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AIBU?

He’s asked me to join me for a bath…

75 replies

GorillaTape · 29/09/2022 21:34

I’ve been speaking for a week on what’s app to a guy from hinge. He’s send me a pic of his taking a bath (just the bath) and then his face and wrote “Comming joining me”. Grammar/typo on his part but I think he meant for me to join him.
He also replied to my message “I’m still in bed” with “You seem to be in the wrong bed 😉”.

AIBU if I just move on?

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Am I being unreasonable?

375 votes. Final results.

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You are NOT being unreasonable
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TowerRaven7 · 29/09/2022 21:36

I guess it depends what you’re looking for.

WomensLandArmy · 29/09/2022 21:36

He's given the ick and you've not even met in person yet...NEXT!!

Banana2079 · 29/09/2022 21:36

depends on what you’re looking for
sounds like he wants some sex
Just be honest with him

Ponoka7 · 29/09/2022 21:36

It depends on what you wanted out of it and how long you wanted to talk before meeting up. The messages aren't crude.

Ludo19 · 29/09/2022 21:36

Move on his spelling alone would piss me off. He's just looking for a shag.

WhatLikeItsHard · 29/09/2022 21:36

I'd move on for the typo alone.

He's looking for a quick easy shag, so unless you are too, then next!

GorillaTape · 29/09/2022 21:36

I’m looking to date…. I’m nearly 40. I can get sex anytime

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SpinningFloppa · 29/09/2022 21:37

You need to ask?

rainbowandglitter · 29/09/2022 21:38

The spelling/grammar would put me off.

GorillaTape · 29/09/2022 21:38

Ponoka7 · 29/09/2022 21:36

It depends on what you wanted out of it and how long you wanted to talk before meeting up. The messages aren't crude.

the chatting has gone stale….. yes no crude but not exactly nice?

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AnyFucker · 29/09/2022 21:38

If you have a problem with his grammar/typos then check your thread title again🫣

But yeah, he sounds like a wazzock

YourWinter · 29/09/2022 21:39

Ugh

arethereanyleftatall · 29/09/2022 21:39

There's plenty of people online who just want a shag, men and women. If that's not what you want, then move on. Plenty do though. No need for the drama.

GorillaTape · 29/09/2022 21:41

AnyFucker · 29/09/2022 21:38

If you have a problem with his grammar/typos then check your thread title again🫣

But yeah, he sounds like a wazzock

No I don’t. I meant I don’t know exactly what he meant…. Cum as in cum with him or come with in for a bath.

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WhatLikeItsHard · 29/09/2022 21:41

After a week, if he's added you on WhatsApp and is now sending slightly suggestive messages to test the waters, but hasn't asked you out on a date...I think it's safe to assume he wants sex, not dates.

arethereanyleftatall · 29/09/2022 21:41

Ah, by the way, don't write 'I'm still in bed' one week in, if you're not meaning you want to sext!

GorillaTape · 29/09/2022 21:41

SpinningFloppa · 29/09/2022 21:37

You need to ask?

Yes

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Readaboutyourself · 29/09/2022 21:41

If you want sex then you’ve got it. If you want anything else unmatch.

TastesLikeFlavourlessFizz · 29/09/2022 21:43

Depends on the conversation, I guess but it wouldn’t bother me and - in my experience - wouldn’t indicate he just wants sex. It’s just banter.

However, if I wasn’t into him or the rest of the conversation wasn’t doing it for me, I’d find it boring.

LivingMyBestLie · 29/09/2022 21:47

I think you're taking it too seriously. He's just trying to flirt (very predictably).

Dunnoburt · 29/09/2022 21:48

Even I have the "ick"......move along the bus 😷

XmasTreeOh · 29/09/2022 21:53

His spelling would put me off - I know I’m bitch

ChocHaloTop · 29/09/2022 21:55

I would move on because his banter is rubbish.

PinkButtercups · 29/09/2022 21:56

Hinge or Unhinged?

butterfliedtwo · 29/09/2022 21:57

arethereanyleftatall · 29/09/2022 21:39

There's plenty of people online who just want a shag, men and women. If that's not what you want, then move on. Plenty do though. No need for the drama.

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