · 28/01/2023 17:40

Gosh no!! In my next life I hope to be him! Imagine just spending your life trying out various things that pique your interest but getting to test them out at the most elite level then deciding after a few days you don't fancy it and getting parachuted straight into the next thing that takes your fancy! It would be great, within a month I'd have played tennis against Andy Murray and set up a michelin starred restaurant in the middle of the English Channel! The following month I'd try my hand at racing Lewis Hamilton!

slowquickstep · 28/01/2023 17:43

lightinthemirrorstormyoutside · 28/01/2023 09:43

I don’t feel sorry for him as he’s had so many opportunities and squandered them all which make it hard for me to do so. That said he seems like quite a nice kid and I’m assuming understands that he’s ridiculed every time he posts one of his cooking videos, so he must quite enjoy doing it despite that.

He is not a kid, he is a married man.

stripedsox · 28/01/2023 17:44

He's not really hurting anyone doing what he's doing. Why all the hate on here?

RecordsTurning · 28/01/2023 17:49

stripedsox · 28/01/2023 17:44

He's not really hurting anyone doing what he's doing. Why all the hate on here?

I don’t get it either.

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 28/01/2023 17:50

derxa · 28/01/2023 16:46

I have relatives that went to school with both parents....they are incredibly thick, They really aren't. Compared to the wages footballers earn now, Beckham earned peanuts.

I know poor thing only earned £285,000 per week. Peanuts 🥜

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 28/01/2023 17:50

Emotionalsupportviper · 28/01/2023 16:50

Yes - I don't think GR would carry any passengers.

I was really impressed with his daughter Maisie when she was on strictly. I think she probably got her place because of her dad, but she put her all intuit and worked really hard - a good work ethic.

I couldn't see young Brooklyn doing that.

Do you mean Tilly? I don’t watch Strictly but my mum said she was excellent and IIRC she had to put up with some extremely nasty commentary about her appearance

Soothsayer1 · 28/01/2023 17:52

mrstumblet · 28/01/2023 09:39

Have name changed as possibly outing to those who know me!

Having worked with the family over the years I can safely say sadly Brooklyn isn't really university material. Despite their education the boys are rather like dad in that way.

The children see being famous as successful and having been part of it from day one they want to emulate that.

your comment seems to imply that VB is the 'brains' of the duo?

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 28/01/2023 17:58

derxa · 28/01/2023 17:18

I wouldn't hire your friend as a tutor. They sound very unprofessional.

I was thinking this - unforgivable that so-called professionals (assuming this is true) break data laws when it’s a celebrity. Imagine it’s hard for famous people to trust anyone like that.

StoneofDestiny · 28/01/2023 18:01

The famed fashion designer's husband David Beckham has been urging her to take steps to cover the losses after it emerged that Victoria's high-end clothing company has debts of £ 53.9 million

Neither parent is gifted with brains. VB is no great successful businesswoman. She is no great singer or designer. The son is fame hungry like his mum, living of millions of 'brand beckham' family money.

Mangolist · 28/01/2023 18:11

MrWhippersnapper · 28/01/2023 12:55

Eldest son joined the Marines

Jack originally went to Exeter to study drama. My ds got quite pally with him but said he did rather like to remind people who he was!

Cocolapew · 28/01/2023 18:13

Didn't Tilly Ramsey have a cookery show on CBBC? No idea about if she was any good or not, but I'm sure her connection helped that time.
I'm not surprised BB is married young, he always seemed quite um, intense, with previous relationships.
He was photographed more than once crying in the car or crying sitting on the kerb and arguing with his previous gf. Always lots of selfies in the bathroom mirror declaring undying love.
Obviously most of this is based on The Sidebar of Shame 😁

Emotionalsupportviper · 28/01/2023 18:28

RecordsTurning · 28/01/2023 17:49

I don’t get it either.

Nobody hates him. We just don't feel sorry for him - and areaway of the enormous advantages he has had.

Why shouldn't we point that out?

I think the "he's a thick" comments are unkind, though.

limitedperiodonly · 28/01/2023 18:32

FairyLightAddict · 28/01/2023 17:16

Brooklyn is dyslexic. My friend was his tutor. Sadly he's not a bright spark either. My son's dyslexic but seriously intelligent.

@FairyLightAddict If this is true it shouldn't be too hard to pinpoint your friend. If I was Brooklyn's mum or dad I'd have your friend's guts for garters. What an appallingly unprofessional thing for a teacher to do to share personal details about a child.

Would you like it if your seriously intelligent dyslexic son's teacher did it?

Does your friend know you're saying this? I'd be horrified if it was me and you'd be off my Christmas card list. As I said, it wouldn't take a genius to work out which of his tutors gabbled to you only for you to vomit it on social media.

That's if if really happened. People do tend to get carried away and exaggerate or make stuff up. Perhaps it would be best if you said you did

RecordsTurning · 28/01/2023 18:32

Emotionalsupportviper · 28/01/2023 18:28

Nobody hates him. We just don't feel sorry for him - and areaway of the enormous advantages he has had.

Why shouldn't we point that out?

I think the "he's a thick" comments are unkind, though.

There’s plenty of nasty comments that are quite hateful, those are the ones I’m talking about.

Emotionalsupportviper · 28/01/2023 18:33

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 28/01/2023 17:50

Do you mean Tilly? I don’t watch Strictly but my mum said she was excellent and IIRC she had to put up with some extremely nasty commentary about her appearance

Sorry - yes, you are right. Tilly (I have no idea where I got Maisie from).

Your mum is right. She's not an overweight girl, but she is well-made and she got some very cruel comments which were totally unnecessary.

She really worked hard and did very, very well. I think the week that she went out was one of those weeks where te people in the DO were there not on merit but on popularity.

However she'd gone further than anyone expected - she deserved to do well. Lovely girl.

I don't think there's anything wrong either, in parent using their influence to get their child an opportunity (which of us wouldn't if we had the chance?) - but once they have that chance it's up to the child to make the most of it.

x2boys · 28/01/2023 18:38

VladmirsPoutine · 28/01/2023 17:40

Gosh no!! In my next life I hope to be him! Imagine just spending your life trying out various things that pique your interest but getting to test them out at the most elite level then deciding after a few days you don't fancy it and getting parachuted straight into the next thing that takes your fancy! It would be great, within a month I'd have played tennis against Andy Murray and set up a michelin starred restaurant in the middle of the English Channel! The following month I'd try my hand at racing Lewis Hamilton!

Apparently Romeo ( I think ) did quite fancy being a tennis player so.his Dad had a a tennis court built for him and hired Andy Murray as his coach ,and then Romeo decided to be a football player instead ( maybe despite Andy Murray,s coaching he was useless?) S Daddy hired him for the club inter Miami that he part owned ,according to Google ,Inter Miama ,have loaned him to Brentwood B team for six months .....

DesertRose64 · 28/01/2023 18:41

I seem to recall that the Beckham child who played tennis was actually rather good at it.