Mmmm, not sure really if I'm over-reacting. I'm 30 weeks pregnant (and rather anxty!),and have a two yr old. Last week me, Dh and toddler had planned a London trip for work to cover two very stressful and packed work days (one for Dh, one for me) I had asked a very good old friend of mine who lives in London if we could stay with them for just one night. (Her and her partner recently came for 2 days free on hol with us, and I put my friend up numerous times when I was the one living in London) All was planned and fine, I spoke to her two nights before and it was all arranged. At 2.30 pm on the afternoon before we were due to go (at 5am next morning) she emailed me to cancel. Only citing that her DP had a busy day at work the following day, and could we find somewhere else to stay. I was pretty livid, and perhaps over-reacted, I emailed back a few choice words asking why she hadn't called me to explain personally. I was having a stressful day already preparing for the work meeting in London, and had to spend the afternoon phoning hotels to find one that was available. Her DP then called me to have a go at me, saying she was crying and I'd better ring her to apologise ?!!! That just flipped me over the edge and I was rather rude to him, I'm afraid. I spent much of the rest of the day in tears! Since then I have emailed and apologised for being rude, but explained how let down at the last minute I felt. She has only contacted me to say how rude she felt I was, no apology, nothing. I feel like not speaking to her for a very long time! Perhaps as she has no kids she doesn't appreciate the stress of combining pregnancy/ toddler and work trip... but even so I think she should have called. Am I being unreasonable? And pregnantly hormonal?