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To want a towel to dry my hands?

224 replies

ItsAllABit · 04/11/2022 21:38

My sister never has a towel in her downstairs toilet so everytime I wash my hands I have to ask her for a towel. She used to just go and get me one but is now rolling her eyes everytime I ask. Tonight we were there and when I came out of the bathroom I asked her for a towel. Everyone in the room burst out laughing and she rolled her eyes and said “wipe them in your hair”. She basically went on to say that she’s sick of me asking for a towel, she thinks I’m attention seeking and making a massive song and dance all the time and it’s boring. I said it’s perfectly normal to want to wash and dry your hands after using the toilet!!?

anyway when we left I asked DH why he was laughing earlier and he said “because you say the same thing everytime, it’s funny because she gets so wound up by it and when you went in there she said “watch her come out banging on about a towel” so everyone was waiting for you to say it”

Isnt it normal to want to dry your hands after washing them?? Am I being the sick here? DH agrees with my sister apparently that I’m making a song and dance

OP posts:
CluelessAtClothing · 04/11/2022 22:30

kanyoukan · 04/11/2022 21:47

I don't have a towel in the downstairs loo because I don't wash my hands... maybe she doesn't either. I wash my hands in public loos but not at home

Ewwww minging!! Even after a shit?! Bloody hell.

CourtneeLuv · 04/11/2022 22:31

kanyoukan · 04/11/2022 22:04

Go to the kitchen and get a towel, they are probably all thinking you're making a fuss. If you were my sister I'd roll my eyes too. It's a bit princessey

Now I know this is a pisstake. Been at the wine @kakanyoukan ?

TheLateLadyLothbrook · 04/11/2022 22:33

My sister is the same, and she never has toilet paper in either. It fucks me right off the smelly cow.

TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 22:33

And by the way, @kanyoukan i do agree that people can generally be a bit too sterile and ott when it comes to germs (I don’t really wash my hands before I start cooking mainly because I don’t cook much 😂 but when I do everything is going to be, er, cooked anyway, I do if I’m going to making something specially with my hands eg pastry), I do always wash my hands after going to the loo!
If I’ve swept the fireplace out I’m just as likely to wash my hands as I am to just dust them off on my clothes. I’m not especially worked up about that sort of stuff.

Jellybean23 · 04/11/2022 22:33

Maybe come out with wet hands and dry them on the curtains, sofa kitchen towel? Your sister doesn't sound very kind or hygienic.

MrsK89 · 04/11/2022 22:34

After reading the full thread I'm stuck on the poster who doesn't wash their hands after using the toilet. I just don't understand. We were taught this at primary school or maybe even nursery. Ffs

Ericaequites · 04/11/2022 22:35

I dry my hands on my petticoat when there is no towel. Hand hygiene is important. Give her a command peel off hook and some pretty hand towels for Christmas.

kanyoukan · 04/11/2022 22:35

Ha no I genuinely don't wash them. I do however do loads of house work so I've always got my hands in soapy buckets for scrubbing floors and doing surfaces so they are never too far away from being washed one way or another. I recently sold a litter of puppies and people came to look at them and I did spy loads of people getting the hand sanitiser out in the car before they'd even pulled out the drive, it made me laugh, people do need to be exposed to a certain amount of germs in order to build immunity

Maybebabyno2 · 04/11/2022 22:37

Do people really not have a hand towel in the kitchen? How do you dry your hands when you wash them in the kitchen?

Itisbetter · 04/11/2022 22:37

I have a hand towel in my kitchen. I think drying your hands on a tea towel is gross.

SkylightSkylight · 04/11/2022 22:38

kanyoukan · 04/11/2022 21:47

I don't have a towel in the downstairs loo because I don't wash my hands... maybe she doesn't either. I wash my hands in public loos but not at home

@kanyoukan Are you on a wind up?

why don't you wash your hands after using the toilet?

iamjustwinginglife · 04/11/2022 22:39

Blowyourowntrumpet · 04/11/2022 22:23

I thought most people had a tea towel and a hand towel in the kitchen. I do

Me too!

Maybebabyno2 · 04/11/2022 22:40

Itisbetter · 04/11/2022 22:37

I have a hand towel in my kitchen. I think drying your hands on a tea towel is gross.

Yeah same! I have two towels, one is a tea towel and then a small fluffy hand towel.

LaGioconda · 04/11/2022 22:40

ItsAllABit · 04/11/2022 21:44

There is nothing in there, no paper towels, nothing. She says it’s because she doesn’t have a towel rail so nowhere to put a “stupid towel”

There's your Christmas present sorted out - a mini towel rail.

kanyoukan · 04/11/2022 22:40

I also know of a couple who put their towels through the wash after they've used them. I'll re use towels quite a few times before they are washed. I do not know what is standard practice but to me washing towels after one use is crazy!!

WeAreTheHeroes · 04/11/2022 22:40

At least one person has beaten me to the suggestion of a towel and a command hook as a Christmas present for your sister OP. Save on the wrapping paper and just put it up in their downstairs loo when you're there.

Arrivederla · 04/11/2022 22:42

kanyoukan · 04/11/2022 22:04

Go to the kitchen and get a towel, they are probably all thinking you're making a fuss. If you were my sister I'd roll my eyes too. It's a bit princessey

It's basic hygiene.

Oliveandbay · 04/11/2022 22:42

@kanyoukan obviously a troll. Too vile to be true.

Eyesopenwideawake · 04/11/2022 22:42

kanyoukan · 04/11/2022 22:21

Why?tea towels shouldn't have pee and poo on them. And you've washed all the pee and poo off your pee and poo covered hands

You're doing it wrong.

SkylightSkylight · 04/11/2022 22:43

ItsAllABit · 04/11/2022 21:59

you’re lucky to find toilet roll in there to be honest, I’ve had to ask her for that before too.

Not keen on the upstairs bathroom

@ItsAllABit

Oh God, I may regret asking...but what's wrong with the bathroom?

saltinesandcoffeecups · 04/11/2022 22:44

Am I the only one who just dries my hands on my clothes or just shakes them and air dries them if no towel available?

You do seem a bit fussy about it, OP.

TwoRockSalmonAndAHaporthOfChips · 04/11/2022 22:44

ItsAllABit · 04/11/2022 22:15

Glad it’s not just me getting confused by that!

Don’t either of you wash and dry your hands after handling raw meat? Or vegetables with soil on them? Or the bin?

Honestly this thread is making me never want to eat at someone else’s house again. My dad got hepatitis A from someone not washing their hands after the toilet and then making salad in a restaurant (investigated and confirmed by environmental health dept.) You lot sound like an epidemic waiting to happen.

GeordieRacer · 04/11/2022 22:45

Surprised people don't have a hand towel in the kitchen. What do you use when you've washed your hands after handling raw meat or whatever?

SkylightSkylight · 04/11/2022 22:45

kanyoukan · 04/11/2022 22:02

Meh I actually don't care. If I were in the same room as someone with a cold I would and equally if I were to have one. I don't actually get poo on my hands when I go to the loo, or piss.

@kanyoukan it takes 27 layers of double ply toilet paper to create a layer between your hand and 💩, just because you can't see it, doesn't mean germ aren't there.

Dontjudgeme101 · 04/11/2022 22:47

rosiebl · 04/11/2022 21:49

That's just weird. Doesn't your sis wash her hands after using the downstairs loo? What about everyone else who visits? Gross!

That’s disgusting!