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To think that Henry VIII was an abusive physco

306 replies

Iwanttoslowdown · 16/12/2022 07:50

And should be taught in school as such.

One of mine is being taught about this tosser in Secondary school history and I was appalled that it was treated with such blasé that he literally was an abuser.

So I had to retell the story not as someone to be revered or remembered well, but that this abuser killed some of his wives including the mother of his daughter Elizabeth I, had serial mistresses, gorged his way through Court like some oversized pimple set to burst and generally Gould not be taught as a good person.

OP posts:
lokss · 16/12/2022 08:22

He gave us Elizabeth I 😍

blubberball · 16/12/2022 08:23

We knew that if he gave her a new hat for Christmas, she'd probably be alright.

SnowlayRoundabout · 16/12/2022 08:26

Did you seriously believe that people had been taught that beheading his wives and several of his ministers and courtiers made him a cuddly, fun-loving monarch?

Iamnotausername · 16/12/2022 08:26

In those times it was pretty normal to treat /abuse your wife appallingly. Affairs of powerful men were almost expected, they were definately accepted. Powerful men were often powerful because of violence.

I think the beheading of wives makes it pretty clear he wasn't a nice man without going into details.

LadyEloise1 · 16/12/2022 08:29

FuckabethFuckor · 16/12/2022 08:06

MN has its finger on the pulse of the most topical issues once again

😂

Quveas · 16/12/2022 08:30

FestiveAF · 16/12/2022 07:55

In school they are taught the facts. And those are the facts. I’m not sure they are taught otherwise, but obviously the gory details are spared as they are children not adults and the violence and torture that occurred was not for children to hear about.

On what planet? Kids lap up violence and torture! They could probably teach you a few things.... And school does not teach "facts" - facts are accurate and balanced and teach critical thinking. Selling sanitised versions of ruling class history from a "rulling class british" perspective is about as far away from facts as you can get.

WhaleInAManger · 16/12/2022 08:38

Power corrupts. Absolute power corrupts absolutely.

I don't think there's ever been an especially nice monarch - though certainly many have been nicer than H8.

Maybe Jane Grey, but virtue of her unexpected inheritance and short tenure.

GardenIce · 16/12/2022 08:38

Did anyone else misread the title as
"To think that Harry was an abusive physco"

Shejustwentthere · 16/12/2022 08:40

FestiveAF · 16/12/2022 07:55

In school they are taught the facts. And those are the facts. I’m not sure they are taught otherwise, but obviously the gory details are spared as they are children not adults and the violence and torture that occurred was not for children to hear about.

The facts? Which version of the 'facts'?

Virginiaplain · 16/12/2022 08:46

Didn't he have a fall from a horse when jousting or similar - which could explain his nasty behaviour.
We have had cruel wars and leaders throughout time - it isn't all kind and considerate now - people just claim it's kind and considerate. Russia v Ukraine anyone? Iran?

Needmorelego · 16/12/2022 08:52

I saw the musical Six a couple of weeks ago - absolutely brilliant.
I would say that he was pretty much an arse and tbh that's how it's taught about in education.
He wasn't very nice. I don't think anyone thinks different.

Ivyonafence · 16/12/2022 08:54

Absolutely.

Abusive murdering misogynistic prick.

Lesserspottedmama · 16/12/2022 08:55

Y7drama · 16/12/2022 07:58

Apparently his son if he’d lived for a long adulthood would have made Henry look like blancmange. Still remember that quote from a level history!

That’s interesting. I wonder what that’s based on as he was just a kid who had been in poor health for a long time and controlled by his uncle surely?

Georgeskitchen · 16/12/2022 08:56

I think you're about 500 years too late with this news OP

Notellinganyone · 16/12/2022 08:57

BumWeasel · 16/12/2022 08:04

I felt the same when my kids were taught about the Suffragettes. It's all seen as very positive and it can certainly be argued that if they hadn't used violence women wouldn't have gained the right to vote, but it was terrorism, plain and simple. They did some heinous things. I don't think I would object so much if the teaching was a bit more balanced and instead of making heoros/heroines out of these people they at least looked at both sides of the argument. History isn't as black and white as its often portrayed in schools.

Decent History teaching is about teaching students the unreliability of sources and bias and also the contexts within which events happened. It’s not a litany of facts . I suspect OP is not much of a historian or she’d spend her entire life in a permanent state of outrage.

GardenIce · 16/12/2022 08:57

Ivyonafence · 16/12/2022 08:54

Absolutely.

Abusive murdering misogynistic prick.

@Ivyonafence Get off that fence Ivy!

Pismascrescents · 16/12/2022 08:57

It’s psycho. Anyway back then the “Divine right of Kings” was everything and human rights were not in existence. As a result, nobody cared.

Toddlerteaplease · 16/12/2022 08:58

crumpet · 16/12/2022 07:53

There is a suggestion that a major accident during a jousting contest affected his personality/decision making

Yes. I think he got a frontal lobe Injury.

Kalasbyxor · 16/12/2022 08:59

Thank goodness for Protestantism and the church reforms brought in under Henry VIII and Cromwell. It served Henry's pursuit of a divorce, but was already a movement in Europe.
Hilary Mantel paraphrasing John Frith:
"The Eucharist is but bread.
Of penance we have no need,
Purgatory is an invention unfounded in Scripture."
Profound and liberating, yet still heretical at the time.

Toddlerteaplease · 16/12/2022 09:01

@BumWeasel I have the same view on the suffragettes.

vix3rd · 16/12/2022 09:02

Psycho

GettingStuffed · 16/12/2022 09:05

The problem with Henry VIII is that his reign was very complex. I've studied the Tudors up to degree level and still don't know everything. First of all you need to take some of his behaviours in context of the time. Firstly it was never a requirement that he would be faithful to his wives. Regal weddings at the time were all about forging alliances and producing heirs, so it was expected that he would have numerous mistresses.

secondly the misconception that he changed the country protestant, he didn't . He changed the country from Roman Catholicism to Catholicism.

The worst of his behaviour came after a hunting accident nearly killed him and most probably caused a brain injury as he certainly changed his behaviour after this point.

I could go on but I've probably written too much

latetothefisting · 16/12/2022 09:07

ShandaLear · 16/12/2022 07:55

He invented a whole new made up religion just because he wanted a divorce. And that religion is now the official religion of England. Bonkers.

Well thats a fast way of telling the whole Internet you don't know anything about religion or history....
How can you believe he invented protestantism? Have you not heard of Martin Luther?

RaRaRaspoutine · 16/12/2022 09:12

YANBU, his wives were so interesting - yet we get the tired Catherine vs. Anne Boleyn trope with the focus on Henry being the "prize" at the end. All the wives were accomplished and fascinating, and often tragic. As Six the muscial puts it of Catherine Parr:So I sent that letter to my loveGot married to the kingBecame the one who survivedI've told you about my lifeThe final wifeBut why should that storyBe the one I have to sing aboutJust to win? I'm outThat's not my storyThere's so much moreRemember that I was a writerI wrote books and psalms and meditationsFought for female educationSo all my women could independentlyStudy scriptureI even got a woman to paint my pictureWhy can't I tell that story?'Cause in historyI'm fixed as one of sixAnd without himI disappearWe all disappear

RaRaRaspoutine · 16/12/2022 09:12

WOW formatting fail there, sorry!