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There is no god

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OldKingCole · 02/01/2023 19:02

Inspired by another thread … I was surprised by the level of atheism professed … as I always though I was in a tiny, tiny minority.
would be interested to see the MN response.

IABU - there is a god
IANBU - there is no god

OP posts:
Frabbits · 04/01/2023 20:45

Woodenheart33 · 04/01/2023 19:52

People only think they are atheists but deep down they are not. Humans are hard wired for faith. Atheism is an intellectual affectation, nothing more. I myself am not religious at all but I don't quite possess the hubris to imagine or proclaim that I'm an atheist.

Utter bollocks.

Biscuitsneeded · 04/01/2023 20:48

@BarkAscending Eh?? You've gone off at a completely bizarre tangent. What has gender ideology got to do with anything? I'm gender critical myself, but I'm not talking about intellectual, navel-gazing elites in American ivory towers! I'm saying that in parts of the world where people only have access to basic education, belief in a god of some kind is much more prevalent than it is in urban, educated parts of Europe. You can't possibly argue with that!

Biscuitsneeded · 04/01/2023 20:52

@Woodenheart33 Nope. Atheist through and through here. Not hard wired for faith at all. Not raised with it and merely find it mysterious, nonsensical and baffling.

Mummadeze · 04/01/2023 20:53

I had a concrete sign from God as a child. A miracle happened to me when I was praying for something that can not possibly be explained in any other way. My logical brain tries to be sceptical but I can’t deny what happened. I feel lucky in a way that I know for sure there is a God of some kind. I am not religious but I know that God exists.

Figmentofmyimagination · 04/01/2023 20:55

I’m surprised nobody has mentioned Noah Yuval Harari’s best seller, Sapiens. He talks about how a shift from numerous gods - of trees, the sea, storms etc - to monotheism tracks the shift from being hunter gatherers to organised agricultural economies - because of the need to organise very large numbers of people and incentivise them to follow orders, broadly speaking! I loved this book.

Herroyal · 04/01/2023 21:00

‘I had a concrete sign from God as a child. A miracle happened to me when I was praying for something that can not possibly be explained in any other way.’

what was the sign?

TarasHarp55 · 04/01/2023 21:07

Mummadeze · 04/01/2023 20:53

I had a concrete sign from God as a child. A miracle happened to me when I was praying for something that can not possibly be explained in any other way. My logical brain tries to be sceptical but I can’t deny what happened. I feel lucky in a way that I know for sure there is a God of some kind. I am not religious but I know that God exists.

Yes I don't doubt you for a minute. God works in mysterious ways. My prayers are often answered in a way that I could never have imagined.

Mummadeze · 04/01/2023 21:14

Herroyal it is hard to explain, but I was at my Grandparents playing and a pack of pink panther themed cards that I loved blew away over their balcony into the valley below. I went to look for them and found most of them but my favourite one was missing. It really upset me as I was only young and I loved that card. I had definitely been playing with it at their house that morning. When I got home, I was lying on my bed on my own crying and I prayed and prayed to God to get it back. I was saying I would always believe in him if I could only get it back. It then floated down and landed on my bed. I know it sounds made up. No one believed me at the time, but it definitely happened. I can’t not believe now because I felt like I made a promise in return for that favour!

America12 · 04/01/2023 21:18

YANBU. Made up story.

America12 · 04/01/2023 21:18

HisNameWasMike · 02/01/2023 19:09

Of course there isn't a god. I'm amazed rational people still believe these tales from the dark ages but they do!

Same

CrimsonPostBox · 04/01/2023 21:25

Speaking in terms of probabilities, the notion that the world came from nothing is simply impossible. Philosophically speaking, there has to be a God.

I also quite like the Teleological Argument but I think that, even leaving that aside, the evidence for the existence of an Intelligent Designer is overwhelming.

I'm genuinely amazed that there are rational people in the world who don't believe in God. It takes about 5 minutes of basic reasoning to realise there has to be.

Also - for me belief in God is not wishful thinking. In many ways my life would be a lot easier if I didn't believe in Him, but I have to because the evidence compels me to.

HermioneWeasley · 04/01/2023 21:29

@Mummadeze so god ignores the frantic prayers of people caught up in natural disasters, people with disabilities, the parents of dying children, but decided to intervene to return a toy to you?

wow. He’s a real dick in that case.

littlegreydevil · 04/01/2023 21:41

Durango · 02/01/2023 19:16

Im genuinely blown away when intelligent rational people admit to believing in god

For me it’s on par with believing in Santa, “be good and you’ll get something at the end”

Show me a religion whose roots aren’t based on women being treated like second class citizens ….

Try Wicca or certain versions of paganism where instead of a god or God, they celebrate the divine feminine.

Frabbits · 04/01/2023 21:48

CrimsonPostBox · 04/01/2023 21:25

Speaking in terms of probabilities, the notion that the world came from nothing is simply impossible. Philosophically speaking, there has to be a God.

I also quite like the Teleological Argument but I think that, even leaving that aside, the evidence for the existence of an Intelligent Designer is overwhelming.

I'm genuinely amazed that there are rational people in the world who don't believe in God. It takes about 5 minutes of basic reasoning to realise there has to be.

Also - for me belief in God is not wishful thinking. In many ways my life would be a lot easier if I didn't believe in Him, but I have to because the evidence compels me to.

Just rubbish. There is no way to determine the probability of God or God's existing that doesn't ultimately come down to blind faith. You can tie yourself into whatever knot you want trying to show otherwise but it's all based on faith and nothing more.

For some people that's enough, for others it is not.

CrimsonPostBox · 04/01/2023 22:45

Frabbits · 04/01/2023 21:48

Just rubbish. There is no way to determine the probability of God or God's existing that doesn't ultimately come down to blind faith. You can tie yourself into whatever knot you want trying to show otherwise but it's all based on faith and nothing more.

For some people that's enough, for others it is not.

1.Change exists in nature (evidence)
2.Change is the actuation of potentiality and an essential chain of actuations cannot go to infinite regress. A fully actual Prime Mover is necessary (logic)
3.That Prime Mover is what all men call God (conclusion)

ErrolTheDragon · 04/01/2023 23:19

3.That Prime Mover is what all men call God (conclusion)

No, a massive leap. Inventing this 'prime mover' - a solution more complicated than the problem it purports to solve - and naming it 'god' is not a logical conclusion.

Frabbits · 04/01/2023 23:44

CrimsonPostBox · 04/01/2023 22:45

1.Change exists in nature (evidence)
2.Change is the actuation of potentiality and an essential chain of actuations cannot go to infinite regress. A fully actual Prime Mover is necessary (logic)
3.That Prime Mover is what all men call God (conclusion)

So yep, like I said.

Would love you to try to actually show using, y'know, actual science, why God has a probability of 1.

Have a go. Should be worth a laugh.

Herroyal · 05/01/2023 07:00

@Mummadeze sweet though that is, you must see that is a coincidence -
I believed in god as a child and often preyed for things to happen. I once prayed for a white Xmas and we had a big one. As an 8 year old I thought that was because my prayer was answered.
as an adult I know that isn’t true. And if there was a god there would be far more elderly people praying that it wouldn’t…

PrincessConstance · 05/01/2023 07:46

carbonarya · 04/01/2023 18:57

WTF are you talking about?

The majority of people are not gay, that's not going to change. What would happen if everyone suddenly was has no bearing on anything.

A poster asked the question.
Why is homosexuality banned from a biblical perspective?
I answered.
Some tried to deflect by arguing about the translation.
The initial command was to be fruitful and become many.
All sexual behavior outside of marriage was forbidden.

In my mind this is simple.

PrincessConstance · 05/01/2023 07:48

Frabbits · 04/01/2023 23:44

So yep, like I said.

Would love you to try to actually show using, y'know, actual science, why God has a probability of 1.

Have a go. Should be worth a laugh.

The statement you're quoting is a logical premise.

So I'm waiting with bated breath to have a laugh.

Arseulaundress · 05/01/2023 08:32

In my mind this is simple.

Which is why the black and white of religious dogma is so comforting to many.

The fact that it doesn't touch the sides of the complexity of real human life is why it cannot be taken seriously.

Herroyal · 05/01/2023 08:54

‘A poster asked the question.
Why is homosexuality banned from a biblical perspective?
I answered.
Some tried to deflect by arguing about the translation.

The initial command was to be fruitful and become many.
All sexual behavior outside of marriage was forbidden.’

So now we have marriage equality being gay is no linger a ‘sun’.
phew! As a woman married to a woman, and we have children together, that IS a relief.

pointythings · 05/01/2023 08:55

@PrincessConstance your answer was predicated on a massive preference swing in the general population. There's no likelihood of that happening. Homosexuality is a minority preference (that isn't a value judgement, it's a biological reality) that occurs in species other than man.

Forbidding sexual behaviour outside marriage makes sense in a society where it is important to know who is related to whom. These days we have DNA testing for that, so it becomes moot. Your book was written in its time and of its time, by people for their own purposes. That's why there have been so many versions of it.

Here's another piece of logical reasoning: I fit into my coat. My coat fits into my bag. Therefore I fit into my bag.

Logic can be used to manipulate. Logical fallacies are a thing.

ShodanLives · 05/01/2023 08:57

PrincessConstance · 05/01/2023 07:46

A poster asked the question.
Why is homosexuality banned from a biblical perspective?
I answered.
Some tried to deflect by arguing about the translation.
The initial command was to be fruitful and become many.
All sexual behavior outside of marriage was forbidden.

In my mind this is simple.

I'm not a theologian but I don't remember thr bible ever saying 'don't be gay because IVF is expensive'.

Herroyal · 05/01/2023 09:00

@ShodanLives 😅😅😅😅

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