Just talking to DH about our days and I said
"Did you see the thing about David Walliams"
He hadn't. I explained. That Walliams said about a BGT contestant
"She’s like the slightly boring girl you meet in the pub that thinks you want to fuck them, but you don’t. It’s the last thing on your mind, but she’s like: ‘Yep, I bet you do!’ ‘No I don’t!’ I had a bit of a boner, but now it’s going, it’s now shrivelled up inside my body.”
DH then said
"and? was the girl really young or something?"
I said - its total misogyny. He rolled his eyes. And said "it's unpleasant at most"
I haven't slept properly in ages (young DC) and me and DH have been winding each other up and I've been thinking about separation for months, but mainly deciding it is worth it to keep trying & not make everyones' lives much worse, there is no abuse, we can have a laugh, we are affectionate.
But this feels like a final straw. Like I just think it's gross.
Am I overreacting. I can't tell at the moment because lack of sleep and work pressure means I feel like crying/getting angry pretty easily.
But I mean...that's not a good reflection on his values is it?
AIBU: it's no big deal at all, just a difference in opinion
AINBU: your DH sounds like a sexist pig and its probably a terrible role model for your sons. LEAVE NOW.