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To think that Henry VIII was an abusive physco

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Iwanttoslowdown · 16/12/2022 07:50

And should be taught in school as such.

One of mine is being taught about this tosser in Secondary school history and I was appalled that it was treated with such blasé that he literally was an abuser.

So I had to retell the story not as someone to be revered or remembered well, but that this abuser killed some of his wives including the mother of his daughter Elizabeth I, had serial mistresses, gorged his way through Court like some oversized pimple set to burst and generally Gould not be taught as a good person.

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EileenAdler · 16/12/2022 09:16

First of all you have to view him in terms of his own time, you cannot template opinions and standards of 500 years later. Also, bear in mind , that religion and politics were one of the same. Second, in his earlier life he was cultured, educated and charming. That his personally change so much was most probably due to blunt trauma injury to his head, one that very nearly killed him.

However you must view Mary Tudor as tyrannical too. She had no excuse of a jousting accident.

As Hartley said, “ Yesterday is a different country, they do thing differently there”.

FangsForTheMemory · 16/12/2022 09:17

arethereanyleftatall · 16/12/2022 07:52

Well yes, clearly he was. But I've never heard anyone suggest he wasn't.

Exactly this.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 16/12/2022 09:22

However you must view Mary Tudor as tyrannical too. She had no excuse of a jousting accident

Mary I had seen a much beloved mother persecuted and banished, saw the religion that was the centre of their lives changed and its adherents tortured and excecuted. She also lived through the experience of the father she adored persecuting her and demanding she acknowledge him as head of the church instead of the pope and she spend a long time in actual fear of execution. She had no supporters and friends at all who dared speak out for her - the emotional and mental agony she went through in those years must have been extreme, and definitely warped her outlook. Come her accession, she's out for revenge.

In fact, look at the Tudors as a whole and they are definitely an odd and not at all pleasant family. Lady Jane Grey was as much a religious fanatic as Edward VI, she gets sympathy because she was young, didn't want to be queen and was executed for something she wasn't even involved in.

BumWeasel · 16/12/2022 09:25

#Toddlerteaplease I find it quite an uncomfortable view to hold because ultimately I'm a feminist and a pacifist but my Dd1 has a very good argument for the fact that things wouldn't change if violence wasn't used. I confess though that it's a long time since I have looked at any of it in great detail and my memory isn't great though, so I don't want to state any beliefs with great conviction.

It's just really interesting how things are spun to fit the desired narrative, like the fact is always glossed over that medical advances wouldn't be where they are today if the Nazis hadn't conducted those hideous experiments on humans.

Henry the Vlll was a odious man, I'm sure, but he is part of our history good, bad and the ugly and I believe it's more beneficial to the future not to pretty up the past, but to teach it and all the unpleasant bits as well. It's the only way we won't repeat the mistakes that have been made.

santasbushybeard · 16/12/2022 09:34

ShandaLear · 16/12/2022 07:55

He invented a whole new made up religion just because he wanted a divorce. And that religion is now the official religion of England. Bonkers.

Yes this!

I believe in God but I don’t follow any religion, but CofE is laughable to me because if it’s beginnings (I don’t like any religion, they are all ultimately about control).

Ronbo · 16/12/2022 09:52

This is projecting our current moral standards 500 years into the past.

When Henry VIII was on the throne the Incas were still sacrificing children.

It's worth rembering that we too are destined to be judged harshly by our decendents.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 16/12/2022 09:54

Let's hope Netflix makes a series about him - then we'll find out the REAL truth.

KimberleyClark · 16/12/2022 09:55

Hobbesmanc · 16/12/2022 08:13

The whole Tudor dynasty was brutal and cruel in a way that surpassed previous royal families. As an example aristocratic women no matter how badly behaved were never executed (occasionally starved to death secretly or poisoned). But with his execution of Ann Boleyn, Henry set a precedent. He went on the murder a teenager (Queen Catherine ), his elderly aunt for no reason other than her bloodline and changed the law on executing insane people to get revenge on a lady in waiting.

His children carried this on. Poor Jane Grey. And Mary of Scotland.

I have always been fascinated by Jane Grey. A pawn in many ways, but also deeply religious and extremely stubborn. She refused to apologise to Queen Mary, who might have spared her if she had.

purpledalmation · 16/12/2022 09:57

Of course he was. No one needs teaching otherwise. His behaviour and actions make it obvious he was a monster. He's never, ever been held up as a wonderful person in films, books or historically.

ginghamstarfish · 16/12/2022 09:57

It's hardly news is it?

LlynTegid · 16/12/2022 09:59

Whilst I would not use the terms you use, I agree that he should not be viewed as a hero or celebrated. It is not just two of his wives who he put to death, and his daughters killed over 500 people between them for having the wrong Christian faith.

stonebrambleboy · 16/12/2022 10:00

And I'll tell you something else, Richard 3rd did not murder the princes in the tower!

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 16/12/2022 10:01

purpledalmation · 16/12/2022 09:57

Of course he was. No one needs teaching otherwise. His behaviour and actions make it obvious he was a monster. He's never, ever been held up as a wonderful person in films, books or historically.

The series The Six Wives of Henry VIII was absolutely first class at showing his physical deterioration, and I've often wondered how he dealt with that - from being the young, handsome athletic king who everyone admired and swooned over, to a smelly, grossly overweight and almost certainly impotent invalid who took pleasure in terrorising the people around him.

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 16/12/2022 10:04

Iwanttoslowdown · 16/12/2022 07:50

And should be taught in school as such.

One of mine is being taught about this tosser in Secondary school history and I was appalled that it was treated with such blasé that he literally was an abuser.

So I had to retell the story not as someone to be revered or remembered well, but that this abuser killed some of his wives including the mother of his daughter Elizabeth I, had serial mistresses, gorged his way through Court like some oversized pimple set to burst and generally Gould not be taught as a good person.

Nuanced use of language to deliver your history lesson there…

Not that I’m defending Henry VIII’s behaviour but did you at least attempt to contextualise it or did you just take the values of the twenty-first century and slap them on top of the sixteenth century? Bang! History teaching: done!

JanglyBeads · 16/12/2022 10:07

Pismascrescents · 16/12/2022 08:57

It’s psycho. Anyway back then the “Divine right of Kings” was everything and human rights were not in existence. As a result, nobody cared.

Er I think a lot of people cared.

And the Christian (and other) faith(s) formed the basis of what we now call Human Rights.....

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 16/12/2022 10:16

Nuanced use of language to deliver your history lesson there…

Loving the subtext that only 'good' people should be taught about in history. That'll make the lessons brief, then.

Sausagenbacon · 16/12/2022 10:21

I think most posters are getting their history from '1066 and all that'.
Honestly it sounds so childish to feel the need to catagorise historical characters by modern-day standards, and with no awareness of context.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 16/12/2022 10:23

had serial mistresses

Actually on that front Henry VIII does pretty well if you're concerned about morals. Bessie Blount, Mary Boleyn, Mary/Madge Shelton that we know of. Possibly Elizabeth Carew. Not an excessive number for a 16c aristocrat, and certainly not for a king. And of course 'mistress' in the 16c had a courtly as well as a sexual meaning.

TooHotToRamble · 16/12/2022 10:25

FuckabethFuckor · 16/12/2022 08:06

MN has its finger on the pulse of the most topical issues once again

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I think Henry VIII should be cancelled....

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 16/12/2022 10:25

Sausagenbacon · 16/12/2022 10:21

I think most posters are getting their history from '1066 and all that'.
Honestly it sounds so childish to feel the need to catagorise historical characters by modern-day standards, and with no awareness of context.

'Henry VIII was a strong king with a very strong sense of humour and VIII wives, memorable among whom were Katherine the Arrogant, Anne of Cloves, Lady Jane Austin and Anne Hathaway. His beard was, however, red'

BorisJohnsonsHair · 16/12/2022 10:27

Do you mean psycho?

HowVeryLikeSibella · 16/12/2022 10:27

A quick sprint through the reign of Edward VI on Wikipedia reminded me of something that I knew but had forgotten, that he specifically chose to disinherit both his sisters, on the admittedly reasonable grounds that they were illegitimate. Poor Jane Grey, poor England.

It was an actual miracle that Elizabeth turned out as well as she did and steadied the chaos for a generation (at the cost of a lot of Catholic lives).

Luredbyapomegranate · 16/12/2022 10:29

I think he's well known as one of the great twats of history.

Mamaneedsadrink · 16/12/2022 10:30

Doesn't everyone know this? I'm not from UK and he was famous for killing his wives. Tbh I find it odd how people seem to talk about RF and seem to forget the hideous history. I actually was wondering if Harry was named after this Henry?

alwayscrashinginthesamecar1 · 16/12/2022 10:42

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 16/12/2022 09:54

Let's hope Netflix makes a series about him - then we'll find out the REAL truth.

Have you seen Blood Sex and Royalty on Netflix? It's very silly, but good fun.