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To think he’s just a cocklodger?

161 replies

TheSunnySide · 06/12/2022 22:51

Lots of debate in previous months about the high profile marriage split of a famous (ish) Welsh actor, who got his big break with a bit part in the Titanic movie. He has spent the last year doing no work, no childcare and just traveling around the world with his new girlfriend who appears to also have no job.

And now he seems to have admitted that his living expenses are being funded by his poor partner who is also battling a challenging life-changing illness.

He's just another cocklodger, isn’t he?

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DisforDarkChocolate · 07/12/2022 08:55

Hey Alice Stan, read the court documents. She has a 3 year PRO, because Alice is abusive. He works and she lies all over twitter. The documents prove he's being paying while she sits on her arse abusing him. When did Alice last work despite having a nanny till recently?

CPL593H · 07/12/2022 09:11

While I'm sure IG isn't perfect, everything I've heard about this indicates that a huge amount of responsibility how the situation is currently playing out lies with AE and I can well believe that her actions have damaged his career to the point where he is struggling. I'll reserve my sympathy for the kids and him, in that order.

MyPurpleHeart · 07/12/2022 09:18

Id bet that his loss of work has a lot to do with her rants on social media. Look at Amber Heard, if you get nothing but negative press studios wont rush to work with you. She leaks all of his private texts on twitter, who would take the risk of working with him on a big project with his mental ex wife on the prowl for drama all the time?

It looks like hes told the court that neither of them can afford the house anymore. Seems the right thing to do rather than just stop paying and make his children homeless by force. Split the equity 50/50 and move into something more affordable

BruceAndNosh · 07/12/2022 09:33

It's all very well saying "Alice needs to get a job" but no director is going to want someone with her history on their project.
I guess she could get a job at Walmart

Mouse820 · 07/12/2022 09:42

GrandTheftWalrus · 07/12/2022 02:39

However I don't remember him in Titanic.

I watched it back when I was in high school and slept through it LOL

A quick google shows that he played Fifth Officer Harold Lowe if that helps.

Itsnamechange · 07/12/2022 10:15

There's a huge amount of evidence that Alice Evans is extraordinarily abusive to Ioan Gruffud, not just post split but also while they were together. It's all in the hundreds of pages of evidence he submitted to the DVRO hearing she didn't even turn up to. She's conducted a long and nasty harassment campaign against him and the girlfriend and alienated the kidsvwho are going through reunification therapy.
In this most recent court submission Gruffud presented evidence he has 14k across 2 Bank accounts and is 85k in debt. Evans has more money than him while he's continued to pay all expenses for his ex and children for 2 years. He's been unable to pay for the house for 3 months and if they don't sell it'll be foreclosed upon.
This isn't the first time he's been out of work for a significant length of time - not unusual for a jobbing actor. Evans has a responsibility to support her kids too.

Dittosaw · 07/12/2022 10:21

I think he would love to work though so YABU. I think the fallout from his marriage has limited his opportunities to work. I do think Alice should get a job as well.

KimberleyClark · 07/12/2022 10:28

IG needs to come home, S4C and BBC Wales drama department would keep him plentifully busy!

skilpadde · 07/12/2022 10:34

KimberleyClark · 07/12/2022 10:28

IG needs to come home, S4C and BBC Wales drama department would keep him plentifully busy!

That's a fabulous idea... he was brilliant in Solomon and Gaenor.

TwoMonthsOff · 07/12/2022 12:55

He was good in Hornblower

Sunshinegirl82 · 07/12/2022 13:34

I do wonder if he'd like to return to the U.K. but can't as the DC are resident in the states? He's going for 50:50 custody I think so would need to be present for the DC at least for now.

I also wonder if the custody issues are preventing him from taking work he might otherwise be able to do? I'd imagine it would be difficult to travel and be on location for long periods whilst also trying to be present for the DC. I wonder if he's prioritising the DC over work for now.

milawops · 07/12/2022 13:39

GoOutsideDontGoOutside · 06/12/2022 22:53

Is that you, Alice?

Looking more and more likely with every post from the OP that it is

TheSunnySide · 07/12/2022 13:47

Perfectpeace · 07/12/2022 01:40

Did you start this thread in an attempt to hide the fact that court documents show Alice has been stealing Ioan’s money while hiding her own? Did you miss the part where is states he has paid every bill for the house, her and their children while she lies in bed, drugged and pissed daily? Did you miss the last set of court documents outlining the abuse she has directed at him and their children?

Alice is an absolute disgrace of a woman and I hope his house is sold ASAP, all the money she stole from him is returned and she has to move to the area of LA where 70% of children speak English as a second language, that she was so afraid of doing. Racist bitch to boot.

Wow. Yes I did miss that. Where can I read the drugged and pissed court documents?

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DisforDarkChocolate · 07/12/2022 13:48

milawops · 07/12/2022 13:39

Looking more and more likely with every post from the OP that it is

They disappeared as soon as people pointed out Alice's poor behaviour.

TheSunnySide · 07/12/2022 13:49

milawops · 07/12/2022 13:39

Looking more and more likely with every post from the OP that it is

I think it is plain to see from my posting history that I am not Alice Evans 🤣

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JustforAlice · 07/12/2022 14:35

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Vivi0 · 07/12/2022 15:26

TheSunnySide · 07/12/2022 13:49

I think it is plain to see from my posting history that I am not Alice Evans 🤣

Don’t be so reasonable!

I’ve noticed that there is a small, but very vocal group of women online who are obsessed with this divorce and congregate on multiple platforms habitually accusing anyone who directs even a hint of criticism in Ioan Gruffud’s direction of being Alice Evans, and relish at the prospect of interacting with her (see the post before this one).

It’s not normal behaviour.

FoxtrotOscarFoxtrotOscar · 07/12/2022 15:30

GoOutsideDontGoOutside · 06/12/2022 22:53

Is that you, Alice?

😂

FoxtrotOscarFoxtrotOscar · 07/12/2022 15:39

TheSunnySide · 07/12/2022 00:23

No I think he’s a cocklodger. He has no money and his sick girlfriend is paying for everything.

Maybe Bianca is receiving health insurance payouts?
Who knows.

ImpartialMongoose · 07/12/2022 15:48

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JustforAlice · 07/12/2022 16:05

Vivi0 · 07/12/2022 15:26

Don’t be so reasonable!

I’ve noticed that there is a small, but very vocal group of women online who are obsessed with this divorce and congregate on multiple platforms habitually accusing anyone who directs even a hint of criticism in Ioan Gruffud’s direction of being Alice Evans, and relish at the prospect of interacting with her (see the post before this one).

It’s not normal behaviour.

I am not vocal on any forum other than this one.

I just happen to be passionate about the fact that female abusers are still not properly recognised or dealt with. I follow this case with interest as it has many parallels with a case here in the UK that I am involved with.

IMHO female abusers should be dealt with in the same way as male abusers. There should also be recognition that this exists and people should stop brushing it under the carpet.
I first became aware of this case because of the granting of a 3 year domestic violence restraining order against this woman and those are pretty hard to come by. The other facts I have gleaned from court papers and not from forums.

Knors · 07/12/2022 16:14

Went and done some googling cuz I had no idea who Ioan was and I kinda feel sorry for the poor bloke.

MassiveSaladWithChristmasTrimmings · 07/12/2022 16:18

TwoMonthsOff · 07/12/2022 12:55

He was good in Hornblower

He was great in Another Life with Natasha Little.

I think Alice just can't accept the fact that the marriage is over and has made it into a very nasty drama that has left her with no dignity.

DarceyG · 07/12/2022 16:18

TheSunnySide · 06/12/2022 23:57

I wonder if he was still with his wife, but unable to find work, would he still be insisting on selling the house.

what does Bianca do for a job? Whatever it is, it must be fairly lucrative.

From what I’ve gathered Bianca grins a lot, wears tittie tight T-shirts and rubs his ex’s face in it at every opportunity. Full time job right there

Vivi0 · 07/12/2022 16:25

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Me.

It takes seconds to check someone’s posting history.

And one thread based on a recent news article hardly makes the OP “invested”.

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