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To think that not sleeping around when married isn't that big a deal?

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Janbohonut · 12/11/2022 16:44

Just read an interview with Tim Minchin and he talks about how in his career he travels a lot, loves women, loves to flirt and has got really close at times, especially when women are literally shaking and in tears at meeting him, but then he realised his marriage was too important to throw away.

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-11-07/tim-minchin-reassesses-comedy-approach/101564662

"You're away from home for a long time, you're jet-lagged, you're drinking. I think the times I got close to doing the wrong thing made me realise it wouldn't be worth it to blow my marriage... I'm away a lot and I am in a really flamboyant industry and I'm really flirtatious and I really like women."

And meanwhile his wife, who supported him as a social worker at the start, is sitting there having to listen to all this.

I mean, in most long marriages there have presumably been opportunities for both parties. Either you act on them or you don't. But I can't imagine a celebrity woman talking in front of her husband about how she loves men and loves to flirt and had loads of chances to cheat, but didn't. It felt like a gigantic humble brag.

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Canthave2manycats · 12/11/2022 20:44

FurAndFeathers · 12/11/2022 18:46

Exactly.

but God forbid that someone should be honest about the reality of their life 🤷‍♀️

this thread is just an excuse to pull apart an incredibly successful musician and songwriter because he’s dared to acknowledge that women throw themselves at him.

I’d have thought most women would support a man who values his marriage and fidelity to his wife over opportunistic sex, but apparently that’s something to slag him off for.
weird

Agree!

Some very nasty-minded people trying to pull the man apart.

Don't know anything about him but it sounds like he is just being very honest, and that's to his credit.

Extremely mean-spirited to raise a negative and critical public discussion about someone you don't actually know, based on your failure to comprehend what he was getting at!

eyebright22 · 12/11/2022 20:47

Here is his wife's point of view on the song about it.

"It's nevertheless one she lists among her favourites Tim has written, even if she's a little guarded with her praise. "I make a joke of that, that he shouldn't be praised for everything, including not cheating on me." "

Fair enough - he has been honest about situations that have arisen because of his fame. And shouldn't be praised for not cheating.

Canthave2manycats · 12/11/2022 20:51

SunscreenCentral · 12/11/2022 19:29

Speak for yourself!! Lol...

What a ridiculous comment - how ageist can you be?!!! Horrible.

I give you George Clooney, Martin Kemp - just a couple of men who have become even more attractive as they've aged! Plenty of women and plenty of other men - and that's just in the public eye.

Are you 16?!

eyebright22 · 12/11/2022 20:51

gotelltheoldmandowntheroad · 12/11/2022 20:36

Bragging he’s attractive cause he’s not. It’s insecurity

He calls himself a 'weird looking ginger guy' in the article. So not exactly bragging.

This really is a mean-spirited thread, and a misleading OP.

FancyFanny · 03/01/2023 20:17

I'd take Tim Minchin over George Clooney any day. He may not be a conventional heart-throb but I find him really sexy because he's clearly a very intelligent and articulate man.

mincepiesandi · 03/01/2023 20:21

...how did you find this thread @FancyFanny? Were you just googling certain names? Grin

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