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To think the anyone but England mentality is cringe?

600 replies

SolitaryMind · 10/12/2022 21:22

I’m Scottish, I was brought up to be anti English, SNP mad household, despite having English grandparents. I’ve always thought it made no sense, England is part of the UK like we are. I now have an English dp who is step- parent to my child, I support England in football as does my dc, every match my social media is filled with support for any country playing against England, I don’t get it! Can someone explain the logic to me, I can’t be the only one surely!

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MarshaBradyo · 11/12/2022 13:05

Bigspender19 · 11/12/2022 13:02

So why did you say a lot was being made of the xenophobic comments, one of which was removed for its disgusting content?

Just the way it was worded - I meant some people seem overtaken with loathing , it seems unhinged to me and not unlike other more unacceptable forms of hate. Imo it shouldn’t be acceptable though

ExcuseeeeMe · 11/12/2022 13:07

Bigspender19 · 11/12/2022 13:04

Any other examples to quote in your obsession for hating on England?

who hates England ? Can you not differentiate between not supporting a football team and an entire country ? Do you hate all of France as you weren’t supporting them yesterday?

JudgeJ · 11/12/2022 13:07

Blinky21 · 10/12/2022 22:03

No, I can see why the English are disliked and I'm English

I could say that I understand the dislike of some other nations but I'd be on the racism naughty step, it's only acceptable to hate England, especially by the losers.

Allez Maroc!!!

Sakura7 · 11/12/2022 13:08

JudgeJ · 11/12/2022 12:59

There is a simple solution my dear, during future competitions when/if England are playing go and visit/live in the other countries taking part and you will be totally amazed at the level of support for the German team in Germany, the Italian team in Italy, the Russian team in, er, Russia, it's really really simple!
I doubt that other countries have dimbos who can't understand the support for their own team, how frightfully zenophobic!!!

Allez Maroc!!!! I can say that because I used to live just across the water from there.

Are the German fans up in arms and shouting "xenophobia" if the Polish don't support them?

Do the Italians take it as a personal insult if the Swiss don't support them?

Does anyone outside the USA ever support their teams?

The entitlement that people from other countries should support you is quite strange, and then taking it oh so personally when they don't. It's called sporting rivalry.

erikbloodaxe · 11/12/2022 13:10

If anyone believes ABE is based purely in football you are blinkered.

JudgeJ · 11/12/2022 13:10

AndrewGloubermanisaperv · 10/12/2022 22:23

Completely Agee, I think even at one point Andy quoted ABE!!!

I loved how he would turn up on the back seat at Mock the Week and let them take the mickey out of him and his wife mercilessly!

DirectionToPerfection · 11/12/2022 13:11

JudgeJ · 11/12/2022 13:03

When England played Wales the other week I wanted Wales to win with a US/Iran draw, putting Wales through with England.
Most people will support any of the home nations in football, rugby etc., it's some of the Celts who will support anyone against England, usually because their own team is tucked up in bed at home.

Please educate yourself on your country's history before accusing the Celtic nations of jealousy.

JudgeJ · 11/12/2022 13:11

Willyoujustbequiet · 10/12/2022 22:38

Im half English half Scottish married to a Welshman. I support any Uk teams but this ABE is just racist crap.

It's the acceptable face of racism on MN.

Coxspurplepippin · 11/12/2022 13:11

Sakura7 · 11/12/2022 13:08

Are the German fans up in arms and shouting "xenophobia" if the Polish don't support them?

Do the Italians take it as a personal insult if the Swiss don't support them?

Does anyone outside the USA ever support their teams?

The entitlement that people from other countries should support you is quite strange, and then taking it oh so personally when they don't. It's called sporting rivalry.

There's an obvious difference though, isn't there - Germany and Poland aren't 'The United Kingdom of Germany and Poland'.

Notimeforaname · 11/12/2022 13:12

Yeah I'm very, anyone but England.
But thats because since I was a child I've been hearing the non stop "its coming home" bulshit every few years.

No other team or country do this shit. So it's a natural push back on all of that, for me.

Coxspurplepippin · 11/12/2022 13:13

'No other team or country do this shit. So it's a natural push back on all of that, for me.'

Grin

^^

Coxspurplepippin · 11/12/2022 13:15

Sorry, posted too soon - you've obviously never been in Oz during the Ashes or America's Cup.

Willyoujustbequiet · 11/12/2022 13:15

Thebestwaytoscareatory · 11/12/2022 01:05

Who's alluding to peace and tolerance? When it comes to football no self-respecting Scottish football fan roots for England. It's as simple as that.

The only Scottish people who want England to win are those who don't care about football usually or an element of rangers fans.

Honestly it's bizarre that anyone would pretend otherwise. You don't support your nearest rival under any circumstances, ever.

Thats simply untrue.

All our family and friends support both.

MrsDooDaa · 11/12/2022 13:16

This is not about England expecting other nations to support them. It's the Anyone but sentiment that is upsetting.

I don't think promoting an

Anyone But <insert country here>

message should ever be seen as acceptable.

Notimeforaname · 11/12/2022 13:18

Sorry, posted too soon - you've obviously never been in Oz during the Ashes or America's Cup*

I was only talking about football. Not other events I dont watch obviously.

Still the fact remains..I'm "anyone but England" coz its nauseating listening to them harp on about themselves and how victory will be theirs ...but never actually is. 😂

Willyoujustbequiet · 11/12/2022 13:20

LearnerCook · 10/12/2022 23:47

It's an ugly symptom of hatred and shouldn't be taken lightheartedly. I was born in England and now live in Scotland; I just want all our home nations to do well and I can't understand why anyone would feel differently.

Well said.

And to counteract some of the ignorant comments, rest assured many Scots feel the same way and despair at blatant racism and xenophobia displayed by some idiots (on either side)

ExcuseeeeMe · 11/12/2022 13:21

MrsDooDaa · 11/12/2022 13:16

This is not about England expecting other nations to support them. It's the Anyone but sentiment that is upsetting.

I don't think promoting an

Anyone But <insert country here>

message should ever be seen as acceptable.

I guess you equally get upset when some England fans support anyone who are playing Germany ?

Sakura7 · 11/12/2022 13:22

Coxspurplepippin · 11/12/2022 13:11

There's an obvious difference though, isn't there - Germany and Poland aren't 'The United Kingdom of Germany and Poland'.

Sure, and can you see how that exacerbates it? UK media is dominated by English media, it's as if the other nations don't exist.

The 2016 Euros, where Wales went further than England, was a great example of that. They deserved to be celebrated for an enormous achievement, but all the media cared about was England getting knocked out.

Quadrangle · 11/12/2022 13:22

Coxspurplepippin · 11/12/2022 13:13

'No other team or country do this shit. So it's a natural push back on all of that, for me.'

Grin

^^

Yeah, you're probably right that none of the other countries who have anthems supporting their teams make a point of mentioning in them that we haven't won it for decades. 😀

Willyoujustbequiet · 11/12/2022 13:23

JudgeJ · 11/12/2022 13:11

It's the acceptable face of racism on MN.

It is certainly and I will call it out when I see it.

MatronicO6 · 11/12/2022 13:25

Coxspurplepippin · 11/12/2022 13:11

There's an obvious difference though, isn't there - Germany and Poland aren't 'The United Kingdom of Germany and Poland'.

That is your opinion. Many people living in Northern Ireland and Scotland do not have a British identity. For some the United Kingdom represents a long history of oppression, exploitation and violence. This does not mean they have a personal problem with English people. But it does mean that England are not owed support.

MrsDooDaa · 11/12/2022 13:26

ExcuseeeeMe · 11/12/2022 13:21

I guess you equally get upset when some England fans support anyone who are playing Germany ?

Yes I 100% do get equally upset of Anyone But Germany. Its not acceptable to have this opinion of any country, regardless of nationality.

It is just divisive. Do we need this sort of language? What does it teach our kids?

JudgeJ · 11/12/2022 13:28

Sakura7 · 11/12/2022 13:08

Are the German fans up in arms and shouting "xenophobia" if the Polish don't support them?

Do the Italians take it as a personal insult if the Swiss don't support them?

Does anyone outside the USA ever support their teams?

The entitlement that people from other countries should support you is quite strange, and then taking it oh so personally when they don't. It's called sporting rivalry.

Nowhere did I imply that the Germans expect other teams to support them etc etc etc, it was aimed at those who find it surprising that the media coverage in England during an England World Cup run should be focussed on, er, England!
The level of MN comprehension is very poor.

ExcuseeeeMe · 11/12/2022 13:29

JudgeJ · 11/12/2022 13:28

Nowhere did I imply that the Germans expect other teams to support them etc etc etc, it was aimed at those who find it surprising that the media coverage in England during an England World Cup run should be focussed on, er, England!
The level of MN comprehension is very poor.

It would be fine it was just shown in England unfortunately it is shown around the whole of the UK not just England .

JudgeJ · 11/12/2022 13:31

ExcuseeeeMe · 11/12/2022 13:02

Exactly this some appear to not know the difference between England and the UK. Seen so many threads on here about the UK school holidays etc. Uk schools don’t break up till July etc. Ehh no you are referring to English schools. That is just one tiny example .

There's no such thing even as English school holidays, it varies widely across the country and can be a nightmare where there have been boundry changes.