My DS is in pre school. He's 3. He's young for the year. Hopes to go to reception at same school next year.
DS is hard work. Gets v angry at being told no. Quite strange behaviour. Poor language
Bolts a lot. Always much better behaved at nursery or with family than with me. He's also v loving, hilarious, always gives his food to his brother, long cuddles etc
Anyway. He's potty trained but I have no idea why but he's started weeing in his pants. The pre school have specifically said they expect all kids to be potty trained. He is. Has been since before summer. No idea where this has come from. They really don't like it though.
Today he pushed some toys over. Doesnt listen to them. Very stern staff (traditional private school - distant family member paying for him to go there - we thought structure would be good for him). Now being called in and the dreaded "he makes it difficult for the other children"
I feel it in my bones that are on their way to getting him to leave
I go from thinking F them to thinking its all my fault. They are right he doesn't listen but they don't seem to want to work with me at all. No empathy.
My DH is just being horrible about it all. My other younger kid clings to me like a monkey. Screams if I put her down for one second. Work is a joke. No sleep. Mortgage probs through the roof.
I feel like giving up. Honestly. I donf know what that means but I can't keep on like this. This meeting on Monday has pushed me over the edge I swear. My son is 3 and I'm being called into the school. I'm an embarrassment.
AIBU?
To think 3 is too young to get chucked out of school?
OneDayIWillDivorceHim · 29/09/2022 19:52
Am I being unreasonable?
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RocketPanda · 29/09/2022 20:06
Sounds like he's ND, trying to hold it together in nursery ( which is stressing him hence the wetting) and falling apart and lashing out at home.
I say that as a ND person myself and parent of both ND and NT children.
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