@DownNative I haven’t bothered, because it would just stress DH. I am very much an outsider, never been accepted, so I can look on with amusement at the arrogant individual while he pontificates on the world. Like the time he was pleased, as a school governor, that the school started either issuing or prescribing the morning after pil. He actually said “ it causes infertility so no more single mothers”
Then a few years later he was in tears when SIL, not married and still living at home, became one of those disgraceful single mothers
I’ve only seen him about 4 times in the last 25-ish years. And DH doesn’t put up with his BS.