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To think that Henry VIII was an abusive physco

306 replies

Iwanttoslowdown · 16/12/2022 07:50

And should be taught in school as such.

One of mine is being taught about this tosser in Secondary school history and I was appalled that it was treated with such blasé that he literally was an abuser.

So I had to retell the story not as someone to be revered or remembered well, but that this abuser killed some of his wives including the mother of his daughter Elizabeth I, had serial mistresses, gorged his way through Court like some oversized pimple set to burst and generally Gould not be taught as a good person.

OP posts:
Peanutlicious · 16/12/2022 10:43

Take them to see Six to balance things out (and it's fab!)

carefulcalculator · 16/12/2022 10:45

Yes of course he was.

Being 'royalty' is not a healthy thing to be.

carefulcalculator · 16/12/2022 10:45

Luredbyapomegranate · 16/12/2022 10:29

I think he's well known as one of the great twats of history.

Grin
BeanieTeen · 16/12/2022 10:46

Doesn't everyone know this? I'm not from UK and he was famous for killing his wives.

@Mamaneedsadrink I think when the topic, or any history topic is taught really and you hear something fairly shocking, there’s a thought process of ‘well those were the times.’ But bumping off your wives like that, or even trying to annul a marriage after 20 years was not normal. The royal family have never been ‘normal’ 😂

SinnerBoy · 16/12/2022 10:46

latetothefisting · Today 09:07

How can you believe he invented protestantism? Have you not heard of Martin Luther?

Luther took much of his material from Jan Hus, who was murdered in Bohemia, about a century before.

www.britannica.com/biography/Jan-Hus

And anyway, every religion is made up.

georgarina · 16/12/2022 10:47

I was definitely never taught he was a good person! By all accounts he seemed pretty awful and it's well known how he treated his wives (I mean, killing some of them etc...)

carefulcalculator · 16/12/2022 10:49

The thing I was fascinated by as a child was accounts of the smell of his ulcerous leg.

TheyreOnlyNoodlesMichael · 16/12/2022 10:50

Georgeskitchen · 16/12/2022 08:56

I think you're about 500 years too late with this news OP

So? Can't a fun interesting discussion about a prick from a few hundred years ago take place?

GimmeBiscuits · 16/12/2022 10:51

FestiveAF · 16/12/2022 07:55

In school they are taught the facts. And those are the facts. I’m not sure they are taught otherwise, but obviously the gory details are spared as they are children not adults and the violence and torture that occurred was not for children to hear about.

I'd say it depends on the age and sensibilities of the children. Any kids I know quite enjoy a bit of gore (aged between 9-15), but, admittedly, within the parameters of TV shows.

crimsonpeak · 16/12/2022 10:53

BumWeasel · 16/12/2022 08:04

I felt the same when my kids were taught about the Suffragettes. It's all seen as very positive and it can certainly be argued that if they hadn't used violence women wouldn't have gained the right to vote, but it was terrorism, plain and simple. They did some heinous things. I don't think I would object so much if the teaching was a bit more balanced and instead of making heoros/heroines out of these people they at least looked at both sides of the argument. History isn't as black and white as its often portrayed in schools.

Oh come on.

TheyreOnlyNoodlesMichael · 16/12/2022 10:54

BorisJohnsonsHair · 16/12/2022 10:27

Do you mean psycho?

Oh wow, look at you correcting spelling on the internet. Not all heroes wear capes eh. Keep up the stellar work.

quinceh · 16/12/2022 10:55

I agree with you. I don’t remember being explicitly told that he was a tyrant or an abuser. You do work it out if interested in history I guess.

LizzieW1969 · 16/12/2022 10:57

I read somewhere that Henry VIII also had syphilis, which is what he eventually died of. (His doctors didn’t even dare to tell him that he was dying, though, as he’d made it treason to even talk about the King’s death.)

This helps to explain his serious decline in later years and possibly some of the changes in his behaviour as well. Although I also think the jousting accident played a part.

Psycho is a very fitting description of the way he became IMO, so YANBU.

BeanieTeen · 16/12/2022 10:57

So? Can't a fun interesting discussion about a prick from a few hundred years ago take place?

I agree this is fun and interesting @TheyreOnlyNoodlesMichael. It beats the usual mundane and made up crap posted on AIBU 😄
I think ‘Historical AIBU’ should have it’s own section!

carefulcalculator · 16/12/2022 10:58

BumWeasel · 16/12/2022 08:04

I felt the same when my kids were taught about the Suffragettes. It's all seen as very positive and it can certainly be argued that if they hadn't used violence women wouldn't have gained the right to vote, but it was terrorism, plain and simple. They did some heinous things. I don't think I would object so much if the teaching was a bit more balanced and instead of making heoros/heroines out of these people they at least looked at both sides of the argument. History isn't as black and white as its often portrayed in schools.

Suffragettes are one group amongst many who have been defined as 'terrorists' by people/governments who do not want to give away power or allow change.

The state is not always right and the protestor is not always wrong.

BMW6 · 16/12/2022 11:01

Mamaneedsadrink · 16/12/2022 10:30

Doesn't everyone know this? I'm not from UK and he was famous for killing his wives. Tbh I find it odd how people seem to talk about RF and seem to forget the hideous history. I actually was wondering if Harry was named after this Henry?

All life was pretty hideous, don't show your ignorance by just focussing on Royalty!

Monarchs, Tsar's, Caesars, Popes, Presidents.............all have examples of Tyranny, madness, Psychopathy amongst their number. They also have positive representation, more so than the awful ones I'd suggest.

TalbotAMan · 16/12/2022 11:02

Divorced
Beheaded
Died
Divorced
Beheaded
Survived

Dotjones · 16/12/2022 11:04

No historical figure will live up to the standards of every future time and place. Death and killing were a much bigger part of life in the Tudor period. Murder rates in rural England at that time were similar to the worst murder rates in modern inner-city America.

Torture and execution by means such as being burnt at the stake or being hanged, drawn and quartered were commonplace - it's unlikely many people did not see an execution or two fairly regularly.

Witchcraft was a common belief. Witches were executed on "evidence" that was basically rumour and spite.

Historical figures need to be judged by their time.

(I agree Henry VIII was a right cunt by the way.)

KettrickenSmiled · 16/12/2022 11:07

HowVeryLikeSibella · 16/12/2022 08:02

You're right about the wives, but it's not OK to insinuate that he's a bad person because he put on a lot of weight after becoming disabled.

Nobody said that, you have just invented it.
Historic Kings are pretty much universally "bad people". They have to make terrible decisions, & are essentially there to prop up the system of primogeniture & inherited wealth for noble families.

The PP mentioned - quite correctly - that Henry's personality underwent a marked change due to a head injury sustained in a jousting accident.

It happened in 1536, & is well documented.
He was unconscious for an hour, & all concerned thought he was a goner.
Courtiers were rushing round in a panic - treason to speculate on the King's death, but all needed to be ready to announce the successor if Henry didn't come round.

Many accounts survive of the previous sunny (but still often terrifying) disposition of the beloved young "King Hal" becoming increasingly mercurial, & eventually paranoid, suspicious & hate-fuelled & cruel.

The jousting accident didn't physically disable him - that came later, from an incurable leg ulcer that put paid to his athleticism & sporting lifestyle.

lokss · 16/12/2022 11:11

WhaleInAManger · 16/12/2022 08:38

Power corrupts. Absolute power corrupts absolutely.

I don't think there's ever been an especially nice monarch - though certainly many have been nicer than H8.

Maybe Jane Grey, but virtue of her unexpected inheritance and short tenure.

How about Elizabeth I?

SinnerBoy · 16/12/2022 11:11

carefulcalculator · Today 10:58

Suffragettes are one group amongst many who have been defined as 'terrorists' by people/governments who do not want to give away power or allow change.

Whilst I agree with the aims of the Suffragettes, I think that a bombing campaign, carried out to effect political change is the very definition of terrorism. In Dundee, five postmen were seriously injured by a phosphorus bomb.

None were paid, whilst they were too infirm to work.

SinnerBoy · 16/12/2022 11:17

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suffragette_bombing_and_arson_campaign

Classification as terrorism
During the campaign, the WSPU described its own bombing and arson attacks as terrorism, with suffragettes declaring themselves to be "terrorists" in 1913.

I never knew that!

KettrickenSmiled · 16/12/2022 11:24

lokss · 16/12/2022 11:11

How about Elizabeth I?

Admirable, but a tyrant just like the rest.

They had to be - eat, or get eaten.

Nogbreaks · 16/12/2022 11:25

The version my kids have heard in school make him seem like the bonkers, vicious, wife murder he was. With some allowance made for the fact he probably was crazy because he was told he was chosen by god to rule and had syphilis

Blocked · 16/12/2022 11:35

littlepeas · 16/12/2022 08:13

He is definitely portrayed as a tyrant.

I have read a theory that he had a very rare blood group, which could explain his decline into tyranny and madness, as well as possibly being a reason his wives struggled to carry babies to term.

Oh there's always an excuse for these men even ones who died 500 years ago Grin