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To think that 40s is not 'middle aged'

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Beancounter1 · 15/12/2022 19:25

Here is how my scheme goes:

0-10 childhood
10-19 older childhood and teens
20-29 young adult
30 to 49 - two decades of 'prime' adulthood
50-59 middle aged
60-69 getting older
70-79 old
80+ bonus time

Do you disagree?

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PurpleButterflyWings · 16/12/2022 19:20

meetmynewusername · 16/12/2022 00:20

Mine goes:
0-2 infanthood
3-12 childhood
13-18 adolescent
19-25 young adult
26-39 just adult
40-59 middle aged
60-75 senior adult
76+ elderly
Can include ’frail elderly’ as the final stage, usually 85+ for the people I know but different for everyone.

What in the name of fluck is 'just adult?' Confused

meetmynewusername · 16/12/2022 19:52

PurpleButterflyWings · 16/12/2022 19:20

What in the name of fluck is 'just adult?' Confused

Well, it’s an adult that is neither young nor middle aged.

I did say it’s just the way I think about it. Fine if you don't agree, no need to be rude!

AliciaM · 17/01/2024 01:59

No, it's much earlier than that. That's ludicrous. It's 40 or younger. My friend says it's 35.

Fionaville · 17/01/2024 02:08

Before I was 40, I would have agreed with you. Now I'm mid 40s, I would definitely class myself as middle aged. That's not to say it's not a 'prime' of life in lots of ways. It's probably a good age career wise for most, you're neither too young nor too old for promotion (in places where ageism is still rife) And you're unlikely to be talked down to, purely because of your age.
I do feel middle aged though.

vodkaredbullgirl · 17/01/2024 02:26

AliciaM · 17/01/2024 01:59

No, it's much earlier than that. That's ludicrous. It's 40 or younger. My friend says it's 35.

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Why post when last post was 2022

heartofglass23 · 17/01/2024 03:20

Life expectancy is c 80. 40 is in the middle of that.

You are kidding yourself.

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