AIBU?
to think my neighbour has no right to complain about this?
Cliveandclyde · 06/10/2022 09:47
I live on a street where parking for visitors is a nightmare due to the fact that nearly everyone has a driveway (including us). Therefore when we have visitors we always let them park across our driveway. To be clear, them doing this does not affect the neighbours on either side getting in or out of their own driveways - there is no overhang whatsoever and plenty of space. One of my neighbours has asked me not to let visitors park across my driveway as (his words) it sets a bad example and makes other people think they can park across driveways (I've never seen this happen once).
AIBU to think I should be able to let visitors block my own driveway?!?!
Am I being unreasonable?
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askmenow · 06/10/2022 12:16
Floomobal · 06/10/2022 10:27
You can only laugh and ignore. That’s completely batshit.
However, you ARE totally BU to start a parking thread without a diagram. 😉
Cliveandclyde · 06/10/2022 10:08
Essentially my neighbour is basically complaining about 2 cars being parked on our driveway which don't obstruct any other cars.
Diagram definitely needed here. How is the car, perpendicularly parked behind your car, getting off your drive?
Is it having to be driven over a neighbouring property to get back onto the road? 🤔
custardbear · 06/10/2022 12:50
StopDrivingIntoMyFence · 06/10/2022 10:47
For anyone struggling to picture this. This is how I imagine the OP means they park.
Well Pearl clutching neighbour clearly has a better car and house than OP so thinks themselves entitled to rule the road. I'd suggest taking a rubber and rubbing him out 🤔
Facecream · 06/10/2022 13:14
@cultkid
The house you posted is not a problem … because there’s a pavement right outside.
So a car parked any way is fine. It doesn’t impede vision.
Likewise driving into a side position with no a drive like the one in the image can be done on the drive. There’s no risk of driving into or onto other people’s property.
A car exiting that house’s space can stop at the boundary from the property to the pavement before moving across the pavement onto the road.
THAT is why you can’t park on pavements because to do so would mean pedestrians walking into the road and a blind spot for the exiting car and cars on the road.
What the OP is saying is that there’s no pavement at all and therefore her visitor will have to turn, most likely reverse directly onto the road and her neighbours, on either side, when leaving their drive cannot see past the visitor’s car because lengthways it blocks their line of sight significantly whereas the way it’d usually be parked would not.
I suspect what the OP’s visitors are doing is parking across her drive on the road but she’s backtracked because she realised that’s wrong and is calling it a “no pavement” street because otherwise it’d be plainly illegal
Karatema · 06/10/2022 13:46
Cliveandclyde · 06/10/2022 10:03
They park across our driveway but they're on the driveway itself, I don't know how else to explain it really. The driveways are really only designed for one car but our car is tiny so guests can use it too if they park sideways.
You know a diagram is essential for Parking problems! 🤣
cultkid · 06/10/2022 15:06
Facecream · 06/10/2022 13:14
@cultkid
The house you posted is not a problem … because there’s a pavement right outside.
So a car parked any way is fine. It doesn’t impede vision.
Likewise driving into a side position with no a drive like the one in the image can be done on the drive. There’s no risk of driving into or onto other people’s property.
A car exiting that house’s space can stop at the boundary from the property to the pavement before moving across the pavement onto the road.
THAT is why you can’t park on pavements because to do so would mean pedestrians walking into the road and a blind spot for the exiting car and cars on the road.
What the OP is saying is that there’s no pavement at all and therefore her visitor will have to turn, most likely reverse directly onto the road and her neighbours, on either side, when leaving their drive cannot see past the visitor’s car because lengthways it blocks their line of sight significantly whereas the way it’d usually be parked would not.
I suspect what the OP’s visitors are doing is parking across her drive on the road but she’s backtracked because she realised that’s wrong and is calling it a “no pavement” street because otherwise it’d be plainly illegal
Yes I agree with you I didn't realise it until @Seeline explained it to me, sorry!
TooMuchToDoTooLittleInclination · 07/10/2022 10:45
GasPanic · 06/10/2022 11:00
From that diagram I struggle to see why you wouldn't park the cars in tandem one behind one another like any normal people would.
@GasPanic
lovely as the diagram is (though I'm sad there no flowers or trees) I think she's been a little generous with the length of the driveway. I think in reality there's room for the width of a car, but not the length.
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