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To think secondary school rules are harsh and missing the point

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craxyrulebraker · 19/10/2022 22:19

DS has just started secondary I just think it is all too much and the focus is all wrong.

You have to ask to take your blazer or jumper off
warning about the 'wrong' type of PE shorts, etc
Not allowed to drink water in lessons
Cautions for forgotten kit
Detentions for homework not complete - even when its not clear who/how to hand it in

Meanwhile very little nurture or pastrol care; poor communication so children don't know what is always expected of them, but scared they will get a detention; hardly any SEN support; very little staff presence at break/lunch times or in corridors; problems with bullying. Schools can't do these basics but tell the kids off for wearing the 'wrong' grey trousers!!

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Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:28

Hercisback · 25/10/2022 20:26

I was laughing at the maths coursework I had to complete, and those I had to mark. Both ridiculous, not a show of my (or students understanding), instead a show of how well students copy. Because it was maths there was only one correct answer.

Coursework has its place for some subjects and can be utilised well under controlled conditions. You're all about the large majority being catered for, evidence is that exams suit the majority just fine.

Do they really though?

And by suit them what do you actually mean?

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:28

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:27

......I mean, teachers have done just that in the past couple of years. Also, coursework but apparently that's totally fucking stupid so what do I know.

No, they haven’t just guessed if their pupils understand it or not. How do you think it’s done?

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:28

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:27

Also, who decides what’s ‘useful’?

Ooh I don't know? The same people who set the curriculum now, what with it being their remit.

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:29

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:28

No, they haven’t just guessed if their pupils understand it or not. How do you think it’s done?

Where did I say they had guessed?

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:29

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:28

Ooh I don't know? The same people who set the curriculum now, what with it being their remit.

But you don’t like the curriculum! I’m asking you what’s ‘useful’ and how do we know how that ‘use’ applies to everyone?

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:30

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:29

Where did I say they had guessed?

So how do you think it’s done? How do we know if they’ve understood or not?

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:31

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:29

But you don’t like the curriculum! I’m asking you what’s ‘useful’ and how do we know how that ‘use’ applies to everyone?

I've already said what I think is useful. I'm not sure there's any point in responding to you when you're so very sure you're right and don't want to consider any other opinion.

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:33

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:31

I've already said what I think is useful. I'm not sure there's any point in responding to you when you're so very sure you're right and don't want to consider any other opinion.

I can’t see where you’ve put the list of useful things you’d like to see in the curriculum.

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:33

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:30

So how do you think it’s done? How do we know if they’ve understood or not?

Presumably by their work? I'm guessing mock exams as well but again, only a test of their memory and not their understanding.

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:34

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:33

I can’t see where you’ve put the list of useful things you’d like to see in the curriculum.

Im sorry but I didn't think I needed to provide you with a list considering you're a teacher who could do fuck all about it and have to follow the current curriculum regardless?

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:34

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:33

Presumably by their work? I'm guessing mock exams as well but again, only a test of their memory and not their understanding.

So you do want us to assess their work? Why do you think exams don’t test understanding?

echt · 25/10/2022 20:35

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:33

Presumably by their work? I'm guessing mock exams as well but again, only a test of their memory and not their understanding.

Exams do test understanding, it's not all rote facts.

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:36

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:34

Im sorry but I didn't think I needed to provide you with a list considering you're a teacher who could do fuck all about it and have to follow the current curriculum regardless?

Well, I’m in Scotland so we do actually have a fair amount of control over what we teach. But I’m SUPER interested in how you, who knows very little about the curriculum or how to teach, can improve it.

Hercisback · 25/10/2022 20:37

So far you've listed mortgages and savings as "useful". These are already taught (I'll accept to different extents). What else do you want?

Or have you adopted a position of "I never needed Pythagoras" without critical thinking about those who may do, and the other skills that people do use from school?

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:39

Hercisback · 25/10/2022 20:37

So far you've listed mortgages and savings as "useful". These are already taught (I'll accept to different extents). What else do you want?

Or have you adopted a position of "I never needed Pythagoras" without critical thinking about those who may do, and the other skills that people do use from school?

And people wonder why teachers get no respect. It's not a lack of critical thinking, I just disagree with you. That's okay, you know.

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:40

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:36

Well, I’m in Scotland so we do actually have a fair amount of control over what we teach. But I’m SUPER interested in how you, who knows very little about the curriculum or how to teach, can improve it.

It is simply my opinion. I haven't said otherwise.

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:41

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:34

So you do want us to assess their work? Why do you think exams don’t test understanding?

A lot of them just test what you can remember. I've literally said this, again, this is my opinion, just in case you're struggling.

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:42

I forgot that were not allowed to disagree with teachers on MN Hmm

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:43

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:41

A lot of them just test what you can remember. I've literally said this, again, this is my opinion, just in case you're struggling.

But this isn’t a case of ‘opinion’. Assessments test understanding and progress, we assess everything they do. So to say they only test memory isn’t an opinion, it’s just incorrect.

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:45

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:42

I forgot that were not allowed to disagree with teachers on MN Hmm

No, you can disagree, you just can’t talk nonsense and expect not to be challenged on it. Bold of you to take such an opinionated stance on something you don’t know anything about.

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:45

So, I'm not allowed an opinion? That's what you're saying? Ok.

MariEllie · 25/10/2022 20:45

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 19:05

Such as?

Erm lots of criminals, I would imagine.

Examples? Or just your imagination?

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:46

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:45

No, you can disagree, you just can’t talk nonsense and expect not to be challenged on it. Bold of you to take such an opinionated stance on something you don’t know anything about.

I'm not talking nonsense, it's literally my opinion.

It's quite disappointing that the people teaching our next generation are so intolerant to be honest.

Pumperthepumper · 25/10/2022 20:46

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:45

So, I'm not allowed an opinion? That's what you're saying? Ok.

See, this is why we teach reading comprehension.

Catfordthefifth · 25/10/2022 20:47

MariEllie · 25/10/2022 20:45

Examples? Or just your imagination?

Well it's not imagination is it. Plenty of criminals absolutely will have had detentions. Why wouldn't they have? You seriously think 0 criminals had detentions?

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