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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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IndiaRose22 · 21/10/2022 03:39

Sending you positive, sticky vibes ❤️💐

MrsLargeEmbodied · 21/10/2022 03:45

best of luck x

mathanxiety · 21/10/2022 03:48

Sending good wishes Flowers

PhilomenaPringle · 21/10/2022 04:04

My dear daughter was married age 32 after 5 years of them being together.
At 39 she still hasn't conceived, Infertility is just so awful. IVF is the next step.
But she's been told she's a bit too old, even for that. She feels bad that she might never make me a grandmother, and she's my only chance.

Of course that matters to me not one jot. Although it would be nice of course.
I just feel so much, for her, not me. It comes just so easy for most people.

It's hard to swallow when it doesn't.

Rowgtfc72 · 21/10/2022 04:43

Thinking of you today x

Elderflower14 · 21/10/2022 04:51

Sending huge hugs and prayers to you ♥

Iamnotalemming · 21/10/2022 05:01

Big handhold and positive thoughts OP 💐

Manamala · 21/10/2022 05:05

Hi @elm26 have you already been offered/recieved progesterone pessaries? You are eligible for this as you have suffered multiple miscarriages (3+) and have had early bleeding. The research is called the PRISM trial and is now a NICE guideline. Sorry if this is old news to you.

Thinking of you for your scan today. ❤

Bobby80 · 21/10/2022 05:05

❤️

50plusandfabulous · 21/10/2022 05:25

Sending love ❤️

Mulledwhynot · 21/10/2022 05:34

Big hugs and positive vibes 💜💜 x

destiEos · 21/10/2022 05:35

Another person rooting for you can't hurt! 💕

Igmum · 21/10/2022 05:38

Sending love ❤️ keep growing you lovely little bean

nettie434 · 21/10/2022 05:43

Sending good wishes to you!

theremustonlybeone · 21/10/2022 06:06

Sending you positive energy !

Bumpsadaisie · 21/10/2022 06:20

Praying for you and your baby xxx Flowers

lovemelongtime · 21/10/2022 06:21

Hope all goes well this morning x

MyEasterEggs · 21/10/2022 06:44

Hope all goes well this morning. I have a six week scan today and I’m feeling very nervous having had six miscarriages. I took a long break from TTC before deciding on IVF and this is my first pregnancy in three years. Sending you love and solidarity 💛

MissCatLady · 21/10/2022 06:45

Sending lots of positive thoughts your way xx

Blue2021 · 21/10/2022 06:46

Sending lots of love and positive thoughts xx

kateandme · 21/10/2022 06:48

We are all still here op.
How have you been?
any cravings yet?
Have you any plans for the day after your scan?

tirednewmumm · 21/10/2022 06:49

Just found this thread and adding love and good wishes to the pile. You're doing great op and I have so much respect for you persevering after such a rough time ❤️

Maray1967 · 21/10/2022 06:51

Praying for you and sending best wishes. I know how hard it is to relax in pregnancy after losses- but a heartbeat and the right growth measurement are great signs. Hope all is well.

Dreamwhisper · 21/10/2022 06:51

I will also add my positive prayers, wishing you all the sticky baby dust xxxx

Thurst · 21/10/2022 07:22

All the positive vibes in the world coming from this direction xx