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Prince Andrew taken back into the fold this weekend.

389 replies

Wishiwasinmalta · 13/11/2022 15:33

AIBU or will the popularity of the RF drop like a lead balloon if they keep on doing this?

OP posts:
justgettingthroughtheday · 13/11/2022 18:23

@Canthave2manycats that's just not true! A lot of the public and press have been against her from day one. The number of older people who I have heard openly being racist about her is unbelievable.

AutumnCrow · 13/11/2022 18:24

antelopevalley · 13/11/2022 18:22

How can you watch the Andrew interview and not realise he is a big fat liar? The man was so obviously lying. You are incredibly naive if you could watch that and believe him.

That's why I have no time for his ghastly York family, Sarah, Beatrice and Eugenie. Just venal idiots.

whynotwhatknot · 13/11/2022 18:24

what they do as a family isnt our business

hes not a working royal anymore

SkeetyLola · 13/11/2022 18:25

TheKeatingFive · 13/11/2022 18:07

But there was a good chance Andrew wouldn't have known that. I doubt JE and MG were shouting about what they were doing.

Ignorance isn't a legal defence though.

Quite what he thought these young girls were doing at these Uber rich socialites parties, given they young enough to be his daughters and from wildly differing social backgrounds, is an interesting one, hmm? Did he think they were bessie mates with Epstein?

@TheKeatingFive

He probably thought they were escorts. There’s no reason he would jump to “trafficked” - why would anyone?
Also 17 year olds can easily pass for 18,19,20 or more

AutumnCrow · 13/11/2022 18:26

whynotwhatknot · 13/11/2022 18:24

what they do as a family isnt our business

hes not a working royal anymore

I think the concept of his ever 'working' since about 1984 is moot.

Canthave2manycats · 13/11/2022 18:26

LondonWolf · 13/11/2022 17:08

If my brother had done what he's allegedly done, I would be NC with him.

Yes, alleged. You'd cut off your own sibling for unproven allegations against him? I wouldn't and I don't think you're as good and moral a person as you seem to think you are.

"Allegedly" is the key word here!! Presumably the rest of the family believe Andrew and it's to their credit that they are supporting him and including him on family occasions! I'd like to think that if I was falsely accused of something (which he insists he was) that they would be there for me!

He's clearly guilty of extremely poor judgement, and arrogance - faults that he's been long know to have. Truth or lies - the fact was that dragging the matter through the courts would have been excruciatingly embarrassing for the RF, and particularly in the midst of the Platinum Jubilee.

I'm a big believer in 'innocent until proven guilty". It's the law of the land. Prince Andrew has not been convicted of any crime. I don't want to see him back in public life - too much baggage, and why would anyone actually want to meet him? - but I've no objection to his being considered part of his family as he always has been.

Silvers11 · 13/11/2022 18:27

whynotwhatknot · 13/11/2022 18:24

what they do as a family isnt our business

hes not a working royal anymore

This.

antelopevalley · 13/11/2022 18:27

@whynotwhatknot Rubbish. It was taxpayers money that paid the £12 million payout. And taxpayers who paid for his very expensive lawyers. And Andrew only got off a criminal case because he is a member of the Royal family. If he was an ordinary Joe he would have been in a criminal court.

exLtEveDallas · 13/11/2022 18:27

I have never been convinced he did what VG accused him of. My personal belief is he was doing something else entirely, and that she caught him doing that - hence the hush money. It would also explain his marriage of convenience to SF.

FurAndFeathers · 13/11/2022 18:27

JimDixon · 13/11/2022 17:21

Try putting the following royals in order of how much you like/rate them:

  1. Andrew
  2. Harry
  3. Meghan

That would be the order I'd put them :).

At least Andrew has a notion of public service and was nice to his dear old Ma'am.

Well I guess if you rate speaking publicly about life as a Royal as more heinous than aiding and abetting child sex offenders we just have different moral priorities @JimDixon

Rembember JE was a convicted child sex abuser BEFORE Andrew befriended him.

I guess if you believe supporting child sexual slavery/human trafficking/convicted offenders is a lesser problem than speaking out against racism in the royal family, then your list is reasonable.

your moral judgement however is pretty questionable by most legal and ethical standards.

Silvers11 · 13/11/2022 18:28

Canthave2manycats · 13/11/2022 18:26

"Allegedly" is the key word here!! Presumably the rest of the family believe Andrew and it's to their credit that they are supporting him and including him on family occasions! I'd like to think that if I was falsely accused of something (which he insists he was) that they would be there for me!

He's clearly guilty of extremely poor judgement, and arrogance - faults that he's been long know to have. Truth or lies - the fact was that dragging the matter through the courts would have been excruciatingly embarrassing for the RF, and particularly in the midst of the Platinum Jubilee.

I'm a big believer in 'innocent until proven guilty". It's the law of the land. Prince Andrew has not been convicted of any crime. I don't want to see him back in public life - too much baggage, and why would anyone actually want to meet him? - but I've no objection to his being considered part of his family as he always has been.

And this too

Bakeacaketoday · 13/11/2022 18:28

bellac11 · 13/11/2022 17:01

Notwithstanding that his actual crime appears to be the trafficking of the girl he slept with, what do you think a paedophile is?

Ive just had to correct someone on another thread, who said that they thought the word referred to an attraction to children up to 16 years of age?

Do people really not know what a paedophile is?

Yes - I was using the example of something much worse to highlight the problem

Paedophile - someone who is attracted to pre-pubescent chldren.

Readinginthesun · 13/11/2022 18:28

antelopevalley · 13/11/2022 18:20

It is not bollocks. The Royal Family apparently thought she was white when they first met her.
The multi-million pound wedding was not a gift. It is what the Royal Family do to create a spectacle and get support from the public.
Harry was popular.
But the attacks on Meghan started before they were even married. Just search threads on here if you have forgotten. Loads of awful and nasty threads about Meghan.

It was widely reported that The Queen was surprised they wanted a large wedding given that it was M’s second marriage .
There was no pressure on them to have “ that spectacle “ .

JohnStuartMill · 13/11/2022 18:29

Wishiwasinmalta · Today 15:33
Prince Andrew taken back into the fold this weekend

What on earth do you mean by taken back into the fold?

He has always been very much 'in the fold'

www.thecut.com/2022/03/prince-andrew-escorted-the-queen-to-prince-philips-memorial.html

FurAndFeathers · 13/11/2022 18:29

exLtEveDallas · 13/11/2022 18:27

I have never been convinced he did what VG accused him of. My personal belief is he was doing something else entirely, and that she caught him doing that - hence the hush money. It would also explain his marriage of convenience to SF.

Yes an he just happened to have an innocent wide eyed friendship with a convicted sex offender for many years and spend time with young girls in the company of that sex offender and never connected the dots.

all totally understandable 🙄

AutumnCrow · 13/11/2022 18:30

Andrew is not alleged to have 'slept with' VG.

He is alleged to have had sex with her, without her meaningful consent as she had been trafficked to him. Enough with the eupemisms.

Roselilly36 · 13/11/2022 18:32

No further post from the OP, journo trying to whip up a frenzy I expect.

FurAndFeathers · 13/11/2022 18:33

Canthave2manycats · 13/11/2022 18:26

"Allegedly" is the key word here!! Presumably the rest of the family believe Andrew and it's to their credit that they are supporting him and including him on family occasions! I'd like to think that if I was falsely accused of something (which he insists he was) that they would be there for me!

He's clearly guilty of extremely poor judgement, and arrogance - faults that he's been long know to have. Truth or lies - the fact was that dragging the matter through the courts would have been excruciatingly embarrassing for the RF, and particularly in the midst of the Platinum Jubilee.

I'm a big believer in 'innocent until proven guilty". It's the law of the land. Prince Andrew has not been convicted of any crime. I don't want to see him back in public life - too much baggage, and why would anyone actually want to meet him? - but I've no objection to his being considered part of his family as he always has been.

He’s not been convicted because his mum paid undisclosed millions to make the court case go away and ensure her son’s long term relationship with a convicted child sec offender wasn’t dragged through the courts!

nothing like the principles of honesty, integrity and compassion we expect from our ruling monarchs!

but yeah I guess if you believe that folk that the royals/prime minister etc are just as judicially accountable as the rest of us then it’s way to persuade yourself

its not reality though

Bakeacaketoday · 13/11/2022 18:33

antelopevalley · 13/11/2022 18:27

@whynotwhatknot Rubbish. It was taxpayers money that paid the £12 million payout. And taxpayers who paid for his very expensive lawyers. And Andrew only got off a criminal case because he is a member of the Royal family. If he was an ordinary Joe he would have been in a criminal court.

Why do you think he would have been in a criminal court? VG has accused him of certain things - one wasn't a crime at the time (but is now) so couldn't be prosecuted.
The remainder, she was over 16 and in each case the jurisdiction meant she was over-age.
Unlike Boy George who is firmly in the public eye and convicted of assault and kidnapping!

Spinninggyro · 13/11/2022 18:34

Countess of Wessex was with Princess Royal’s husband

CheshireCat1 · 13/11/2022 18:35

This is just another none story.

Bakeacaketoday · 13/11/2022 18:36

Being honest I find I have to step back from these discussions as until people realise we are under a legal system that involves the premise of "innocent until proven guilty" we can't get anywhere!

I wonder how long the cancel culture will endure once one or more of the cancelled start taking legal action - JKR is an obvious one to start the ball rolling....

antelopevalley · 13/11/2022 18:37

Canthave2manycats · 13/11/2022 18:26

"Allegedly" is the key word here!! Presumably the rest of the family believe Andrew and it's to their credit that they are supporting him and including him on family occasions! I'd like to think that if I was falsely accused of something (which he insists he was) that they would be there for me!

He's clearly guilty of extremely poor judgement, and arrogance - faults that he's been long know to have. Truth or lies - the fact was that dragging the matter through the courts would have been excruciatingly embarrassing for the RF, and particularly in the midst of the Platinum Jubilee.

I'm a big believer in 'innocent until proven guilty". It's the law of the land. Prince Andrew has not been convicted of any crime. I don't want to see him back in public life - too much baggage, and why would anyone actually want to meet him? - but I've no objection to his being considered part of his family as he always has been.

I genuinely hope if you have kids you are just saying the above and do not mean it. Someone who is accused of being a sex abuser and obviously lies about his "defence" is someone you should be protecting your kids from. I would not let Andrew anywhere near my 14 year old daughter.

Glitteratitar · 13/11/2022 18:38

SkeetyLola · 13/11/2022 18:25

@TheKeatingFive

He probably thought they were escorts. There’s no reason he would jump to “trafficked” - why would anyone?
Also 17 year olds can easily pass for 18,19,20 or more

That’s the point. In those wealthy circles, there are always, rightly or wrongly, young women throwing themselves at the men, whether it be in the role of an escort or a woman wanting the lifestyle. Why would he have thought she was trafficked?

exLtEveDallas · 13/11/2022 18:38

FurAndFeathers · 13/11/2022 18:29

Yes an he just happened to have an innocent wide eyed friendship with a convicted sex offender for many years and spend time with young girls in the company of that sex offender and never connected the dots.

all totally understandable 🙄

That convicted sex offender didn’t just traffic girls…