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Does the UK have a racism problem?

556 replies

JolllyBee · 30/11/2022 20:43

In just the last 24 hours alone we've had in the news:

Prince William’s godmother quits palace over comments to black charity boss

Meghan Markle had several 'disgusting' and credible threats to her life, Met cop reveals

Various people's census rants going viral and getting a scary amount of support

James McAvoy shocked by hometown racism in Glasgow after castmates abused on street

and a few days prior:

London Fire Brigade houses a toxic culture of bullying, racism and misogyny, inquiry finds

OP posts:
Mardyface · 01/12/2022 16:49

TruckerBarbie · 01/12/2022 16:46

If you're going to try and pretend that you've never heard people moaning about the BE then I'm not going to waste my time digging up examples. It's extremely common on here. Pretty sure there was mention in this very thread.

Of course I'm not suggesting people don't 'moan about' the British Empire. If you're talking about Mumsnet people are probably more interested in the BE rather than other ones because this is a British website?

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 01/12/2022 16:51

Tooshytoshine · 30/11/2022 21:25

I married a child of an immigrant. She is a well respected doctor (as are her immigrant parents). We now have British children. Should they feel guilt for being children of immigrants or are they British enough for you (as the arbiter of all that is right and good in the world)?

Pretty confident there have been more than 1/2 a million immigrants over the millennia. I mean the Picts, the Anglo Saxons, vikings, not to mention the Romans...

500, O00 in ONE Year.

The other examples you choose : Vikings, Romans etc were all invaders and military conquerors ( except possibly the Picts, no one really knows about them since they were illiterate), so quite different from modern immigrants.

TruckerBarbie · 01/12/2022 16:51

Mardyface · 01/12/2022 16:44

In addition when you're talking about slavery that happened hundreds of years ago you are also being ruled over by an aristocratic class whose family money was earned by selling other people. Surely you can understand that might be a bit galling if you are a person whose family was sold and the profits are still being used by people who think they have a God-given right to it? It should be galling to everyone even if it doesn't apply to you.

Well, yes I understand that. But Africa, for example, features prominently in the worst offenders for modern slavery with Africans still being the people most at risk of being enslaved. It's arguably a bit rich to be moaning about the transgressions committed by other nations several hundred years ago when your home territory is still one of the worst offenders.

Tillow4ever · 01/12/2022 16:53

SantaCarlaCalifornia · 01/12/2022 15:40

Is there a way that someone can say they're not racist without it being a signal that they're racist?

No need to say you aren’t racist at all. Just don’t be racist. If you have to tell people you aren’t, you are doing it to virtue signal. Or you are racist but you’re trying to defend something racist you just said or did.

JudgeJ · 01/12/2022 16:55

Just don't be racist. Why do you need to make a statement about it at all? If you have to say that you aren't racist it's usually to excuse something racist.

Love the stupidity of that last sentence, it's akin to my saying I am not a murderer, hence I must be a murderer.
Because this site does not allow honest discussion on this topic it's really a pointless thread, anyone whose views don't tick the self-determined boxes is 'racist', it's an extreme position that causes more harm than good.

Mardyface · 01/12/2022 16:56

TruckerBarbie · 01/12/2022 16:51

Well, yes I understand that. But Africa, for example, features prominently in the worst offenders for modern slavery with Africans still being the people most at risk of being enslaved. It's arguably a bit rich to be moaning about the transgressions committed by other nations several hundred years ago when your home territory is still one of the worst offenders.

I think you need to be a bit clearer about which group of people is 'moaning' and what you mean by 'home country' here for me to even enter into a discussion about it. Which actually I'm not going to because whatever else this line of argument may be, it's definitely whataboutery and so I don't think that stands as a valid argument.

TruckerBarbie · 01/12/2022 17:03

Mardyface · 01/12/2022 16:56

I think you need to be a bit clearer about which group of people is 'moaning' and what you mean by 'home country' here for me to even enter into a discussion about it. Which actually I'm not going to because whatever else this line of argument may be, it's definitely whataboutery and so I don't think that stands as a valid argument.

So my point is 'definitely whataboutery' although you admit that you don't actually understand it and need clarification. 😂

Squeezita · 01/12/2022 17:05

TruckerBarbie · 01/12/2022 16:46

If you're going to try and pretend that you've never heard people moaning about the BE then I'm not going to waste my time digging up examples. It's extremely common on here. Pretty sure there was mention in this very thread.

Sad that you’re more upset about the defunct, dead British Empire being insulted instead of racism against black people who are alive right now.

Squeezita · 01/12/2022 17:06

TruckerBarbie · 01/12/2022 17:03

So my point is 'definitely whataboutery' although you admit that you don't actually understand it and need clarification. 😂

If you are vague, how can she understand?

Mardyface · 01/12/2022 17:10

TruckerBarbie · 01/12/2022 17:03

So my point is 'definitely whataboutery' although you admit that you don't actually understand it and need clarification. 😂

To be clear: I don't need clarification. I just think that

  1. you can't call a group of people moaning hypocrites when you're not prepared to say who is 'moaning'.
  2. I'm interested in what you mean by 'home country' - except I'm not interested, I think you are being racist.
  3. I don't see the value of talking about one bad thing and then saying 'well this is worse'. The effects of the slavery that happened hundreds of years ago are still existent. That's got nothing to do with modern slavery, a separate issue. Talking about it is a diversionary tactic. That's generally what is known as whataboutery.
  4. If you hadn't used the fucking bellend crying with laughter emoji I would have left you alone.
TruckerBarbie · 01/12/2022 17:12

Squeezita · 01/12/2022 17:06

If you are vague, how can she understand?

How can she call it whataboutery if she doesn't understand the point.

SantaCarlaCalifornia · 01/12/2022 17:15

Tillow4ever · 01/12/2022 16:53

No need to say you aren’t racist at all. Just don’t be racist. If you have to tell people you aren’t, you are doing it to virtue signal. Or you are racist but you’re trying to defend something racist you just said or did.

I'm all for not virtue signalling but if someone is accused of being racist for any reason, is there any way to say they're not without proving to you that they're racist? Or is the accusation enough to prove that they're racist?

TruckerBarbie · 01/12/2022 17:16

A lot of people believe that we need to pay reparations to Africa for what happened in the colonial era.

My point is that it seems slightly peculiar to pay slave reparations to one of the current worst offenders of slavery.

Perhaps they could give the reparations to the families of the people they currently enslave. 🤔

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 01/12/2022 17:19

Of course it does, but so does everywhere else - and worse in some cases. Anyone who thinks other European countries (just for starters) don’t have as bad, or an even worse problem with racism, is extremely naive.

Squeezita · 01/12/2022 17:22

TruckerBarbie · 01/12/2022 17:16

A lot of people believe that we need to pay reparations to Africa for what happened in the colonial era.

My point is that it seems slightly peculiar to pay slave reparations to one of the current worst offenders of slavery.

Perhaps they could give the reparations to the families of the people they currently enslave. 🤔

You mean like white companies whose demand for diamonds drives slavery?

The West is still a big problem in Africa, and increasingly, China.

LondonWolf · 01/12/2022 17:56

I'm all for not virtue signalling but if someone is accused of being racist for any reason, is there any way to say they're not without proving to you that they're racist? Or is the accusation enough to prove that they're racist?

Yes. That's the beauty of it. You're unable to defend yourself. If you don't defend yourself you're racist, if you do, you're also...you guessed it racist! They always prevail in any discussion around these matters and you are supposed to just just slink away chastened and too frightened to challenge again. Reality and truth is meaningless. That's why it's just a huge crock of nonsense and best ignored where possible. If you can't ignore you have to learn to challenge without rancour and accept that you'll be called racist. I promise you, you won't care after a while.

healthadvice123 · 01/12/2022 18:00

@Squeezita but it is not just black people who are affected by racism you do know that right ?

Murdoch1949 · 01/12/2022 18:02

We continue to have a massive racism problem that has been covert for years but now people are speaking out more, particularly at work. The police, fire service, Red Arrows, Navy submariners etc WhatsApp groups using racist and sexist language and incidents will lead to changes in those largely masculine sectors. But it is too little, too late. We need to make drastic changes, call out every example of racism, misogyny etc rather than turning away.

healthadvice123 · 01/12/2022 18:03

@Mardyface and my famiy worked in a work house so thats just life and how things were, other countries were not all innocent then either and the current RF are pretty far removed from it , there is also countries now that treat people like slaves basically , is it not more important to be helping them here and now , but then thats blamed in the west as well
Lithium for electric cars that prob most of you are preaching for , do you know where its from and who is expected to dig it up?

healthadvice123 · 01/12/2022 18:06

@DailyMaui yet I come from a similar area and know many that grew up in that area and live there now and its not how it is now or was in the 90's even
Times change

healthadvice123 · 01/12/2022 18:08

@Mardyface the BE is always getting pulled up and yes by many who live in britain but they ignore modern slavery

Picklypickles · 01/12/2022 18:13

Yes, I live in small and very white village down south and have seen so much racism over the years. My mum is mixed race (Arabic), not noticably so these days though,she used to have darker skin when she was young, she's paler now as doesn't get much sun! When I was around 10 years old a neighbour somehow found out about her heritage and approached me in the street when I was walking home from a friends house and said "oh your mum's that P**i slut isn't she" leading me to going home and having to ask my mum what either of those words meant. 30yrs on and he still hates our entire family. People around here have shown a lot of fear and suspicion around anybody foreign or whose skin is not white and I've heard some horrid comments people have made in conversations with each other. All falling over each other to support those nice white Ukrainian families now though.

My stepdad's mum just about lost her mind when her precious granddaughter had a relationship with a black guy, she was convinced she'd be beaten up or murdered if she was seen out with him. She also hates all German people with a passion, she is one horrible old bag.

Mardyface · 01/12/2022 18:13

@healthadvice123 stop @ ing me. Not that I think your arguments are coherent in any way, but the point is not about other countries' racism problem it's about racism in Britain. Which exists and only British people can do anything about.

Popgoestheweaselagain · 01/12/2022 18:24

Trainbear · 01/12/2022 13:36

The legal definition of racism is the only one which matters.

Is it? Legal definitions can change. The legal definition if 'rape' for instance has changed significantly in recent times.

2ManyPjs · 01/12/2022 18:28

LondonWolf · 01/12/2022 17:56

I'm all for not virtue signalling but if someone is accused of being racist for any reason, is there any way to say they're not without proving to you that they're racist? Or is the accusation enough to prove that they're racist?

Yes. That's the beauty of it. You're unable to defend yourself. If you don't defend yourself you're racist, if you do, you're also...you guessed it racist! They always prevail in any discussion around these matters and you are supposed to just just slink away chastened and too frightened to challenge again. Reality and truth is meaningless. That's why it's just a huge crock of nonsense and best ignored where possible. If you can't ignore you have to learn to challenge without rancour and accept that you'll be called racist. I promise you, you won't care after a while.

That's why it's just a huge crock of nonsense and best ignored where possible. If you can't ignore you have to learn to challenge without rancour and accept that you'll be called racist. I promise you, you won't care after a while.

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