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Things in RECENT times you can’t quite believe we’re seen as ‘ok’

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LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 30/11/2022 17:45

The Jeremy Kyle Show. Middle class man shouts at poor people who aren’t terribly bright, for not being perfect humans. So pleased it ended.

On X Factor and BGT when they used to show ‘funny’ auditions of people who believed they had talent but really didn’t so got laughed at. They then brought them back for the final to do a humiliating routine live so they could be laughed at more.

Supernanny. Childless woman who can barely speak properly pulls lemon faces, tells parents they’re shit and Instills sudden and sharp changes in the child’s home where actual camera are focussing on them when they’re distraught and upset

Sun sea and suspicious parents. Mum and dad spying on their adult children from a rooftop in Greece whilst said child gets off with a stranger. CREEPY!

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Whoopsmahoot · 30/11/2022 19:14

Giving children medication that will sterilise them under the guise of curing a mental health issue. Beggars belief.

wordler · 30/11/2022 19:15

Page 3 in The Sun.

PipinwasAuntieMabelsdog · 30/11/2022 19:15

Hopefully, in the not-too-distant future, we will be as horrified at 'comedians' talking to you Frankie Boyle and Jimmy Carr making 'jokes' at the expense of disabled children, as we are by Bernard Manning and his ilk.

Antisemitism will be viewed with the same contempt as racism and my children will be able to safely own their heritage in the UK in public. They are tiny right now, and I pray this happens whilst I am able to witness it so that DH and I can 'leave' them knowing that they and our grandchildren will be safe.🙏

WallaceinAnderland · 30/11/2022 19:16

Everyone having to pretend that a man becomes a woman if he puts on pink lipstick and uses the ladies loo

donttellmehesalive · 30/11/2022 19:16

In the future I think we might be judged for being so helicoptery with our kids. Monitoring their every move, smoothing away the slightest difficulty, prizes for everyone, parents attending uni open days.

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 30/11/2022 19:16

latetothefisting · 30/11/2022 18:27

It's ok to mock people with strong regional accents and suggest that means they shouldn't be on TV, then, OP?

What made you think I was mocking, or even referring to, her accent?! Confused

I’ll add another to my list: Faux outrage when having completely misunderstood something. A MN special 🤣

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FlissyPaps · 30/11/2022 19:16

Boooooot · 30/11/2022 19:11

@FlissyPaps i also know a lot of people who drove around without licenses. I’m from a “rougher” area though!

Me too, a very deprived ex-mining village. A lot describe it as rough.

I think a lot of people on here are shocked at the no-license thing because they’ve clearly never experienced northern council estate living 😂

OMG12 · 30/11/2022 19:16

011899988I9991197253 · 30/11/2022 17:51

Dressing up in woman-face for entertainment.

Came on to say the same. Interestingly I complained to the BBC the used almost exactly the same language they used against complaints in 1967 when there were complaints about the black and white mistral show. Wonder how long before it will be viewed in the same way

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 30/11/2022 19:18

Surprised in Jo Frost’s years of nannying she didn’t recognise a neurodiverse child when she saw one

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LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 30/11/2022 19:18

100ML · 30/11/2022 18:38

Has it ever occurred to you that in 20 or 30 years time, people may be looking back at you and all of your opinions and thinking something similar?

Yes

And?

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Mummummummumyyyyy · 30/11/2022 19:19

MooFroo · 30/11/2022 18:19

twerking and ‘modern day’ dance moves in secondary school performance with girls in crop tops and some in very short shorts - older teenage pupils.
lots of men in the audience.

why not have a dress code that preserves modesty and dignity?

Yes. And this to dance schools too. Shocking

PipinwasAuntieMabelsdog · 30/11/2022 19:19

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 30/11/2022 19:16

What made you think I was mocking, or even referring to, her accent?! Confused

I’ll add another to my list: Faux outrage when having completely misunderstood something. A MN special 🤣

You said JF could not 'speak properly' that is rude and ignorant. What impact did/does that have on her professional capabilities? She's not an elecution teacher.

beatsin8s · 30/11/2022 19:19

MuchTooTired · 30/11/2022 17:50

That marital rape was legal until 1991. Absolutely blows my mind that it was A ok in my lifetime!

This.

OMG12 · 30/11/2022 19:19

Whoopsmahoot · 30/11/2022 19:14

Giving children medication that will sterilise them under the guise of curing a mental health issue. Beggars belief.

Yes, I give it 10 years before there is a massive outbreak of legal action against the people who push this. Hopefully certain charities have large coffers and brilliant insurance

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 30/11/2022 19:20

Another: Heat magazine not that long ago giving free stickers with the magazine that openly mocked a disabled child

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Georgyporky · 30/11/2022 19:21

I remember seeing road signs that said "Cripples Crossing"

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 30/11/2022 19:22

Clarabellawilliamson · 30/11/2022 18:05

There was a smoking room in the staff room when I started teaching, in 2006! Unimaginable now- we don't even have a staff room 😂

When I trained as a nurse, ‘83-‘87, there were smoking day rooms on every hospital ward. Patients weren’t allowed to smoke in bed, because of the piped oxygen (we didn’t want them blowing the place up), but if they could stagger - or be pushed - to the day room, they could smoke to their hearts’ content. Even if they were in hospital with lung cancer or circulatory problems related to smoking.

OMG12 · 30/11/2022 19:23

PennywisePoundFoolish · 30/11/2022 19:06

My friend got sent home from work experience around 1993 for wearing trousers! The boss had instructed his secretary to tell her to "go home and put on a little skirt".

I can remember a client calling the office in the late 1990s to complain about girls on the audit team wearing trousers. We were told we had to wear skirts the following week.

Boooooot · 30/11/2022 19:23

FlissyPaps · 30/11/2022 19:16

Me too, a very deprived ex-mining village. A lot describe it as rough.

I think a lot of people on here are shocked at the no-license thing because they’ve clearly never experienced northern council estate living 😂

Im from Cornwall but I’m sure it’s very much the same! Maybe be we need a tv show where mumsnetters are sent to live on council estates 🤣

Withnoshoes · 30/11/2022 19:24

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 30/11/2022 19:18

Surprised in Jo Frost’s years of nannying she didn’t recognise a neurodiverse child when she saw one

To be fair there has been huge huge changes and ways that neurodiversity is recognised and diagnosed since Jo Frost was first on tv. I was nursery nursing back then and I wouldn’t have spotted children as easily as I would now. It was very rare to have children in mainstream with very obvious learning difficulties/disabilities. Now with 20 years under my belt and many courses and awareness training it’s much more obvious when children/young people are struggling or are neurodivergent. Children can be diagnosed as young as 2/3 now. That rarely happened even ten years ago.

anotherscroller · 30/11/2022 19:25

Controlled crying, ‘cry it out’ (what is ‘it’?)

qpmz · 30/11/2022 19:25

That was a sly dig at Super Nanny for pointing out she's childless.

FallopianTubeTrain · 30/11/2022 19:26

Leaded petrol wasn't banned until 2000. There are still particles of it in the air in London! It was known at the time it was developed how bad it was for human health. www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-57564953.amp

The same guy that invented leaded petrol also invented CFCs 🤦‍♀️

Sadbeigechildren · 30/11/2022 19:26

Young teenage girls magazines describing how to give a really great blow job. Condoms, yes. Pressure to do well at giving BJs, no.

Scottish MP being told to repeat his comments 'in English' in the Commons. He was speaking English.

The way Catholic people living in Northern Ireland were treated as a second class nation. Couldn't trust the police force, had to cower at multiple army checkpoints just to go about their daily lives.

Many aspects of the shameless baiting on Love Island.

Abortion for DS or cleft palate being legal to full term when it is not legal for babies without these differences.

DarkDarkNight · 30/11/2022 19:27

The utterly disgusting way the gutter press used to write about gay celebrities in general, and George Michaels in particular. Writing about people as if they should be ashamed, outing people. I can remember in my mid teens being outraged about the way he was treat.

Certain papers haven’t improved a great deal.