You’re not alone. It usually happens when an OP asks if they should provide contraception to their 13/14yr old. The narrative is usually but of course you should, girls that age are all having sex, I was and I turned out ok. It’s totally normal and you don’t want a pregnancy, do you?
Whereas I’m more like, how is this normal? Why is no-one concerned about grooming going on? The child is underage, and buying contraception sends a message to them that you expect them to be having sex and could actually pressure them into it? And similar concerns.