Different people find different things funny. It is allowed.
For myself, I've never found Norman Wisdom or Tommy Cooper remotely funny. My mother couldn't understand why people laughed at Monty Python. So what? Nothing wrong with that.
I've always thought that when male comedians dressed up as women they were inviting us to laugh at them, the incongruousness of a big, beefy man pretending to be a woman , rather than making fun at women in general.
Is it OK if women mock other women, like Patsy and Edina? Only misogynistic if a man does it? Worse if it's a gay man - it must be misogynistic, no room for doubt, because obviously gay men hate women just as lesbians are labelled man-haters? (I am being sarcastic.)
And then the insidious use of the word 'fetish'. They are deviants, perverts. It's sexual. Pass the smelling salts.
And I'm reminded of the Mary Whitehouse years. It really is not a good look if you want to persuade people of your point of view.